Boys aren't the only ones fighting - girls fight too! If you know you're going to have a fight with another girl and you're scared, let wikiHow help you. It is always better to try to find a peaceful solution to the problems, but if you don't have the possibility to do it, you will have to know how to defend yourself. Start from step 1.
Steps
Step 1. First try to find a different solution
You should always talk to a parent or teacher before getting into a fight. Try to find another way to solve problems that does not involve the use of violence. We know you don't want to look like a coward in front of other girls, but if people only like you for your tough looks, they don't really know you. These are not true friends.
Fighting can have very negative consequences. If you really hurt the other girl, even if she was the one who started the fight, you could end up in jail or have trouble with the law. It can even happen by accident, so it's best to avoid it if you can
Step 2. Never fight in school
Try to use physical confrontation only outside of school. You would risk being expelled or suspended otherwise. It doesn't matter who caused the fight, don't fight in school. Even if you fight away from school, you can still suffer consequences at school.
Step 3. Always ask friends to help you
The girl's friends are likely to interfere in your fight, so you'll need to ask your friends to do the same. This can help you avoid serious injuries. With some people present the fight will be more contained, because no one will allow it to really get out of control. Just make sure you tell your friends that you want to minimize physical confrontation. They are only there to protect you!
Step 4. Never strike first
Avoid physical confrontation at all costs. Argue or try to punch her: whatever you do don't start hitting. If you stick to your position and don't say anything too provocative, you might even avoid confrontation.
Try using dialogue to avoid confrontation. Say something like, "Laura, I'm tired of all this bickering. It's no use. Can't we just go our separate ways?" or "Will this really solve the problem? I want both of us to find a solution that makes us happy."
Step 5. Look for weaknesses
While the opponent taunts you, stay calm and try to identify the elements that make them vulnerable. If it is lower, rise above it. If she is taller, strike in the legs and torso. If she has long hair, pull it up and push her head down so she can't see.
Step 6. Move towards the fists
You should turn your head so that you receive a punch on the forehead or the top of the head. This will hurt her hand and discourage her from trying to throw more punches. The skull is a very hard bone!
Step 7. Turn sideways to avoid stomach punches
If he tries to hit you in the abdomen, move your body to receive the hit in the side. You will protect the body and avoid the worst injuries.
Step 8. Kick if you fall to the ground
You must avoid falling to the ground at all costs, but if you do, kick your attacker to keep him away. Look for opportunities to get up without exposing yourself to any attacks. If this method is unsuccessful, close yourself in a hedgehog to protect yourself.
Step 9. Avoid hitting with your fist
Most girls don't punch properly and only risk getting hurt. Instead, close your hand into a fist and strike with your elbow.
Step 10. Aim where it hurts the most
Try to hit in the most sensitive areas. The chest, abdomen, face, knees and hands are all weak points.
Step 11. Make your opponent tire
Dodge as many hits as possible. Let it move. This will tire her out and end the fight earlier.
Step 12. Use a debilitating move
Your goal is to bring your opponent to the ground and finish the fight, without inflicting too much damage. The best way to do this is to use his body against her. Take her little finger and pull it towards her elbow. His arm will follow the movement. Guide your arm behind your back and then push her to the ground. Place one knee in the middle of her back and hold her arm until she has calmed down.
If you are in trouble, pull her hair. You will have a chance to turn the tables around without dealing too much damage
Advice
- Wear something under your shirt, so if it breaks, you won't be left in your bra.
- Wear sports leggings or shorts. Jeans may be difficult to move around, while leggings are difficult to pull.
- Try to arrange your hair so that the opponent cannot grab it. If they are long, do a bun in the center of your head, which is difficult to reach.
- If one of your clothes breaks, keep fighting. It will be a little awkward, but it won't hurt as much as a series of punches.
- Keep your legs apart for better balance and resist pushing.
- Never attack a girl first. If they see you, the teacher or job manager may think you started it.
- If the other girl is sitting, wait for her to get up before fighting, or you will look like a coward.
- Always try to have your back covered by a wall (if there is one) so that no one can hit you from behind.
- Don't let anger drive you when you fight, or you will lose.
- If you want to drop her, cross your legs with hers and bring your knees up.
Warnings
- Make sure you have a good reason to fight.
- You can get very hurt in a fight! Make sure it's worth it.
