Getting a man to stay faithful to you isn't as difficult as it might seem at first. For starters, most men want to be loyal to their partner, but if you're looking for more to be sure, try these tips.
Steps
Step 1. Don't get him out with single or widowed women who are lonely or pitying, or who may have a competitive streak
Do not hang out with them or become family "friends" with such women. Leave them to the other men. Ask him how he would feel if you surrounded yourself with young, more attractive, single heartbroken guys who need someone to listen to them. And how would he feel if you responded more kindly to those who need your love by devoting more time to them than you dedicate to him.
Step 2. Remind him from time to time that he is yours
In other words, make him feel special, like he's the only one in your life. Tell him how attractive you find him from time to time.
Step 3. When accompanying him on vacation or out and about, stay alone and let no one interfere with your special moment, no matter how kind this person may seem
Step 4. Always create a lot of romance and love for your husband
Don't always repeat the same boring routine. Try to spice things up. Take care of yourself physically even after pregnancy to be beautiful, sexy and stay fit. You don't need to become anorexic, but staying in good shape, happy and sexy is the way to go even after multiple pregnancies.
Step 5. Respect him as you would like him to respect you
Step 6. Give him credit on a daily basis
Whether you work outside the home or be a dad, your husband still needs to feel like a man. You know he is, but make sure he realizes it too.
Step 7. Appreciate all the things he does for you
It doesn't matter if they are small or large, they are worth at least a thank you.
Step 8. Spice Up Your Sex Life
Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to start something romantic.
Step 9. Live, love and laugh
Laugh with him often, not at him. Tell him a joke or cut out cartoons from newspapers and place them on the fridge or text him or email.
Step 10. Listen first, then speak
Let it finish before you stop it. Ask questions if you're not sure you understand what he meant.
Step 11. Be her biggest fan
Men don't like to admit it but they need to feel reassured as well. Showing that you support him and that you are with him every day will ensure that he doesn't need to look for someone else.
Step 12. Don't lose respect for yourself
Stop blaming him for everything and remember that there are things beyond his control.
Step 13. Feed him
Men like a woman who cooks for him like his mother did. You don't have to cook exactly like her, it's the action that counts. Women claim that men are like dogs, but remember that if you feed the dog, it will never go away !!!
Step 14. Hug and cuddle him, his day may have gone as bad as you have
Remember that men are grown children and when they were worried, Mom would hug them and hold them close.
Step 15. When you leave him alone, make sure he has everything he needs
Remember that if you are ready to go out, he is capable of doing certain things on his own. In any case, you will show that we care about his needs or what he wants.
Step 16. Don't treat him like a child
He would leave you. He needs to feel that he is the one who gives. Do the monthly bills so that you always save something to reserve for what you want. It is the effort that counts.
Advice
- Think before you complain. What you might mean as an outburst could become an outburst for him, which could lead to him not listening to you when you really need to complain.
- Love it! It is not just a question of sex but of affection and attention!
- Stay sexy.
- Do something special to let him know that you love him and that you are happy to have him in your life.
- Apologize with caution. Some women tend to apologize too much. Don't say "I'm sorry" if you are not prepared to realize the mistake. If it's not your fault, don't apologize.
Warnings
- Don't belittle him or treat him as an inferior person. Don't goad him or tap him on the head every time you pass him. If your relationship doesn't make you happy, end it with class and avoid false hopes for the future. These things can cause resentment and build hostility and anger, leading to disaster over time.
- Make sure a man wants a relationship like you before you commit. If you don't really want it, you may have an abusive one. Abuse is not love.
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If he abuses you in any way, don't be silent. Get out!
If you say "It's not that bad yet" rest assured it will become. Do something about it, talk to your best friend, someone you trust, or call the police.
