Have you set your sights on a special girl and can't stop thinking about her? Are you too shy and afraid of making a mess? Do not worry! The following steps will help you.
Steps
Step 1. Get to know it
If you want her to be with you, it is essential to understand if at least she has noticed you before you ask her out.
Step 2. Become his friend and act like a gentleman
Do nice things for her. If you are in the same class, keep the door open for her and help her when she seems in trouble. Don't ask her every day if she needs help, or you will make her feel uncomfortable. Engage in conversation. Ask her what she thinks about the school, what sports she practices, etc.
Step 3. If you want me to be your girlfriend, make sure she's single
If she's not, you will know from the first conversation (for example, she tells you she has to meet her boyfriend!), Or you will see her with him in the corridors of the school, so you will not need to investigate that much. If you know a friend of hers and you know you can trust her, ask her openly if she's single and don't tell her anything.
Don't be discouraged if a guy you think is her boyfriend is being aggressive towards you. It could just be a friend (at least to her) who has a secret crush. She is also likely to regard him as a brother, eliminating any possibility of a romantic relationship between them. Unless she too shows some romantic feelings towards her, or tells you he's her boyfriend, chances are your rival is just trying to get away from you. Don't be afraid to compete with other guys in this situation, they have already lost the battle and are denying reality
Step 4. Attend it
Often, but not too often. Leave her alone for a day to give her time to think about you, as a person and as a friend.
Advice
- Don't call her or text her too often. He'll think you're pushy.
- Flirt with her, but not too much. Be simple and sweet and show her that you care and that you will be close to her.
- You can also hug her, but not too much. She will understand that you have feelings for her. Don't squeeze her for more than 3 seconds and only do it every now and then, unless she likes it.
- You don't have to be her boyfriend to ask her out; it can also be just a casual date.
- Give her a gift, even a little thought to make her smile.
Warnings
- Never push her to do something that makes her uncomfortable, such as, for example, kissing you too soon (even if you've been dating for a while, she may not be ready yet), have sex, etc. If she says no, respect her. Don't try to make her feel guilty to get her to do what you want; you will find yourself single or make her miserable.
- Don't put her in situations where she can't say no; for example, when you are with friends, in a group, etc.
