Kissing your boyfriend can be a delicate step, and if he starts cuddling you too, you can feel even more confused. If you are sitting next to him on the sofa and he hugs you, what should you do? Read on to find out.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Pampering
Step 1. Slowly approach him
If you're both on the couch, don't sit miles away from your boyfriend unless you want to stay away from him for some reason. If a river can flow between you two without hindrance, then you have a big problem. So, if you are sitting on the sofa, move your bodies so that they touch, or almost. If he has placed his arm on the back of the sofa, then it's a pretty obvious sign that he wants you to come closer so he can hug you.
If you are watching TV, it becomes easier. Your stealth moves to get close to your boyfriend won't be that obvious
Step 2. Let her wrap her arm around you
Once you have allowed him to hug you, let him know that you are feeling good and move closer to him so that your head rests on his chest or under his neck. You can also look at him and smile at him to let him know how much you love snuggling up to him. This way, he will know that he can hug you without fear of rejection.
You can also reach out and take him by the hand. Gently squeeze your palm or fingers to send him the right message
Step 3. Cuddle each other after lying down
If you are tired of sitting and snuggling up to your boyfriend while you both look forward, you can try lying down to swap cuddles. You can wrap your boyfriend's shoulders with your arms, moving away from his body for him to get the message and understand that he should lie down. Afterwards, you can stay in his arms, again without looking at him.
- As an alternative, you can just lean on his belly, looking at him, and this will soon lead you to kiss him. When you are this close, it will be hard to resist a stolen kiss.
- Your bodies should be on top of each other. As you lean on your boyfriend's body, move your legs to the side.
Step 4. Spoon-hug him while seated
For this classic "cuddly" move, you and your boyfriend should both be seated, hugging each other, but your legs should be bent and facing your boyfriend, resting on his lap, while his legs are positioned underneath. of you, on the floor.
Step 5. Experience the "Mamma Bear" hug
This is another typical pampering move. To perform it, curl up behind your boyfriend, holding him in your arms. You both should be lying on your side to do this.
Step 6. Experience the "Papa Bear" hug
This is the ultimate pampering position. Lie on your side and your back to your boyfriend, so that his torso is against your back. Both of your bodies should form a C, looking in the same direction, as your boyfriend wraps his arms around you. He can also rest his chin on your shoulders, bringing your faces closer.
Step 7. Avoid the moves less suitable for cuddling
You may think that cuddling will only allow you to get even closer to your boyfriend, no matter what kind they are. While this is true in most cases, there are positions that can be so uncomfortable that they stop your sweet intimate session. Don't worry, these common mistakes are made by both "amateurs" and "experts" of the "art of cuddling". But, if you know what to avoid, you won't have any problems. Here's what to keep away from:
- The dead arm. This is the worst move. It occurs when you curl up, sitting or lying down, with your boyfriend's arm trapped under your back. This will quickly block his circulation, and his thirst for romance.
- The human knot. This "no-no" cuddle takes place when you and your boyfriend are so intertwined that it takes an hour just to figure out where you put your left leg or right hand. If you can't separate your body parts from your boyfriend's, then you are facing a big difficulty.
- The note cuddles face to face. Unless you're ready to kiss right away, you should avoid the position that prompts you to come face to face with your boyfriend.
- The vice. Unless you want your boyfriend to literally make you gasp, you should avoid letting yourself be squeezed so tightly that you can't breathe. If that happens, politely tell him to let go a little.
Part 2 of 2: Kisses
Step 1. Look into your eyes
Eye contact is the first step towards a successful kiss. After pampering yourself for a while or maybe you haven't even done it and you just want to kiss each other, the first thing to do is make eye contact. Exchanging glances facing each other and embracing each other, it is time to kiss each other.
You can also lightly moisten your lips, but discreetly. This will ensure you get more attention on your mouth
Step 2. Caress her face
Now, approach your boyfriend and place your hand on his cheek. Push him to you and keep looking him in the eye as you prepare for the kiss.
Step 3. Kiss him on the lips
You shouldn't try the French kiss right away. First, give him a soft, passionate kiss on the lips. Bend over to kiss her lips, keeping them in contact with yours for a second. Then, stand back and look him in the eye.
Step 4. Give him a French kiss
Once the soft, gentle kisses have warmed the mood, you can start introducing your tongue, as long as you feel comfortable doing it. Slowly insert your tongue into your boyfriend's mouth, while he does exactly the same with you. Then, you can move your tongue around his mouth in a slow, circular fashion, or you can move it gently up and down, resting it briefly at the top and bottom of his.
Step 5. Kiss other parts of the face and neck
If you want to show your affection, you can kiss his neck, ears or even the side of his jaw. This will pleasantly change the pace of the kissing session and make him want to kiss you even more.
Step 6. Continue to pamper yourself
The fact that you are kissing does not mean that you have to forget your hands and do nothing but use your mouth. In fact, this means the exact opposite. You should keep your hands busy while kissing, so that both of you contribute to a more intimate atmosphere. You can also take breaks between kisses to exchange cuddles. Here are some ways to keep touching your boyfriend while you pamper yourself:
- Put your arms around his neck.
- Play with her hair.
- Place your hands on his chest.
- Sit on his lap and place your hands on his shoulders.
Step 7. Let him know that you really enjoyed the kisses and cuddles you exchanged
When the kissing and cuddling session with your boyfriend ends, smile openly and kiss him quickly to convey the happiness he makes you feel, and how much you'd like to kiss him again. Stroke his hair, tell him you like it, or make a small gesture to let him know it makes you happy. Don't be ashamed to show him your true feelings.
Advice
- Make sure your breath is fresh and smells good. kissing and cuddling are two actions that take place in an intimate couple situation, so don't ruin it by not washing yourself.
- Have fun with him, make him feel like he is the most important person in the place you are, wherever you are. Guys appreciate it just as much as we do.
- Make sure your lips are soft; use petroleum jelly for this purpose.
- If after a kiss you don't know what to do, copy your boyfriend and see where he leads you.
- Make sure you both feel comfortable.
- If you're not ready, let him know explicitly or not that he can caress and touch you, but not in certain places.
Warnings
- If this is going to be your first kiss, exchange it somewhere where you are alone.
- If he backs down, don't force him, he may not be ready. Not all of them are at the same time! Good luck!
- Relax and act as you usually do. Have fun!
