If you have a crush on another person and would like them to reciprocate your feelings, there are a few strategies you can use to get their attention. Try first to befriend her by giving her your support and learning about her interests and hobbies. Show her all your wonderful qualities, such as your sense of humor, your sense of style and your self-confidence. By making her understand that you really care about getting to know her, and thanks to small gestures, such as smiling and looking her in the eye, you may be able to conquer her.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Create a Friendship
Step 1. Become a true friend
The best romantic relationships are those that start out as friendships. Make a commitment to be the best friend possible by helping the other person when they need it, listening carefully, and showing your support at every opportunity.
- Listen to the person you like when they tell you about a bad day, exciting milestones they have achieved, or whatever is on their mind.
- Support her by cheering on her when she plays on their own volleyball team, helping her study for a test, or bringing her a cake when she's feeling sad.
Step 2. Find out what she is passionate about
Find out about his preferences for music, sports, books, and hobbies. Knowing what she likes, you will have conversation topics and may even find a common interest to share.
- For example, you may both be passionate about volunteering in retirement homes, sailing, and woodworking.
- Discover her passions by asking her what interests her, asking her friends questions or visiting her profiles on social networks.
Step 3. Ask her questions about her interests and life
This is one of the best ways to show interest in another person and, at the same time, establish a strong bond. Ask her about her family, pets, hobbies, and any other topics that will help you get to know her better. By doing this, you show that you are involved and interested in their life.
- For example, you might ask her what she would like to study in college, what are the names of her pets, or how she learned to play the guitar.
- By asking questions, you will likely encourage her to ask you about your life so that you both learn more about each other.
Step 4. Listen when he speaks
Show the other person that you are good at listening by looking at them when they speak, without interrupting them. Try to remember the things she said to you so that she knows that you really listen to her and that you want to know more about her.
- Show her that you are really listening to her by looking into her eyes and nodding as she talks to you.
- If you talk to the person you like by text or on social networks, try to respond promptly and think carefully about what you write.
- For example, if she had mentioned in the past that she loves a certain musician, you can let her know that that artist is giving a concert near your city, so that she will understand that you are attentive to her interests.
Step 5. Spend a lot of time with her
The more time you spend with a person, the more likely they are to develop an attraction to you. Try to hang out as much as possible, in a group, with a few friends or alone.
Try various activities when you are together, for example go to the cinema, take a walk in the park with friends or eat together in the canteen
Method 2 of 3: Show your best
Step 1. Take care of personal hygiene
This means you should brush your teeth, take a shower, and put on deodorant. Maintain good hygiene by washing your face every day with soap and water. If you take care of yourself, you will look and feel more attractive.
- Wash your hair once every two days, applying conditioner after shampooing if desired.
- Always wear clean clothes so you can be sure you smell good and look good.
Step 2. Show your playful and fun side
If the person you like sees you in a good mood, they will be more inclined to spend time with you for fun. Try telling her funny anecdotes about yourself or just keep a relaxed and funny attitude when you are with her so that she sees your sense of humor.
- You can joke with the person you like and provoke them a little bit, with a gentle push or pat.
- When you're together or texting, show her your wit or make some nice jokes.
Step 3. Dress in clothes that show off your style
Choose trendy pieces that you really like and that look good on you. Try not to wear some clothes just because they are trendy or because you think the other person might like them. Select a type of clothing that makes you feel confident and that reflects your personality.
- If you want to look trendy and feminine, find loose dresses or sweaters with prints or designs that you like.
- To show your interests, wear skinny jeans and a T-shirt with the logo of your favorite band.
Step 4. Maintain an aura of mystery
Instead of immediately telling the person you like all about yourself, try to go step by step and get to know yourself little by little. Always talking about you, you would suffocate her. On the contrary, she gradually reveals all aspects of you and she will be more and more curious about you.
If she asks you a question about your life, like "What do you like to do in your free time?", You can answer her and then ask her something, so that the conversation flows naturally
Step 5. Be yourself
Try not to behave differently than you usually do and don't pretend that you are interested in things you don't like just to win the person you have a crush on. When you are truly yourself, you exude more confidence and positive energies than the person playing a part, so you will be more attractive to others. Respect your individuality and don't worry if the other person doesn't understand how great you are.
Share your passions with her so you can show her what interests you and find out if you have common interests
Method 3 of 3: Using Body Language
Step 1. Smile as much as possible
With a smile, you will instantly improve your look, so this is the easiest way to attract the person you like. Try to smile more often when you are with her, even if you don't speak to her directly. You will naturally look and feel happier!
- Smile at her when you pass her in the hallways or when you talk to her about your plans for the weekend.
- If you're texting her or on social media, send her a smiley face.
Step 2. Make eye contact to show your interest
When he looks at you, catch his eye for a few seconds before changing direction. By making eye contact, you let her know that you like her and you might arouse similar feelings in her too.
- When you talk to her, look her in the eye.
- If she notices you are looking at her, make eye contact for a few seconds, then smile at her.
Step 3. Get close when you talk to her
This way, you show her that you are interested in what she is saying or doing. Whether you're sitting in front of her at a table or standing a few inches away, try to get a few inches closer to show your involvement.
- For example, if you are sitting in separate desks in the classroom, lean your body towards her when you ask her a question or when you tell her about your day.
- Pointing the body towards another person is a sign of attraction.
Step 4. Pay attention to your posture
You will look more attractive and confident with great posture. Sit or stand with your back straight, shoulders relaxed and held back. Also, avoid crossing your arms.
Avoid hunching your back forward when walking or sitting at a table
Step 5. Laugh at his jokes
As you do this, playfully strike and delicate the person you like on your shoulder, so that they know you are listening to what they say. However, don't overdo it or you'll look weird.
Advice
- Avoid getting glued to your phone when you're with the person you like.
- Try dating the person you have a crush on as a group if the idea of spending time alone with them makes you nervous.
- Compliment someone you like to show interest in them.
- Try to be direct and confess how you feel about the other person; you never know, it could reciprocate.
- Remember to always feel confident, no matter what!
