Is there a girl trying to take your boyfriend away? Sometimes it is not easy to understand. You will need to keep a close eye on her to see if what she is doing is beyond just flirting. If this girl goes out of her way to be close to your boyfriend and to please him, then you are in trouble. It is important to know how things stand as soon as possible so you can make your next move.
Steps
Step 1. Observe it
Do they give you the impression of dating? If he's always trying to interfere in your conversations or hang out with him, that's a bad sign! He could (but that's not certain) betray you or leave you for her. If you are in a serious relationship and your feelings are sincere, you need to address the situation by speaking out to your boyfriend, telling him what you think, and asking him to stop dating that girl. If he loves you and respects you, he'll do what you asked him to do, but you'll want to keep an eye on him anyway, for a little while longer.
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Do you watch it all the time? When you get the chance, look around to see which of the girls in attendance seem to be focusing their eyes on your boyfriend often. This way you will be able to understand who cares about him, but you will not know who will be the one making the move (if he intends to).
Step 2. See if they flirt together
Do they flirt? But maybe it's better to say, she flirt? Do you try to get his attention with exuberant demeanor, yelling and then checking to see if he looks at her? These are the signs of the he's trying with him; therefore you will have to warn her that it is yours. Or, ask him not to be his friend.
Step 3. See what happens in certain situations
When you arrive while they are together, what does she do? He goes away? If so, this means that he is not comfortable; take it as your advantage. Or, does it say something like "Let's do it one more time, when we can be alone"? So, he's definitely trying!
Step 4. Always be aware of potential dangers
That doesn't mean becoming paranoid and jealous, and therefore a nuisance for your boyfriend! He may find you unpleasant and look for someone else who is less heavy than you.
Step 5. Always dress carefully
Wear clean clothes, take a shower every day and try to smell good, comb your hair and keep your shoes clean! Appearances also play an important part in keeping a guy! Because, of course, you want to look prettier than potential rivals, so he'll be proud to be with you too!
Step 6. Get an idea of what you are looking for
The more flirtatious a girl is, the more likely she is to try to blow it. It doesn't matter what, but don't leave never your boyfriend to a girl who flirts with him all the time! If he was expecting something serious, it could hurt him. Also, you don't know what exactly they did, so if you and him get back together, you may not feel so confident anymore. Be strong and don't let this happen!