A girl knows you like her, but you're not sure she likes you. How to find out and get closer to her.
Steps
Step 1. First of all you need to know if "she" likes you too
Ask a friend who "knows" her at least a little if she likes you. Something like "Do you like _? I was thinking about the way you look at him, and the way you smile at him. I think he hit you."
Step 2. Ask another friend to ask her what affects her in boys
Don't completely change yourself, but show that aspect she likes most often.
Step 3. Ask her out
Girls don't usually ask guys out, because they're shy, and some are tied to the classic 'It's the boys who invite the girls.'
Step 4. Talk to her more often
Tell her jokes, make her feel happy when she's with you. Get to know her and be comfortable with her.
Step 5. Take an interest in the activities she does
If he's in a choir, then you could join in too, or offer to help out. Try to do things that can show you off in front of her.
Step 6. Flirt
During class, look at her and make sure she sees you too. Eye contact is vital, it shows her that you care!
Step 7. Ask her for her notes
When taking notes, ask her to see hers to make sure you have everything written down. When you're done, leave her a note. Like 'Beautiful handwriting.' Or, the best thing you can do is compliment her on something you fear telling her out of shyness.
Step 8. If you want his number ask him, for example if you follow his own courses, ask him "in case you are missing something"
Step 9. Get her email address, IM, anything that can help you talk to her
Step 10. If she is talking about something personal, this is a good sign that she likes you and doesn't want to put any barriers between you
Advice
- Don't lie to her, as this will end your relationship before it even starts!
- Don't try to impress her too much, just be yourself. You will like it more!
- Don't say vulgar things, it makes the girls run away.
Warnings
- If she doesn't like you, give her some time - maybe she'll like you in the future. At least he'll know you like him. This will likely lead to her looking at you differently once she is sure of your feelings.
- Some girls are very emotional so be careful, it's likely you haven't done this before, so try to be understanding!
