Is there a guy who is your friend, but is slowly and surely starting to like you? Do you already have a girlfriend? Do you still want to go out with him? Then read this article, be patient and the results could help you.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Communication
Step 1. Keep the communication going
Try talking to him more than he does to his girlfriend. If he talks to his girlfriend once a week, then talk to him or text him every 2 days. Keep his attention high, don't bore him, but don't be too obsessive, or he'll feel suffocated.
Step 2. Don't name his girlfriend
If he brings her up, let him know that you don't want to talk about her by gently changing the subject. Never say that they are good together or that they are a nice couple, or he will think that you are not interested in him and that you approve of their relationship.
Method 2 of 3: Intrigue him sexually
Step 1. Dress well
You have to be sexy, but classy. Hair and makeup must be natural. You want him to find you physically interesting.
Step 2. Flirt with other guys
A surefire way to interest a guy is to make him jealous by showing himself unreachable. Talk to others and pay attention to them when he is around. Watch their reactions. If he stares at you doing this, that's a good sign.
Step 3. Put on a perfume and approach him
Put on a perfume that smells good and walk past it. Watch her reaction as you pass.
Method 3 of 3: Other methods
Step 1. Be there for him
Be the one she goes to when she has problems or when she needs advice. If he invites you to an event, go out of your way to be there. You want to be a reliable and trustworthy person in his eyes.
Step 2. Strengthen the friendship
Most good relationships always start with a friendship. Spend time with him on a regular basis and try to get to know him better as a person, without pressure or expectations.
Step 3. Don't tell lies
You never have to hide anything about yourself or tell lies about his girlfriend. If the guy realizes that you lied about something so fundamental, you will have no hope of dating him.
Step 4. Smile
Smile when you see it. This will let him know that you are always happy to see him. If you see him around, say hello to let him know you notice him.
Advice
- Always have fresh breath, use deodorant and take good care of personal hygiene
- Don't ask him to leave his girlfriend or he'll walk away from you. Let him decide freely.
- Always be yourself. If he doesn't care for who you are, he doesn't deserve you.
- If there is eye contact, it is possible that he is taking an interest in you.
- If you see him in a place where you didn't expect to meet him, go to him and say hello! If his girlfriend is with him, you might as well hug him.
- If they break up, wait a few weeks before proposing to go out.
- Do nothing if you are looking for a long story. If he is the type who leaves her for you, one day he will be able to leave you for another.
- Don't be disappointed if you don't deserve attention. This just means that he wasn't the right person for you. The sea is full of fish.
- Try to attract attention. Join a club or join a group he is a part of. This will make him think that you really are the right girl.