Knowing if a girl likes you is not easy at all, especially if you go to middle school or high school: your peers can be incomprehensible! Read this article to find out if your interest is reciprocated.
Steps
Method 1 of 4: A matter of Body Language
Step 1. Be yourself and confident
Walk with your head held high and look the girl you like in the eye so you will train to make the first move.
Step 2. Pay attention to certain details
For example, if she frequently stretches in your presence, she may feel nervous but also tries to get your attention. However, certain signals need to be analyzed together with others to see if they make sense.
Step 3. If she ignores you when she sees you and doesn't say hello but seems to want to, call her to melt the ice:
she is just nervous.
Step 4. If her feet and arms point in your direction when you speak standing or sitting, she is probably interested in you
Step 5. If when you are facing each other, her arms and legs are relaxed, without crossing them, this means that she feels comfortable in your company
Step 6. If you are sitting behind her in class, she will approach you and turn around with various excuses
Step 7. If she is always smiling and helpful to you, that's another good sign
Step 8. If she looks at you often and smiles at you, she probably likes you
Ditto if when you are with your friends she is looking for you in the group.
Step 9. Notice his movements
If she plays with her hair or fixes her clothes and can't hold your gaze when you talk, she probably likes you. A girl gets nervous when she's with the guy she's interested in.
Step 10. Do you change your attitude when you enter the classroom?
Another good sign.
Step 11. When in class, try to notice if he spies on you
Step 12. She flirts with you when she tries to make physical contact (mostly touches your hair), smiles at you, laughs often and looks at you
Method 2 of 4: The Right Questions
Step 1. Ask her about her:
almost everyone loves to talk about themselves. If she doesn't know you or doesn't seem willing to share her personal facts, take a step back to avoid sounding indiscreet.
Step 2. Start with a simple question:
"Can I sit next to you?". Don't worry if she says no or if she thinks about it: in the first case, she may be playing at being unattainable, in the second case, she might be shy and maybe she was caught off guard by your request. If she smiles when she talks to you and looks nervous, that means she cares what you think about her.
Step 3. If she likes you but you hardly ever talk to her, she will try to get closer to you by engaging in short conversations or asking you questions for the excuse of chatting with you
Step 4. Do you pay particular attention?
When you talk, does he often say your name or remember details of other conversations you have had together?
Step 5. Talk to her with any excuse:
if she likes you, she'll smile at you and take advantage of it to continue the conversation. If he doesn't listen to you, read the following steps.
Step 6. Be kind, don't make her doubt your interest in her
Step 7. If when she is with her friends and they look at you while talking softly, that's a good sign
However, if her friends don't do anything like that, don't be alarmed: maybe she hasn't said anything about her crush on you.
Step 8. If she stares at you and talks about you to her friends (ask a mutual friend to find out), she likes you
Step 9. If she looks at you and says nothing, wait for you to initiate the conversation or greet her
Step 10. Invite her out and see her response
Method 3 of 4: Electronic Clues
Step 1. Send clues via Facebook or Twitter by saying “I always think of her”
If she asks who you are talking about, tell her or give her other cues (you can tell her "Her name starts with …"). This is a good way to flirt, but don't overdo the riddles. If after a while you're sure she likes you, go ahead.
Step 2. After chatting with her, greet her by telling her that you are logging out and going to the “Invisible” state
Watch what it does: If it disconnects immediately after you, it may be that it only connects for your conversations.
Step 3. If you have her email, start texting her to tell her about yourself, but don't become a stalker
Step 4. If she is of few words when you speak in person but not on the phone or chat, she is surely shy
Step 5. If you log into Facebook and she starts talking to you during the first five minutes, maybe she was waiting for you
This clue is especially valid if it happens more than once. In any case, it doesn't necessarily happen: she may not want to appear nagging and expect you to take the initiative sometime.
Step 6. If you both play an online video game and she starts sending you lots of gifts, maybe she likes you
To be sure, create fake accounts and add it or ask your friend to do so. Doesn't he behave in the same way with others? The interests.
Step 7. If a moment of pause occurs while you chat, tell her you love her
Does he answer you immediately or writes "Tvb"? Maybe he just considers you a friend. If she doesn't answer you right away, maybe you have blown her away because she likes you but she didn't expect this phrase from you. If he behaves shyly or strangely happy the next day, surely this is an effect of your words.
Method 4 of 4: Other Signals
Step 1. Before approaching her to talk to her, ask a friend of yours to interrupt you during your conversation
If she greets him but then seems bothered by his presence, it means she wants to spend time alone with you.
Step 2. If she teases you but avoids offending you, she probably wants to get your attention because she likes you
Step 3. Don't talk to her best friend all the time, or she might get jealous and think you don't like her
Step 4. Test the ground to see if you should contact a friend of hers to ask her out (of course if you are sure she likes you)
Step 5. If you are walking down the hall and you know she is behind you, keep walking:
if she catches up with you, maybe she likes you (doesn't she? Maybe she doesn't want to bother you). If, on the other hand, she is walking in front of you and goes slowly, she probably wants you to get closer.
Step 6. If you notice him following you during recess, he probably wants to get closer to you and get to know you better
Step 7. If he tries to make you laugh, good sign
Step 8. If she lays her head on your shoulder or rests her hand on yours when you make her laugh, she probably likes you
Step 9. If you have known each other for a long time, you will understand that she likes you if her attitude changes consciously or unconsciously
He may try to look perfect in your eyes or suddenly show the same passions as you to make a good impression on you. This way, you will also understand how long she has liked you.
Step 10. If you are friends, you tell each other about your problems and help you solve them, it may be that your relationship is actually deeper than you think, although this also depends on other variables
Step 11. If she has liked you for a while, she has probably learned to hide her feelings and control herself, so don't worry if she doesn't seem to have any interest in you:
maybe he's hiding it.
Step 12. If you are with your friends and she is sitting a few steps away from you reading a book, raise your voice slightly and notice her behavior
Doesn't he turn the page and slightly turn his head towards you? He wants to hear what you say. You make a joke and, if she laughs or smiles, she was surely listening to you because she cares and wants to know everything about you. She could also pretend to write: you will have confirmation that she was distracted if she wrote nonsense sentences.
Step 13. Tease her and show her that you are careful by naming the things she likes
Step 14. Don't suddenly ask her “Do you like me?
: You will embarrass her.
Step 15. Help her and propose to do things together
If she says “I want to see that movie”, answer her “Me too! Would you like to go to the cinema with me?”. This works best if you already have some confidence.
Advice
- If she seems lonely or sad, comfort her. But if she's upset, make sure you don't make it worse.
- If you ask her what's wrong and she replies that everything is ok, insist with phrases like "Come on, today you are out of your mind, there must be something". Let her talk and give her some advice so you can earn her trust. But don't pester her if she looks angry and tells you she doesn't want to talk.
- If a girl stares at you often but never talks to you, get close to break the ice.
- Girls are impressed by guys with many hobbies and interests. Ask her about the sports, activities and colors she likes. But don't pretend you're interested in the same things, or he'll get suspicious.
- Making a girl laugh is not enough: you should also be compatible.
- If the girl you like is sitting with her friends and staring at you, approach, say hello, and introduce yourself. Do you talk for a long time? Exchange phone numbers and get in touch to get to know each other better.
- Try to meet her "by chance" once a day, so she won't forget about you. If he greets you, that's a good sign, but pay attention to your body language as well.
Warnings
- If you feel confident, tell her how you feel, but avoid it if you think she will say no.
- If you step on her foot by mistake but she smiles at you and tells you it's okay, take the opportunity to invite her to the bar and offer her something to apologize.
- Don't hurt her with your jokes and don't always be sarcastic - if she's sensitive, she'll get offended, and change her mind about you.
- Don't apologize for every little thing.
- If she plays with her hair when she's with you, bites her lip, and points her legs in your direction, you care.
- If you like a friend of yours but are sure you won't be reciprocated, don't ruin the friendship by declaring yourself.
- If she is shy, allow her to open up, don't rush.
- Don't stalk her, or you will scare her and she'll lose all interest.
- If the girl you like wants to hug you, stroke her hair while you are close.
- If you are in a bad mood and she sees you nervous, she may walk away from you because she may not know what to take you for.
- Don't ask her for her phone number right away if you don't know each other well: this information is private, and your parents may not want her to give it to everyone. Start talking to her on Facebook or another chat so she'll feel more relaxed and won't perceive you as a stalker.
- If you are sitting close together but you look worried, tired or depressed, you will discourage her from talking to you. Smile at her and tell her what's wrong. If she shows interest in your problems, maybe she likes you.
