The girl you like agreed to see a movie this weekend! What happens now? If you want the evening to be a success, you will need to organize yourself so that everything goes smoothly. Picking a nice movie, getting something good to eat, and setting the mood with the right lighting are all ways to make it a special night out. Read on for some pointers on how to watch a movie with your girlfriend without running into unpleasant surprises.
Steps
Step 1. Invite her
Of course, the first step is to invite her to a movie with you. Make sure you choose a night for him to come. You can do it casually, with a text message or by emailing her, or if you want to be more romantic, write her an old-fashioned letter. You could also just ask him in person. Whatever makes you feel most comfortable is the best choice.
Step 2. Prepare something to eat
Go out and buy some snacks for the two of you. Popcorn (see the "Warnings" section, though), potato chips and / or candy are fine. If you are on a diet or prefer to eat healthier food, try getting some crackers, nuts, and / or vegetables that you both like. Also, if you know of something in particular she likes, then prepare her. She will appreciate that you have thought of her. Don't forget the drinks. Fizzy drinks or fruit juices are great alternatives, but if you prefer something healthier, water is fine too. Again, if you like a certain type of drink, try to get it yourself.
Step 3. Choose a movie that both of you like and try not to fight on it
Try to figure out what kind of movie she likes. Some girls like romantic movies or comedies, while others enjoy violent and horror movies. Think about what type your girlfriend is and what gender she might prefer. If you don't know what to choose, just ask them. It is better to ask rather than make her suffer for an hour and a half or two watching a movie she hates. Also, make sure that you and her like him too, because if he doesn't, he may feel guilty that he is having a good time unlike you and this could ruin the date. When you've decided on the best movie, borrow or buy it (unless you already own it).
Step 4. Prepare the environment
Before it arrives, clean and organize the room where you will see the movie. There must be a comfortable seat for both of you (an armchair, a sofa, etc.). Also, the place you will be sitting with your girlfriend must allow you to be close to her and hug her. Put a blanket in case either of you feels cold so you will also have the opportunity to snuggle up. Make sure there is a table (a coffee table or wall-mounted) so that you can place drinks and snacks. Finally, keep parents and siblings out of the room - they could really ruin your evening!
Step 5. Wait for it to arrive and then play the movie
Let her know where she can get the snacks and drinks and make sure she has everything she needs before starting the movie. If you can, dim or turn off the lights to get more involved in the viewing and to create a more romantic atmosphere.
Step 6. Make your move
She's your girlfriend, so make some romantic gestures during the movie. Whether it's taking her by the hand, putting your arm around her, kissing her or cuddling her, do it! She will like it and will probably expect something from you in one way or another. However, don't go any further, as remember that your family will only be a few rooms away from you and your girlfriend probably won't be ready for something more important.
Advice
- If you choose any snacks that are likely to get stuck between your teeth, like popcorn, beware of this and, if it happens, clean your teeth preferably with your tongue (if you can). Also, it is a good idea to avoid foods that produce "gas", such as blueberries. You don't want to embarrass yourself in front of your girlfriend!
- Prepare more than one movie in case your first choice doesn't go as well as you think or if the movie is ruined.
- Don't do or watch anything you don't want your parents to see, or at least know. They might come in suddenly.
- Turn the phone off. Better yet, put it out of the room (assuming your siblings don't take it). The temptation to use it to text is too strong and even the rings could ruin the evening.
- If you want to "make a move", read her body language and make sure she is involved with you. Otherwise, you risk ruining your evening if you try to kiss her while she isn't ready to do it yet.
- Don't get too stressed out about the date. Relax and enjoy what's to come!
Warnings
- Be prepared for whatever happens and don't wait until the last minute to get ready.
- Don't do anything stupid or else you could get in trouble with your parents or girlfriend.
- Think about some conversation topic before it arrives.
- Her parents may come and pick her up, so make sure the movie isn't too long and that she picks her up on time.
