For both girls and boys, especially when they are teenagers, giving or receiving the first kiss is a very important but also unnerving and intimidating experience. If you're a girl, you might want nothing more than to strip your boyfriend and kiss him like your life depended on it, but many aren't quite as bold. If you are one of the many girls who would like to kiss her boyfriend but don't want to make the first move, follow these steps!
Steps
Step 1. Sit next to him
Make sure he's ready to kiss you. If he has never kissed anyone else before, make sure you are not speeding things up too much in your relationship.
Step 2. Try to create some atmosphere by asking a romantic question like:
'"Don't you think this sunset is gorgeous?"' And wait for him to answer you. Alternatively, you could tell him: "I love your eyes", whispering it in his ear as you hug him.
Step 3. Look him in the eye with a burning passion as if you were waiting for something, while you imagine what you want from him
However, don't get distracted. Remember that the answer to your earlier question may come sooner than you think. Lean slightly towards him; if you are not sitting, bring your feet close to his.
Step 4. Smile sweetly to celebrate your triumph
If he can pick up on your signals and understand that you want him to kiss you, you have completed your mission!
Step 5. If he kisses you, congratulations
If he does not understand what you want from him, it is advisable to try again, or approach him using a different strategy.
Advice
- Stay calm when you kiss him so you don't freak him out. Remember: he's probably just as nervous as you are!
- When you are kissing him, try not to keep your eyes open. You might make him uncomfortable. Keeping eye contact for too long can be stressful.
- Make sure your lips aren't chapped, otherwise it could get embarrassing.
- Keep some breath mints handy.
- Try to make physical contact before anything else. Run your fingers through his hair or lightly brush his face with your hands.
- Don't wear lip gloss because guys don't like it as it's sticky. Use other products that will soften your lips without making them sticky, otherwise you would both be uncomfortable.
- You can wear light makeup if you like, but don't overdo it and don't put sticky stuff on your face. You would make your boyfriend uncomfortable.
- However, some like to be kissed by a girl who wears lip gloss. Feel free to experiment if you want and try to make them fun to see what her favorite flavors are. Cherry and vanilla are both good choices.
- Have fun, but not too much !!
Warnings
- If these tips don't work, be direct and tell them.
- Don't try to use this tactic if your boyfriend is down in the dumps. It would feel even worse and you would end up feeling bad too. Try cheering him up instead! When he's back in a good mood, wait a bit and try to get him to kiss you again.
- If you feel uncomfortable, ask him to stop. Do it politely but be firm.
- If you're not sure they like you, don't try it.
- If you think this guy is like your ex, you may need to reevaluate your idea. He may want to go far beyond where you are willing to push and make you uncomfortable.
