Have you noticed that some people shut themselves up in silence when you enter the room? If you have felt a feeling of tension, it is likely that the people around you feel a little uncomfortable. Start by changing your attitude and reducing the chances of embarrassing situations. With a little practice you will become the life of the party.
Steps
Step 1. Be yourself and act spontaneously
Nobody likes artificial people. Be genuine and you will see that everyone will appreciate that you are not afraid of what others say. Don't behave differently just to please others, you will appear fake.
Step 2. Give real compliments
Do not flatter if you are not sincere, appreciate only those aspects of others that you like and impress you.
Step 3. Avoid making fun of others
Don't insult anyone, it's just a waste of time. Don't say anything that might hurt someone, be careful what you say. You can only joke with the people you are most familiar with.
Step 4. Show your self-mockery
You know yourself better than anyone, so it will be easier to fool you. Humility is a gift that everyone will be able to appreciate.
Step 5. Determination is important
Always stick to your principles and do not continually contradict yourself in what you say and do, you will give the impression of being a person who wants to appear intelligent at all costs (think before speaking).
Step 6. Before saying something, think about it
Evaluate the possible reactions of others and decide whether to say what you are thinking or not.
Step 7. Do not correct anyone, minimize the mistakes of others, unless they have negative consequences on themselves or on someone else
And don't blame yourself if others correct you.
Step 8. Don't exclude anyone
Do not say things that concern you and a few others if there are more people present. Do not start any speech that could exclude part of those present, do not mention people or situations that others do not know, unless you first provide clarification about it.
Step 9. Be brave
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and make fun of yourself. An outgoing person can put people around them at ease.
Step 10. Maintain personal hygiene
Step 11. Think about which topics will be most enjoyable and fun for the people around you at the time
Choose to talk about something that can put everyone in a good mood and make a smile!
Advice
- While you are talking to someone, don't think about other things.
- Don't look sad while teasing yourself.
- Never make racist or sexually referenced comments.
- Believe in yourself, don't be afraid of being judged by others if you joke a little about yourself.
- Don't be afraid to joke with people.
- Don't feel like you have to make everyone comfortable. Be spontaneous and don't say anything untrue, just to make conversation.
