Kissing a girl in a movie is the classic move most people have tried. The hardest part is having the courage to invite her out, but once you get to the date, the tension will begin to ease. Everyone likes to kiss, so the girl is very likely to want it too. The best advice you can follow when trying to take the initiative is to relax: she has agreed to go out with you, so calm down and kiss her!
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Organizing the Evening
Step 1. Study film programming
Use the Internet to explore alternatives and find the most appropriate movie for this circumstance. There are many applications for smartphones that allow you to know the times of the nearest cinemas.
Step 2. Choose the movie
Find a movie that you have already seen or that is not too compelling. It can be tricky, especially considering how much cinema admission costs these days. To have a better time, wait until the movie you want to see has been showing for a month or two. If you think or know that the girl wants to see something in particular, you suggest it.
- The ideal would be to choose a film for which there will not be too many viewers.
- Consider the duration. You should decide if you prefer to see a film that lasts three hours or one that lasts an hour and a half.
Step 3. Consider the gender
Maybe it's not so good to kiss in front of a very demanding movie. So choose a comedy, romantic comedy or horror. These are genres that attract even fewer viewers than big blockbusters.
Step 4. Ask her for a suggestion
You better be in tune. One of the best ways to set the mood when you're at the cinema is to study the trailers together. Be determined if there is something you want to see, but it doesn't matter. In the end, you will have to choose together.
Part 2 of 3: Creating the Right Atmosphere
Step 1. Make an appointment early
That way you'll have a chance to flirt with her before the movie starts. Since he's agreed to go out with you, you shouldn't be nervous this part of the night - just be yourself.
Step 2. Offer her a game
A great way to get in the mood is to challenge yourself to an arcade game. Every now and then look her in the eye.
Don't be too competitive. A pinch may be fine, but if you take the game too seriously, it could ruin your chances
Step 3. Offer her something
It is a nice gesture of courtesy to offer a bucket of popcorn and a few drinks to consume together. If this is one of your first dates with this girl, as a man you should be the one offering.
Step 4. Choose your seats
Choose the armchairs that seem farther away. Try somewhere in the back row or in the corner. The ideal is to find seats that are not too close to other spectators.
Step 5. Soften your lips
Apply a thin layer of lip balm before your appointment to make sure you don't have chapped lips. However, don't overdo it by spreading cocoa butter all night long. You would give the impression that you are nervous or too eager to kiss her. Keep calm.
Step 6. Bring a pack of breath mints
Maybe you bought a can of Coke, but you just need to keep the mints in your pocket anyway. You will be glad to have them.
Part 3 of 3: Taking the Initiative
Step 1. Wait for the movie to start
It will seem strange if you make the first move while the opening credits scroll: be patient at least twenty minutes from the start of the screening. The ideal scene during which you can step forward has to be quite slow.
Step 2. Look her in the eye
Don't stand there staring at it. Just throw a few glances every now and then. Continue like this until your eyes meet, then quickly turn to the screen.
If you blush at the same time after you've looked into each other's eyes, that's a good sign
Step 3. Hold her hand
If his hand is visible on the cup holder on the chair, that's a good indication that he'd like me to keep it. Do not go out of the way in this circumstance: gently place your hand on his and wait for it to react to the grip.
Step 4. Analyze the situation
If she leans on the opposite side of the chair, she doesn't want me to kiss her. Check if he fixes the hair behind the ear. This gesture uncovers her neck and is a great sign that she is interested. Use your insight when evaluating his attitude.
Step 5. Start kissing her
Turn to her and gently touch her chin with your fingers. It is a direct and clear signal that tells her: I want to kiss you. Once she moves her head towards yours, slowly start moving yours towards her.
If he doesn't appreciate your attempt, you will have no choice but to sit for the rest of the film, with a bit of a bitter taste in your mouth
Step 6. Evaluate his reaction
If he wants to kiss you again, you'll understand. Behave flawlessly and like a gentleman after the first kiss. Don't be trivial to the point of saying, "Well, it was good" or "Kisses well".
Step 7. Take a few breaks between kisses
Don't keep kissing her nonstop until the movie ends. Kiss her for a while, then go back to looking at the screen. Wait about 20 minutes and then turn back to her. She should agree, if she enjoyed the first kiss.
Guys usually make the first move, so try to have faith in yourself. If you are confident, you will put her at ease
Step 8. Give her some compliments
Once the movie is finished, tell her you were fine, if that's the truth. Let her know that you would like to go out with her again. Don't ask her how she found herself. Be sweet, but don't be afraid to expose yourself.
Advice
- If she likes it, try to make it last!
- Take it one step at a time.
- Try to be discreet.
- Don't kiss her in front of her parents once the movie is over! He will be terribly embarrassed. A gentle hug may be enough. If they aren't there, let her guide you.
- Most of all, remember to be determined - not arrogant. She'll know this from your body language, and she'll be much more likely to kiss you.
- If she touches you, it's unmistakable that she likes you.
- Don't use the old yawn tactic as you put your arm around her neck. It's the oldest makeup in the world - unless you're sure she thinks it's cute.
- If she leans on the armrest on your side, trying not to let you notice it, it is almost always an invitation to take her hand.
- Go to the bathroom before your appointment.
- Don't ask his friends what his impressions of the date are.
Warnings
- Try not to be rushed while kissing her. You will make her uncomfortable and risk bumping into her teeth.
- Make sure there are no soft drink containers between you! They spill easily and can ruin the date instantly.
- Remember that there are other people in the cinema. It is not a problem to give yourself a quick kiss, but kissing yourself constantly could annoy the spectators in the room.
- Try not to hit it with your teeth. Any desire will disappear instantly.
