After a breakup, you may always be in love with your ex girlfriend. This article will help you ask her out again.
Steps
Step 1. Don't expect your ex girlfriend to still be in love with you
Even if it is sad, remember that if she no longer likes you you will not suffer again (unless you go out with someone else and break up again). But if she still likes you, it will be a pleasant surprise when you find out. Try to limit your joy or surprise in front of her.
Step 2. Try to be friends with her, even though it might be embarrassing
If you were friends before dating, try going back to that initial situation.
Step 3. Stay close to her when she has to make decisions or in difficult times, more than a friend would, but less than a boyfriend would
That way she'll know that you still care about her. Worry and suffer with her.
Step 4. Ask her to speak privately
Don't tell her why, let her ask herself. Don't talk to her on the phone, in text messages, or on the internet. It has to be a direct, face-to-face conversation.
Step 5. Do something while you speak
Take a walk or whatever. Make sure you are alone, in a calm and peaceful place.
Step 6. Establish the basics and move towards the end
Say something like, “I'm sure you already know I'm still in love with you (even though you know I may not know), and that I had a great time with you. I wanted to ask you if we could go out together sometime. If you want we can start over, or continue where we left off. What do you think about it? Would you give me another chance? " You could also add something like: "I know I was wrong the first time", or: "I'm so sorry for what I did"
Step 7. Think before you speak
If you've been together, you should know her and know how she thinks. Be prepared for sure answers or explain why you broke up. If it was your fault, make sure he knows how sorry you are.
Step 8. Remember that if you get back together you must avoid ending up in the situation that made you leave
Don't remind him, because he might start worrying.
Advice
- Make sure that after the breakup you don't start blaming her or her friends. Take responsibility and don't take it out on his friends. You certainly don't want to piss them off before asking your ex to go out with you again, because friends have a lot of influence on a girl's choices.
- Do not make the topic of the conversation obvious.
- During the conversation, you might pause before asking the big question, turn to her, take her hands, and look her in the eye. Whether you stop or not, watch her ask the question.
Warnings
- Girls can give answers that no one can predict or imagine. Think about everything that happened between the two of you so that you can understand and connect what he says.
- Remember that your ex may have already moved on. If he has, remember that you can always be friends.
