Girls should learn to be more daring. But, when it comes to boys, this becomes difficult, because it is believed that men have to take the first step. However, you can muster some courage and remind yourself that if the guy you're interested in already likes you, coming forward will be less awkward than you think.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Before Asking Him Out
Step 1. Don't be afraid to be sure of yourself
If you know for sure they like you, don't be afraid to step forward. By the way, self-esteem is attractive and will make a difference in your approach.
Before you ask him, make sure he likes you. This is the hardest part, but after that it will all be downhill
Step 2. Keep flirting with him
You probably already are, but it won't hurt to encourage him a little more. Who knows, seeing you open, he might immediately ask you to leave.
- Make fun of him if he is successful in a certain activity, so you don't run the risk of him getting offended:
- Let him know you appreciate him. A little sarcasm is good, but mix it with sincerity:
- Comfort him when he's down. Maybe it doesn't prove anything, but try to recognize his sad moments:
For example, if he's good at football, tell him “I didn't know you played that bad! I shouldn't have come to the game!”
”Hey, thanks for helping me. I know I can always count on you”
Don't worry about Simone, ok? He's an idiot and he knows it. Don't let it make you feel bad. You are much better than him, however
Step 3. If you have not already done so, break the barrier of physical contact
Here's how to gesturally communicate your affection before doing it with words.
- Learn to touch his hand, arm and shoulder. When you want to reiterate a concept, approach him and touch his hand. When you want to remind him of something or try to be serious, touch his arm or shoulder. This will make him shiver.
- Pretend you're bored and lean your head on his shoulder and make eye contact if he looks at you.
Part 2 of 2: Ask him
Step 1. Plan a special day to spend together
It could be a date or something you usually do, like going to a coffee shop for a coffee. He doesn't have to know it's a date unless he asks you for confirmation. If so, you will really let him know that you like him.
- You can try something like this:
- “Hey, my dad gave me two tickets to go to the movies on Saturday but my best friend has another commitment. Can you be a better friend than her and accompany me?”.
- “I wanted to go hiking in the mountains, but no one is going to accompany me. Would you like to go with me on Sunday? ".
- For example, talk about the things that interest him. Ask him questions about topics that excite him. Once started, the conversation will begin to flow and you will have a lot to tell each other.
- Talk about funny things. Laughing is great for chemistry. Share jokes that are understandable only to the two of you. Tease him lightly, remember to touch his arm or shoulder, let him carry him on his shoulders and ask him to do an imitation of one of your professors.
- Is the breath fresh? If he wants to kiss you, you have to be ready. Chew a mint.
- Are the hair and make up okay? Apply lip balm (not a gloss or lipstick).
- Do you feel confident in yourself? If you aren't, it's best to wait, but don't worry.
- Short and sweet: “You may have already figured it out, but I like you so much. I hope you feel the same and that we can go out together again next weekend”.
- Long and heartfelt: “It is difficult for me to confess what I am about to tell you, but I have to do it. I've liked you since we became friends. As time went by, I did nothing but notice your qualities and, when we started talking, I felt even more into you”.
- Bring mints with you, especially when you're on a date with him.
- Smile: Guys like sunny girls (but only do it if you really feel it, or it'll be clear that you're faking it).
- Try to be yourself as much as possible. The right guy will like you for who you are.
- Don't cause tension when you are alone together.
- Wait until the right time.
- Talk to him more often and try to address relationships to better understand his interests.
- When getting dressed for the first date, don't go overboard with the neckline. Choose cute but comfortable clothes.
- Tell him you think his eyes are a beautiful color. He will look at you deeply, creating a romantic moment.
- You can also playfully tease him about a part of him you like.
- Most guys prefer to feel like conquerors, but don't sit idle: send signals to what you like.
- When planning a special outing, you don't necessarily have to show him that you have put a lot of effort into the organization.
- If you go to high school, remember that gossip runs fast, so be careful who you tell about your crush.
- If you often ask him questions like “Does this skirt make me look fat?” He'll think you're vain and hard to please.
- If this guy seems to be a serial conqueror and has had a lot of girlfriends, maybe he's only interested in you for fun - better avoid it so as not to be disappointed.
Step 2. During the date, keep the conversation light and take the opportunity to flirt with him every now and then
This will serve to build the relationship and encourage chemistry between you. Don't tell him directly that you like him, he comes gradually at the right time.
Step 3. Before asking, make sure everything is under control
Are you in a public place? Apologize and go to the bathroom to check the following:
Step 4. Go ask him
Wait for the right time, which may be at the end of the appointment. Here are a couple of options:
Step 5. Wait for his response
You gave him the perfect opportunity to open up to you, so better take it! He will probably answer you in a nice and romantic way. Remember to smile and look him in the eye. He will feel safe and will try to kiss you. But, if it doesn't, don't worry - there will be time to do it.
Step 6. Plan your next outing together
Maybe he will do it automatically after you tell him how you feel. Does he seem to hesitate? Say to Him:
