Do you feel like it? Are you hot? Do you want to excite your partner and make him feel great? Do you just want to let off steam a bit and let yourself go or do you need pampering? Well: here are some proven ways to make your partner feel that you love him.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: First Method: For Him
Step 1. Woo her
Taking her out to dinner or to the cinema is a nice idea, but not a romantic one. Being romantic means knowing how to treat her well. Hear it! Ask her how her day went, talk to her about things that interest her, whatever those things are. (You know what interests her, right?) Compliment her on her appearance, her clothing and even her smile: the important thing is that you are sincere.
Don't be stingy with compliments! If the dress she wears makes her "hotter" than Sicily in August, tell her! Don't be too direct, but if you notice that she has put herself in the game to be admired, let her know that you appreciate her
Step 2. Flirt with her
Allusive or direct comments, thrown here and there in the conversation, will let her know that you find her attractive.
Step 3. Be confident
Women prefer partners who believe in themselves to those who are insecure. You may be forced to bluff, but remember: the more you pretend to be confident, the more confidence you will gain. This way, both of you will be satisfied.
Step 4. Kiss her
When you know the time is right, kiss her. Do not undergo a tonsillectomy from the first kiss, however, or she will laugh at you for thirty years to come. The butterfly kiss is also to be avoided. Kiss her following your instincts and maybe teasing her lips with your teeth and tongue.
Be careful of his reactions! If she pulls you away when you try to kiss her, it means that the time is not yet right. You will try again another time. If he does, pay attention to his body language. If he kisses you, but with caution, do not go further until he makes you understand that he agrees
Step 5. Touch it
Caress his body paying particular attention to secondary erogenous zones. Put your hands in her hair and bring her towards you kissing her passionately. Grab her hair and pull it, but lightly, not like a caveman. Don't neglect your neck, shoulders and arms.
Step 6. Talk to her
Tell her how much fun you enjoy being with her and how much you like her way of kissing, dressing, being. Let her know it makes you feel good.
Step 7. Keep stroking her
The inside of the arms and thighs are very sensitive areas which, if kissed and caressed, can seriously heat the atmosphere. Continue to gradually explore his body and you will see that he will get more and more aroused.
Step 8. Use your body language to make her understand what you want
Place it on top of you so you have everything within easy reach of a kiss. Then, get on top of her and kiss her with even more passion.
Step 9. Take off her clothes and repeat everything you've done so far
At this point, the foreplay is over. Now it's all in your hands. We trust you. Don't forget to take precautions!
Method 2 of 2: For you
Step 1. Treat him the way he treats you
Let's be honest: getting a guy on is so simple that you don't need this article to know how to do it. However, if you want to make love and you want him to please you, there are some things you could do to drive him crazy.
Step 2. Woo him
He will fill you with gifts and compliments, he will hold the door for you, he will take you to dinner and to the cinema. That's what kids usually do. If you want him to keep doing this even after a year or two you've been together, let him know that you appreciate this kind of attention; otherwise, tell him to stop. It's best to be honest because, in the long run, pretending will certainly end your story. Anyway, let's say you like this attention and you want it to continue. If you let him know by kissing him or giving him a good squeeze, you can be sure he will continue.
Step 3. Dress for success
You can go far thanks to a small neckline. Not to mention where a plunging neckline might take you. By dressing up in a provocative way, you will challenge him not to look down and look into your eyes, you will make sure that he stays with you and you can play to seduce him.
Step 4. Flirt with him and be flirty
You could lick a spoon in a suggestive way or tell him that you find it attractive. It is useless to repeat that children are basically primitives; it doesn't take long to get them excited. Remember that although they want to be in control, it is up to you to set the rules of the game.
Step 5. Trust yourself
Kissing someone who is insecure or who is afraid they are not doing the "right thing" is not exciting at all. If your goal is to turn him on, then show him. Don't hide your desire behind a mask of social and political correctness.
Step 6. Let him know how to kiss you
When he takes the first step and kisses you, you kiss him back by kissing him exactly the way you would like him to kiss you. If you like fiery, energetic kisses, then kiss him greedily. If, on the other hand, you prefer pecks on the lips, at least at the beginning, kiss him like this and gently reject any attempt of a passionate kiss until you feel ready.
Step 7. Be determined
He likes to know he's not the only one who wants it. You don't need to hit him on the ground or rip his clothes off; just take the initiative, starting to kiss him and explore his body. If he works out, show him that you appreciate his physique. He'll love it since he worked hard to be cute.
Step 8. Let him lead, but under your guidance
When you feel ready to be touched in more intimate areas, let your body speak for you. Indeed, sometimes you will have to take his hand and put it where you want him to put it, but in general he gets there by himself.
Step 9. Make yourself heard
If you like what he is doing, you don't need to say "I like it"; a simple "MMMmmmmm" is enough. If you really like what he is doing, go wild with the squeals. If you want to hear about rubbish, start saying it first so that he knows it doesn't bother you.
Step 10. If you want him to get "for real" when he starts taking off your clothes, don't let him
Undress alone! Be decisive and seductive! When he tries to touch you (and he sure will), stop him. Does he want to touch your leg? You touch it! Keep doing this until both of you can't resist anymore. Finally, take precautions! '
Step 11. Repeat these steps often
Advice
- Romance helps.
- Learn what turns your partner on.
- Kiss and caress each other intensely.
- Use shields or do tests before having unprotected sex.
- Make yourself desired! Don't give in too quickly.
- You have to be available, but you don't have to do anything you don't want too. Don't be forced to do things you don't want to do. Respect your limits!
- Girls like to be looked in the eye as they talk. It can make them really horny.
- Run your hand through his hair to break the ice.
