Sometimes kissing a guy might seem difficult. Here are some tips to overcome this initial barrier.
Steps
Method 1 of 1: Kiss him for the First Time
Step 1. Talk about it
It might be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend before you start exploring the world of physical contact. It may not be ready yet and in this case it would be better to postpone the kiss.
Step 2. Consider the timing
Make sure you're ready, whatever happens. You have to be aware of your limitations and what makes you uncomfortable.
Step 3. Do it in private
Look for a place where you presumably won't be disturbed. Intervention at this special time could cause deep embarrassment. When you both feel comfortable, you can also kiss him in front of friends or anyone else, depending on the circumstances.
Step 4. Come closer
If you want to continue after this step, to give him a different and unique kiss, look for another article. For the first kiss, however, it's best not to overcomplicate things. Sometimes simplicity is romantic. Step forward gently and close your eyes. Tilt your head and bring your lips together.
Step 5. Kiss him
If you want to go beyond kissing, think about kissing him for 10 seconds and then stop.
Step 6. Evaluate
Think about the things you would like to change next time and so on. Have fun!
Advice
- Anyone with a little judgment will not want to kiss a person with bad breath. Brush your teeth and wait until you're sure your breath doesn't smell bad before starting this special moment. Mouthwash helps!
- Try chewing on a mint before the kiss.
- Don't get too focused on details. Sometimes it is better to go ahead and experience this special moment in a carefree way. Worrying about any misplaced hair will only get in the way of your plans.
- Don't make it too long. If the kiss is excessively long it may seem like too much of a sexual act, which is not romantic.
Warnings
- Don't feel like you have to kiss someone. If you're not ready, the other person should understand you (and if they don't, it's best not to waste your time with this person).
- If you kiss too often, the gesture will lose the magic. Reserve the kiss for special occasions and it will look more beautiful.
- Don't go too far! If you go further with the kiss and start looking for too much physical contact you could scare your partner!
- Don't kiss someone you don't love! It might just cause trouble.
