Have you ever met that person you've always dreamed of dating, and would like to reciprocate the interest? Well: this is the article for you, read on …
Steps
Step 1. Find out who you have a crush on
Step 2. Find out who you like
Of course, it may seem silly, as if your parents are now walking into your room and asking you "So who do you like?". Well, your parents also got a crush on someone at some point in their life. But seriously - think about that person you pass in the hallway who makes you smile, or who you think is pleasant, good looking, etc. If you already know who you like, you are ready to take the next step.
Step 3. Flirt
You can be the best person in this world at flirting, or maybe the worst. But all you have to do is come up with a few jokes and act very friendly and nonchalant. You may initially feel stuck with shyness, but remember that if you really want to show what you are feeling, you have to go for it. Don't flinch… go for it! (I recommend, no flirting too serious, otherwise the situation will quickly become awkward.)
Step 4. Tell him
If flirting isn't your thing, don't worry! All you have to do is say what you feel. When it happened that I first revealed my feelings to a guy, he responded by saying, “Wow, what a relief! I like you too! . And the rest is history… but anyway, back to us, face your crush and say clearly what you think. But nothing too serious like:
- "I love you!"
- "Marry me!"
- "I dream of you every night!"
- (Remember, you just have to soften the person by telling them you like them … no superfluous information!).
Step 5. Maybe say something like:
Hey, I think I feel something for you …
Step 6. Accept the consequences
If the person you have a crush on doesn't return interest, accept the situation and stay friends. Obviously, if that's not the case …
Advice
- Don't change your personality for someone you like.
- Be strong and keep your confidence.
- If you want to be prepared for anything, think about the possible positive consequences as well as the negative ones, and prepare something to say either way.
- Don't act unpleasant - if you find that the other person doesn't like you, reacting negatively will only make things more awkward.
- Be optimist. Think: "My feelings will be reciprocated", not: "It will definitely go wrong …".
