At last, you heard two magical words from his mouth! No, he didn't say "I love you", but "You are beautiful". A long, awkward pause dominates the conversation as your boyfriend waits for the right answer. You don't want to sound arrogant, but you don't want to sound insecure either. You're going haywire because if you ignore his compliment you risk being unforgivable, almost as if you say the wrong thing, and you may even hurt his feelings. However, the next time you find yourself in this situation you will know how to respond to this sweet compliment.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Demonstrate Your Appreciation
Step 1. Thank him
Accept his compliment, without bragging about it. By doing this, you will show that you are confident, but not presumptuous.
Step 2. Show him that you care
If the compliment you received means a lot to you, respond by saying, "I really appreciate it" or "What you just said is very nice." Show him what feelings his words convey to you and how much they value to you. If you want to be sweet, you can also end with a hug and a kiss.
Step 3. Answer with a question
Tell him: "Ah, so do you think?" or "Really?". It's not a way to refuse a compliment, but to not be arrogant. If you keep adding, "You're cute too," "I love you," or "You're so sweet," he won't feel pressured to answer. In fact, you're thanking him, as well as returning the compliment.
Step 4. Make eye contact
Watch him compliment you and try to put on an affectionate expression. This way, you will let him know that you are listening and that you appreciate his compliments. If you look down, however, you will appear disinterested.
Step 5. Maintain a positive tone of voice
Try to let him know that you appreciated the compliment you received and that it didn't make you uncomfortable at all. Answer him in a cheerful tone.
Step 6. Try flirting
You don't have to flatter him, but it might be nice to respond with a compliment if the situation allows. Reciprocate by telling him what you like about him. You could simply reply with "Thank you! You're not bad either" or "I was just thinking about how much I like you."
Part 2 of 2: Behave Amiably
Step 1. Don't argue
By saying "That's not true," you show that you have little self-confidence or that you are looking for the approval of others. Since you are facing someone who thinks you are beautiful, accept their compliment. Do not contradict her, otherwise there is a risk that she will not tell you again.
Step 2. Don't protest
Saying "You are sweet" is fine, but it is not at all polite to object or even change the subject as if he hadn't said anything. He may feel unappreciated and stop complimenting you.
Step 3. Avoid looking smug or conceited
"I know it!" is another bad answer. You will not be absolutely grateful, just very presumptuous. Self-confidence is a nice quality, but nobody likes arrogance.
Step 4. Don't go hunting for compliments
If you ask "How am I?", You are looking for compliments. You've already received one, so avoid looking cheeky or greedy for attention. He will feel pressured to answer you or compelled to give you more compliments. On the contrary, if he doesn't answer, you will feel mortified.
Step 5. Don't overwhelm him with compliments
Just because he has expressed appreciation doesn't mean you have to do the same. If you'd rather reciprocate, you might say, "You're not bad either." Just don't overdo it and don't try to divert attention from yourself.
