Although kissing at the cinema might not be the most romantic experience in this world, if you are a kid still in middle school, cinema could be a golden opportunity to steal a kiss. But if you want to be able to kiss a girl during a movie, you have to play your cards right. If you want to know how to kiss a girl during a screening without looking slimy, go to the first step and you will be on your way: ciak si gira!
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Setting the Stage
Step 1. Find out if you are both ready
While many people have their first kiss in middle school, many others aren't ready to share one that soon. If you are still in middle school, you need to figure out if you are ready, as well as your girlfriend. If you have started dating and she has hinted that she would like to get a kiss from you, or shows that she loves you back, then you are on the right track, but you should still try to be as sure as possible before making your move.
Ideally, you should have kissed your girlfriend before the movie to make your kiss in the cinema less awkward. Having your first kiss in the dark isn't that simple
Step 2. Choose a suitable movie
It is important to choose a suitable film that allows you to kiss her. A love story or a carefree plot will help your "her" not to feel uncomfortable while you are kissing her in the middle of the film. Also try not to choose a movie that either of you is dying to see, otherwise you would get too caught up in the plot to think about the kiss. Furthermore, it would be better if the room were not too crowded; choose a movie they have been showing for at least a month. If you end up in the midst of families with children, it would be hard for you to be able to make your move.
Let the girl choose the movie to make her feel special. Ask her if there is anything she really wants to see. But if they say no, then you can choose one yourself
Step 3. Get in the shot
Take a shower before you go out. Brush your teeth well, put on deodorant and dress decently. Also bring mints to freshen your breath. You don't have to wear a jacket and tie, but make sure that the girl understands that you are putting some effort into it; will appreciate the effort you are making and will be more likely to agree to your request. If you dress exactly like when you go to school, you wouldn't make her feel too special.
Step 4. Don't overdo the snacks
You can also grab some popcorn or M & M's if you both want to, but remember that this will make it harder for you to make your move - you will be less likely to be able to steal a kiss with your fingers covered in butter or cheese. If she asks you for popcorn you should buy her without delay, of course. If, on the other hand, he doesn't feel like it, leave the snacks alone and move on to your main purpose.
Step 5. Find armchairs in an uncrowded area
Even if the cinema is a public place, you should try to sit in an area where there are few people. It is almost impossible to have true privacy in a cinema, however you should try to stay as far away as possible from crowds and people who make too much noise. A seat at either side of the room, close to the walls, should be fine; that way you won't bother anyone when you try to kiss your girlfriend.
Try not to make your intentions too obvious. If your girlfriend asks you why you're making such a fuss, just tell her you like to sit on either side of the room
Part 2 of 2: Get Away
Step 1. Slowly put your arm around her neck
Try to be relaxed and confident when doing this. You don't have to be trivial by pretending to yawn and then put your arm on her shoulder; try to be casual. You can be bold enough to put your arm around the backrest before she sits down, or wait for the movie to start. You don't have to assume that she agrees by making your move prematurely and making the girl uncomfortable. Try to get in tune with her: if she reacts well when you try to touch her or show her your affection and you have already hugged her on other occasions, then doing it at the cinema shouldn't be a big problem.
You can also ask her if she feels cold; it is likely that he will say yes, because in the cinema it often freezes. This gives you an excuse to put your arm on her shoulders
Step 2. Come closer
As the film continues, you should try to get as close to the girl as possible. Do it slowly when you feel the time is right, or during a scary or romantic scene from the movie. After putting your arm around his shoulders, move closer until your heads can almost touch. You can caress her arm with yours while you hug her, or you can put your other hand on her knee. Just find a way to make her feel comfortable and make contact.
This is the part where snacks can be a bit of a hindrance. Make sure you don't accidentally spill a soda or juice. If she is enjoying one of the snacks you bought her, it would be advisable to wait until she is finished munching on the food, so you will avoid interrupting her trying to get close
Step 3. Look for signs that she wants to kiss you
If he keeps staring at you or looking at your lips, chances are he wants to kiss you. If she seems a little nervous but seems to like your attention, it is likely that she always wants a kiss. If, however, she keeps pulling back when you try to get closer to her, then chances are she doesn't feel ready yet. Remember that you are only in middle school, many girls have not yet given their first kiss and are not comfortable doing it at that age. Release the pressure or you risk making her uncomfortable.
If she approaches you to comment on the movie or when she laughs, that's another sign that she wants your faces to get closer
Step 4. Make a move
When the time comes, try kissing her. Look into her eyes, brush her cheek and then tilt her head in the direction of yours and move forward until your lips touch; they should touch firmly, without exaggerating. You can only kiss her for a second or two before pulling back. Most middle school girls aren't ready for French kissing, so you shouldn't try to use your tongue if you're not sure if the girl is ready to do it, or both of you would end up having an unpleasant surprise. After a few seconds you can try kissing her again, or sit back and enjoy the movie until you have another chance to give her a second kiss.
Even after the kiss, he continues to shower her with attention. Leave your arm around her shoulder or on her knee so she knows you care
Step 5. End the evening on a positive note
When the film is over, shake her hand and explain that you had a great time and can't wait to go out with her again. Let her know that it is her company that truly interests you, rather than kissing her. Even if you are of an age in which kissing is new and one of the most exciting things you can do, it is also getting to know an interesting girl that you really like. If your kisses are engaging enough (without exaggerating too much), you'll find yourself buying more movie tickets before you know it.
Advice
- Don't say "I love you" just because you want to kiss her: it will make him less special and she will understand your intentions. Only say it if that's what you actually feel. Also, don't speed it up. After all, you're still in junior high.
- Make sure it suits both her parents and yours. You are still young and your parents may have rules regarding kissing.
