Most people know that it is wrong to steal, yet thefts happen on a daily basis. If something has recently been stolen from you, you will probably have a hard time understanding why you have been subjected to this kind of bullying. The severity of the action can range from "simple" pickpocketing to using a false identity in order to defraud countless unsuspecting customers. To get a better idea of why a person chooses to steal, try to understand the intentions that drive them to do this.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Pathological Aspects
Step 1. Recognize the signs of kleptomania
Kleptomania is an impulse control disorder that causes a person to repeatedly steal items they do not need or have little value. A kleptomaniac does not necessarily come to steal out of the need for something or the lack of means. Rather, he indulges in compulsive behavior that gives him an adrenaline rush.
- People with this disorder do not steal for self-interest. Usually, they do not plan the heist or collaborate with others to carry it out. In reality, the impulse arises spontaneously. They can steal both in public places, such as in shops, and in the homes of friends and family.
- If you know someone who can't stop stealing, suggest they see a doctor. Kleptomania can be cured with psychotherapy and medication.
- You might say to her, "I noticed you took something from that shop. I know you had the money, so I guess you did it out of a desire to steal. I'm afraid you might get into trouble, so you better talk to a professional. I'm willing. to accompany you if you want ".
Step 2. Recognize when theft is related to an addiction
A kleptomaniac simply steals to get an adrenaline rush, without thinking about the value of the stolen objects. Conversely, other pathological forms of theft are induced by addictions. In fact, this gesture - together with economic difficulties - is often considered one of the warning signs of an addiction.
- Those with drug addiction or gambling problems can steal money from relatives, friends and colleagues to finance their addiction. Lying is also an element that characterizes this type of theft. So, once confronted with his gesture, he is likely to deny that he has a problem.
- Other signs of addiction include joining new friendships, neglecting existing ones, running into legal problems, having study and work difficulties, and ruining interpersonal relationships.
- If you suspect someone you know has stolen to finance their addiction, prompt them to seek professional help immediately. Try approaching her and asking her, "You've changed your attitude lately. You've drifted away from your friends and can't handle your money. I'm afraid you have a drug problem."
- If she denies drug use, you may want to arrange an intervention. In other words, you should involve other people in his life by contacting them and explaining your concerns. It can be the first step in convincing her to cure her addiction.
Step 3. Understand that pathological theft is not motivated by personal reasons
Generally, people who indulge in this pathological behavior do not steal to deliberately harm someone. Theft responds to a need - emotional and material. Those who steal for pathological reasons may feel guilty about the way they acted, but are unable to stop without valid intervention.
Part 2 of 3: Non-Pathological Aspects
Step 1. Be aware that some people steal to satisfy basic needs
Despair is a common reason behind a theft. They are likely not to have a job or a source of income or sufficient means to support their families. As a result, they are forced to steal in order to feed their children or provide them with accommodation.
Step 2. Consider peer pressure
Even a wrong group can lead a person to repeat this gesture. In these cases, the value of the stolen item isn't as important as the thrill of stealing something and getting away with it. This type of theft is very common among teenagers who are vulnerable to peer pressure. They can do it to show themselves better or be accepted in a group of kids.
Step 3. Notice the lack of empathy
A teenager or a person who has difficulty having a "big picture" of things could steal without thinking carefully about the fact that an impulsive gesture has consequences. This is not a pathological behavior - he is able to put himself in the shoes of others - but in the moment he could act without thinking that what he is doing will inevitably damage the victim of the theft. If she is confronted with her gesture or asked to reflect on her action, she probably won't go back to stealing.
Step 4. Recognize that some people steal to fill an emotional void
In some cases, someone who has suffered trauma or the premature loss of a loved one may steal to ease their pain. However, this gesture does not satisfy his primary emotional needs and, if it is a child who is trying to fill the emotional void left by a parent or important person, he may do so compulsively to compensate for the sense of affective deprivation. Unfortunately, this does not solve the problem, so he is prompted to reiterate his behavior.
Step 5. Be aware that some people only steal when they have the opportunity
Unfortunately, some thefts only happen when the opportunity arises. The stealer is likely to feel thrilled to get hold of what is not his. Perhaps he sees this gesture as a challenge. He might steal out of greed, even when he doesn't lack anything.
Part 3 of 3: Overcoming the Theft Experience
Step 1. Contact law enforcement
If something has been stolen from you, the most logical first step is to report it to the police. Go to the police station or the police station providing all the details needed to identify the stolen items and potential suspects. By immediately running for cover, you will have the chance to recover the stolen goods and catch the thief.
If you experience identity theft, there are some steps you can take to recover it and protect yourself in the future. Visit the Ministry of Defense website and consult this document
Step 2. Restore your security as soon as possible
If you have suffered a burglary at home, you need to return to feel safe in your living spaces. Repair any damage that has been done and contact a company specializing in the supply and installation of security systems so that they can identify the "weak points" in your apartment, such as windows and door locks. Warn neighbors and make sure they take precautions to protect themselves.
Additionally, you may want to devise a security plan that allows you and your family to take preventative measures in the event of further theft. Organize yourself to protect valuables and choose a place to hide the children in case of another robbery by the thieves
Step 3. Try to resume your daily life
Even if it is difficult to go back to life as usual, you have to do it. It is understandable to be scared after a traumatic experience such as a burglary. However, you shouldn't let fear take over.
Step 4. Take care of yourself
Don't allow self-pity to cause you to neglect your health and well-being. A theft can generate a great deal of stress. So, try to get a good night's sleep, eat a balanced diet and train to improve energy and emotional balance. If you feed your mind and body properly during this time, you will have less difficulty putting this unpleasant experience behind you.
Step 5. Rely on your support network
To overcome the theft you have suffered, reach out to your neighbors, family, friends and the community in which you live. Be honest if there is something others could help you with so you feel safer at home and where you live. Don't hesitate to seek comfort from close friends and family who are willing to offer their support.
For example, you might ask a neighbor, "Would you mind keeping an eye on the house this weekend? We're going out of town on Friday and Saturday and I've been worried since the thieves came."
Advice
- Observe the people you hang out with. If you trust people you cannot trust, there is a risk that they will not turn out to be as honest as they seem.
- Be indulgent with yourself. Many times a theft does not represent a personal attack, but is only dictated by convenience, regardless of the choice of the victim.
