Being hot is not just a matter of look: it requires a certain attitude and a certain spirit. Not only should you look confident, sexy and intriguing, you should also know that you are attractive and act accordingly. If you do it right, everyone you meet will immediately think you're hot, whether they just see you walking down the street or stop and talk to you for a few minutes. Do you want to know how to become one? Read on to find out.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Have the Right Look
Step 1. Make sure you're hot, instead of cute.
Being hot means being an adult to whom people feel instant sexual attraction. This stands in stark contrast to an innocent appearance. Usually, when a person is considered pretty, their charm is mostly due to their freshness and has no sexual connotation. So, if you want to be a hot woman, you can enhance the curves. If you want to be a hot man, then you have to aspire to look more like George Clooney than Justin Bieber.
There is also another misconception, namely that hot is synonymous with sexy, but in fact they are not the same. Sexy means attractive from a more adult and mature point of view (without a trace of malice). Think about the difference between a Megan Fox and a Mariah Carey. Mariah Carey is a classy adult woman (and that's where her sensuality comes from), while Megan Fox is flirtatious, bold and seductive (and that's what makes her mostly hot)
Step 2. Hone your seductive arts
To look hot, you need to be a little intriguing and mysterious. When people see you, you want them to think "Wow, what a seductive person!" instead of "Oh, that's cute!". To succeed, avoid telling everyone about yourself at once; don't be too helpful, take some extra time to open up. This will lead people to ask questions and feel curiosity about you.
You have to be a little flirtatious. Think about the difference between a rock star and a classic teacher. If both are attractive, you probably think the rock star is hot, and the teacher is cute. Beauty helps, but if you want to be considered hot, flirting discreetly or having a slightly bold attitude helps
Step 3. Feel comfortable in your own skin
To be sensual and attractive you need to feel good about yourself and know how to value your best qualities. This doesn't mean you should get naked, but looking seductive will help. If you don't feel embarrassed to show this side of you, highlight the parts of the body you like most, even in a veiled way, to intrigue others. Whether you show off your muscular arms or a little cleavage, you'll be on your way to getting hot.
Step 4. Improve your posture
Stand up straight - you need to look proud and happy with your identity and looks. Keep your shoulders high, turn your head forward and extend your arms at your sides. Avoid hunching over, otherwise you won't convey confidence. Hot people have good posture because they are proud of their body, and love to show it off. If you are a woman, walk like a diva and smile seductively from time to time.
Step 5. Get back in shape
There are many hot people who are not in the best of physical shape, and there are several people in perfect physical shape who are not hot. However, if you want to get more attention, work on losing weight (if you are overweight) or exercise to build muscles (if you are underweight or thin). Make an appointment at a local gym to find out which equipment and training plans are right for you.
Physical activity will also make you feel better about yourself and make you happier with how you look. Also, thanks to the exercise, you will look and feel hot
Step 6. Take care of your personal hygiene
This means brushing your teeth and flossing twice a day, washing your face to get rid of blackheads or acne, shampooing regularly, and generally taking care of your body. You should also use deodorant, trim your nails, and taste clean. If you want, try a pleasant fragrance, or treat yourself to treatments at a spa.
You can sweat as much as you want to have a beautiful body, but not many people will consider you hot if you smell like someone who hasn't showered in days
Step 7. Try to look bigger
Make sure you dress the right way by choosing clothing that flatters your figure. Remember that sensuality is in the eye of the beholder, but take the time to shop for clothing that fits your natural colors and style. Here are some factors to keep in mind when trying to get hotter:
- Trying out the trends of the moment can help you get noticed more.
- Wear jewelry. Try earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings or bangles.
- Don't wear gym clothes, running shoes, or baggy t-shirts that were given to you at a bar or event. Put these clothes aside for training.
- You can still dress casually, the important thing is to give the impression that you have thought about the combinations.
Step 8. Always comb your hair carefully
If you are a girl, you can try different hairstyles: straighten them, curl them, wavy them, put them in a bun, create beach waves, a herringbone braid, a ponytail or a messy bun. Hot people are dynamic. They always renew their look and leave everyone speechless. Just think of Jennifer Lawrence, who cut her curls and chose a short cut: now she is even hotter!
Hey guys? If you find a cut that's actually right for you, you can keep it for some time. If you're losing a lot of hair, don't underestimate the hot potential of a shaved head. And even graying hair always has its charm
Step 9. If you are a girl, try wearing makeup
The secret is to avoid overdoing it. All you need is eyeshadow, mascara, eyeliner and lip gloss, unless you have a skin problem like acne; in that case, it is better to use the concealer as well. A light make-up can make guys understand that their attention is welcome (as strange as it sounds, an obviously sexy make-up can give the impression that you are begging to be looked at, so beware of excesses).
Feel free to try wearing makeup if you are a guy and open to that style. Eyeliner in particular can be attractive to people of both genders, or you can just use concealer to cover blemishes
Step 10. Try to have a slightly provocative look
If you are a boy, you can skip this step. If you're a girl, remember that tops, shorts, cropped tops, yoga leggings, and jeans are a wardrobe staple. If you're young, you can definitely wear whatever you want, as long as they don't make fun of what you're wearing. Think Beyoncé or the look of The Saturdays in their What About Us music video. But remember that skimpy clothes won't make you look hotter than you already are on your own.
Part 2 of 2: Behaving Hot
Step 1. Try to behave like an adult
You can't be hot if you remind people of a child constantly complaining, arguing with others, and acting immature. You need to have a classy attitude, present yourself calmly and be polite to anyone you meet. Treat people respectfully, avoid complaining, and take responsibility for your actions. If you behave in an adult manner, others will realize that you are worth meeting, and that you should be taken seriously.
Avoid turning people away by giving the impression that you are a whiny or whiny person. Make sure you are projecting a little childish personal image
Step 2. Be cool
Ironically, being hot (which literally means "hot") means being cool (which literally means "cool"). For example, think of Brad Pitt. He is considered hot by many (though not all) women because he has a detached demeanor, a handsome man, and doesn't smile or talk all the time (this doesn't mean you can't smile or talk to others, though).
- Hot people talk when needed and make shrewd or interesting statements for others.
- In difficult situations, hot people hit others without losing their minds. They neither underestimate nor overestimate the problem, and often manage to solve it.
- A hot person is usually not hyperactive or nervous.
Step 3. Exudes self-esteem
Hot people know they are hot and have a certain self-esteem to back it up. Be proud and happy with yourself, stand tall and talk about positive things, about what makes you feel good. If you go around looking like you want to get attention or not be satisfied with yourself, then you won't look hot at all. Instead, smile big when you get to a place, be friendly to others and give people the benefit of the doubt after the first meeting, don't instantly suspect anyone outside your social circle.
- If you want to be confident, then try dating people who make you feel good about yourself.
- Of course, it's not a problem to doubt yourself. You will have moments when you are not satisfied. When in doubt, talk to a close friend instead of letting everyone around you know that you feel insecure.
Step 4. Don't be too emotional
Of course, it happens to feel very happy or angry with the whole world, but, in general, hot people manage to keep everything in balance, or almost. You don't see them cry with happiness, scream when they see their friends, or respond badly to teachers. Instead, they know quite well when to show they are happy or sad, but they don't overdo it. They don't draw attention to themselves by pointing out their emotions. Others notice them because they are great, not because they have hysterical fits.
If you feel anger rising while talking to a friend, apologize for a minute: take a breath of fresh air and regain your composure
Step 5. Treat everyone with kindness
Contrary to popular belief, hot people are not only kind to their "fellow", ignoring anyone they deem "inferior". It's just a myth: if you're really hot, then you should be able to go beyond your physical appearance and know who are the people who deserve your attention. Don't just hang out with people who are hot and make a good impression. Instead, spend time in the company of those people you respect and like. Look around and ask yourself questions about your dates. Are these people truly kind, sweet, and deserving of your friendship?
- If you are nice to anyone, people will be even more impressed with you. In fact, they will think, "It is truly admirable that he is so friendly to everyone. Evidently his physical appearance did not go to his head."
- This also applies to strangers and people you have recently met. Don't strike up a new conversation by being circumspect with your interlocutor. Instead, convey enthusiasm and curiosity.
- Don't be a snob. Don't ignore that girl who goes to the same school as you when you meet her on the street just because you think it's not cool to greet people.
Step 6. Avoid excessive flaunting
Just because you think you're hot, that doesn't give you the excuse to always just talk about how many weights you lift at the gym, how good your new outfit looks, or how many phone numbers you managed to get over the weekend. If you are really hot, then others will notice and understand all of these things for themselves. If you just try to prove something, people won't think you're actually hot. In the future, when you find yourself about to open your mouth to brag, stop and compliment someone else instead.
Being humble and modest can help you a lot to look and feel hot. If you brag all the time, people won't like you because they'll think you're too full of yourself
Step 7. Don't get obsessed with just one person
Hot people don't get obsessed with a crush, nor do they spend all their time playing doormat for their partners. Instead, they prefer to play a little. If they find someone they find interesting, then in that case they don't look elsewhere. In general though, hot people take things lightly and love to explore the different options. When you go to a party or club, don't focus on one person by constantly keeping an eye on them; instead, he talks to a variety of people. Maybe you might end up liking someone you never expected could spark the spark.
Plus, hot people aren't disappointed that much by rejection. Sure, it's not a great experience, but don't waste too much time crying on yourself - it's not worth it
Step 8. Avoid mirroring yourself in public
If you are hot, then you should know. Don't look at yourself in the windows as you walk, and don't pull out the mirror to start fixing your makeup in front of everyone. Your sensuality should feel natural and not forced. If you need to control your appearance, do it in the privacy of a bathroom, not in public. Otherwise, you may seem insecure.
Step 9. Try to be polite
Hot people should be happy and happy with what they have. They shouldn't behave bitterly at bad times, get mad at little things, or rudely respond to waiters, professors, or strangers. People with dignity treat everyone with kindness, help others, and recognize that they are blessed to be alive. Don't act like you deserve to be treated like a king, like everyone else is the last wheels of the chariot. This kind of attitude is obnoxious and turns people away.
Polite people know they have to work for what they want, they don't think they deserve to get the best out of everything. If you want to be really hot, then you have to be kind and grateful for that too
Step 10. Be a good friend
There is that stereotype of people who treat their friends as if they were accessories (think Regina George in Mean Girls), because they think they're hot enough to do whatever they want. It is up to you to reverse the trend. Do not treat your friends as if they were your flock, your subjects or your followers, constantly at your disposal. Instead, treat them fairly, and let them have a say in what you do as well. Know how they are doing, take the time to do something nice for them, and make sure your friendship is meaningful.
Don't even be that classic person who gossip about his friends as soon as they turn around. You'll get a reputation as a fake person right away
Step 11. Be hot with people you like
If you want to be hot, then you need to be able to flirt discreetly when talking to someone who attracts you. Either way, this doesn't mean you should come forward brazenly and be too pushy. Find a balance between maintaining a certain distance and allowing the other person to make a move. This way you will certainly look hot to her, but she will also want to get to know you better. If they think you're ice cold or in love with yourself, you won't be able to get many dates, no matter how hot you are.
- And if someone you don't like approaches you, behave as kindly as possible. Just because you don't think she's hot or cool, you shouldn't treat her badly, she's still a human being.
- Don't act like you're a queen or a king and the other person is standing there begging you to give them a minute of your time. You must always treat people you talk to fairly.
Advice
- Smile with your eyes. People are attracted to the smiles of others, especially if they are sincere.
- A key ingredient to being hot is feeling good about yourself and making the most of your five senses. If you give the idea that you like your body, it is more likely that others will think the same.
- Remember to smile and be happy.
- If you master the art of being innocent and hot at the same time, this combination will be deadly. A mysterious and rebellious side hidden by a sweet and innocent surface.
- Be yourself.
- If that's not right for you or makes you uncomfortable, don't try to look hot at all costs. People can be attractive in a number of ways. There is nothing wrong with being sweet, charming and so on. For example, imagine if Audrey Hepburn had tried to look hot like Marilyn Monroe: it would never have worked!
- Remember that if you want to be attractive, you need to dress in a way that makes you comfortable. If that means showing more or less skin than you do now, that's no problem. However, make sure the clothing is suitable for the occasion.
- Also having the ability to communicate your interest to the person you like, but playing the unattainable, is hot. It keeps her on her toes, eager, fascinated and intrigued.
- Inspired by celebrities considered hot in what they do. You could learn and imitate their attitudes to get noticed and be attractive.
- For some reason, even wearing a black dress with a high neck and long sleeves can make someone look mysterious and hot.
- Looking hot could mean enhancing your curves (if you're a woman) and having a muscular body (if you're a man). A man can wear a formal suit to be hot. A woman can choose a pair of knee-high boots or a dark lipstick instead. Don't go overboard with the glamor, though: a simple, sensual and discreet look is ideal.
Warnings
- Going out of your way to look hot can give the impression that you are arrogant or superficial. The way you move has more impact than your appearance, so don't waste too much time in front of the mirror.
- If you are a girl, walking upright and with your shoulders stretched might give the impression that you are trying to get attention at all costs, but remember that no one likes desperate girls.
