Unfortunately, if you are a girl sometimes guys may tell you that you are ugly. Nobody likes to be made fun of, right? Also, if you have low self-esteem, after such an episode you will probably wonder if the guy is right and you will start to feel uncomfortable. Are you really gonna let him get away with insulting you like that? And are you going to take this seriously?
Steps
Step 1. Consider who is telling you that you are ugly
Is he one of your best friends? Can you tell if he's just fooling you or is a guy who seems to hate you and insults you on a regular basis? Maybe he's your nasty ex-boyfriend or just an idiot walking by?
Step 2. If he's kidding you, a friendly tap and a joke back will do
If he's saying it with offensive intentions, you can either send him to that country or just ignore him.
Step 3. If you start wondering if the guy was really joking, take a look in the mirror, especially if it's not the first time someone has told you
Is there anything you are doing to hide your unique characteristics? Do you always bite your lip? Do you stare at the floor? Do you hide your face with your hair? Remember: everyone is beautiful in their own way, some inside, some outside, others both ways. Everyone has different ideas about beauty and not everyone sees it in the same things. Accept that you will always be judged by certain people for your appearance. It depends on you what they judge you for, a smile or a frown; Do you want to be obsessed with your looks or have so much fun that you don't care how you look?
Step 4. Don't let this ruin your life
A comment shouldn't get you down. Walk confidently and have fun.
Step 5. If it's your boyfriend, find someone else who isn't a complete idiot
Step 6. Be superior
If you understand that "ugly" is a weak and childish insult, respond in a polite and adult way. Thank whoever called you that and tell them they are very kind, then leave. People freak out when they can't get satisfaction.
Step 7. Remember that mature adults don't generally go around telling others they're ugly
As annoying and pathetic as it is, you won't have to put up with the childish behavior of certain people for your entire life.
Step 8. Answer in kind if you wish
Sometimes, saying something that makes the person who insulted you or others around you laugh can make you feel better. Some answers to the situation are: "I am ugly, you are immature: no one is perfect", "Yes, I am ugly, I take from my father … do you have any idea what your father looks like?", "Yes, I am ugly, I he knows I'm a little behind in sleep. What's your excuse? "," Yeah, I'm ugly. It's called acne / a birthmark / Treacher Collins syndrome / keloid (or whatever ailment you can proudly mention). C 'is a medical term for people who point out the most mundane obvious? ".
Advice
- Do your best not to overthink it. You are a unique person. Don't believe what they say.
- Don't change anything about yourself just because someone wants you to or is implying that you should. Change only for yourself.
- Remember that a guy might tell you that you are ugly or that you dress weird or something because he already has a girlfriend. He obviously doesn't want to be left or his girlfriend thinks he really likes you! What he says is not true, so be careful! If he's not interested in you, don't think about it too much and have a laugh! There are other guys you will like.
- If a guy says you're ugly, he might just be bad… but maybe he likes you!
- Typically, a guy tells a girl that she's ugly only when she can't say anything else to get a reaction. If you show yourself hurt, you will play his game. When you want to hurt someone, you usually mention something personal, but to say that you are 'ugly' is nothing personal: it is just a general expression of anger or frustration. Realize that if a guy says you're ugly and you're not at all, he's just trying to make you feel bad, but he's too silly to think of a real insult. 'Ugly' is one of the most vague and useless insults there is, like 'stupid'. Don't let it hurt you more than someone calling you a stinker.
- Unfortunately, even if you are very pretty, but you are not a popular girl or you don't fit the crowd, the most popular guys will say that you are ugly in order not to lose your reputation. Be careful if any of them smiles at you secretly or gives you romantic looks. She probably doesn't think you're ugly at all!
- To feel beautiful every day, try looking in the mirror every morning: name 10 things that make you physically attractive and 10 things that make you beautiful inside. This will make you feel good, look good, and have the confidence to keep your distance from the person calling you ugly.
- Try to ignore anyone who tells you you're ugly. There are a lot of guys around you who will appreciate you the most. Beauty comes from within and always comes out. There are many ways to be beautiful. Try to focus on what you want for yourself and don't let petty comments sway you.
- Remember: people who call you ugly are jealous. Everyone is beautiful. Don't give it a damn. That guy is jealous because he's not as handsome as you are.
