You don't need to dress like a schoolgirl or pigtails to be adorable. Being adorable doesn't mean being young and pretty, it means being sweet, friendly, and fun. Thanks to the following steps you will be able to look adorable without showing off your behavior in any way.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Acting Adorably
Step 1. Treat others with kindness
Lovely people have a generous heart and spirit and constantly spread kindness and attention. Be compassionate and courteous to others, whether it's your best friend, your mother, or a complete stranger. Never look rude or angry, even if you are in a bad mood. Lovely people are supposed to love to enjoy life and are loved by everyone, and the only way to achieve that is to put a healthy dose of kindness on the plate.
- Ask people how they feel and how their life is progressing.
- Don't limit your courtesy to humans. Be kind to animals too! Especially if you usually take your pet for a walk. It is believed that owners tend to acquire the characteristics of their animals, which are usually adorable!
Step 2. Maintain a positive attitude
Lovely people haven't lost their zest for life or their youthful confidence. Therefore, normally, they keep a positive attitude and are upbeat and funny. If you've had a bad day, you don't need to pretend completely, but try to be as positive, cheerful and upbeat as possible so that it remains a pleasure to be around you. It's hard to imagine a lovely person who is constantly down in the dumps, complaining and expecting the worst.
- Lovely people don't let the world demoralize and always expect the best. Experience it yourself, the more positive you will be, the more beautiful things will happen to you.
- If you want to be a positive person with a good attitude, you can't gossip about people behind their backs. Speaking of others, make an effort to say mostly positive things, otherwise you will get a bad name.
- A lovely person may also be able to help those who are struggling to perceive the world in a more optimistic light.
Step 3. Look at the world around you with curiosity
Lovely people have an innate curiosity about life and want to know as much about the world as possible. It's about becoming a little girl again, and pointing at things with your fingers wondering what it is. If you want to be adorable and keep your enthusiasm for life high, you need to acquire that attitude. Stay awake and alert and continue to appreciate all the news the world has to offer.
If a friend gets a new job, ask him numerous questions about it; if you see an interesting headline in the news, delve deeper into the topic to find out more. If you hear about an unfamiliar band, find out about their music and go to a concert if possible
Step 4. Flirt slightly
Being affectionate and friendly, lovely people are naturally a little flirtatious (after a certain age). Therefore, get into the habit of friendly flirting when talking to someone of the opposite sex, showing yourself playful, witty and lighthearted. Don't overdo it though, you don't want to appear overly sensual or flirty, just joke around without pushing yourself further.
- Just take things a little more lightly.
- Make eye contact and then look away from time to time when it gets too intense.
- Play with your hair. It is a notoriously flirtatious gesture.
Step 5. Maintain your innocence
That doesn't mean you have to be moralistic or act like you have no idea what's going on. However, if you want to be adorable, you certainly don't want to be a rough person who likes to talk about dramatic and cruel things. You want to keep yourself interested and curious and feel annoyed by everything that is vulgar and offensive. If you want to keep yourself adorable you need to avoid swearing in any way or acting like a tomboy. Try your best to appear innocent without being a perfect angel.
It is a complicated balance. You don't want to appear innocent enough to seem like an easily attacked target. On the other hand, you don't want to be vulgar in any way
Step 6. Laugh
Lovely people laugh, smile, and have fun constantly (as mentioned earlier you have to keep yourself positive). You should have a great sense of humor and don't be afraid to laugh when you think something is funny, no matter how silly it is. There should always be a smile on your face and you should be able to hear yourself laughing from a distance. Lovely people's hearts are open to humor, so they love to laugh often and tell funny jokes.
This leads us back to maintaining a youthful innocence and a fun attitude. Young children shamelessly laugh at anything they think is funny, but as they grow up they learn to feel embarrassed by their own laughter and slowly begin to conform to adult humor standards. If you want to be adorable, you need to get rid of other people's expectations and be honest about things you consider witty
Part 2 of 3: Looking Adorable
Step 1. Style your hair in a lovely way
To do this you will have to avoid all those too complicated or modern looking looks. Go for long and wavy hair, or curly and medium length, or a yoke just above the shoulders. With the appropriate attitude, you can make your haircut truly adorable. Consider enriching it with a tuft or a fringe, as long as they are suitable for the shape of your face, both will be able to make any hairstyle even more delicious.
You can leave your hair down, gather part of it, tie it in a ponytail or two pigtails, or wear a headband or headband. For an even more adorable look, you can complement your hairstyle with a cute hair clip
Step 2. Put on lovely makeup
Girls who want to use makeup to look more adorable will need to remember not to overdo it. Just apply a lip gloss, a soft eyeshadow and a stroke of mascara. You will need to look natural and not convey the idea of having spent hours in front of the mirror. If you normally prefer not to use makeup at all, keep your look simple and pretty.
Apply lip balm or lip gloss frequently to keep your lips soft and hydrated
Step 3. Take care of your personal hygiene
Remember that no one is ever too clean. If you want to be adorable, you need to have shiny white teeth, shower every day, and use a soap with a light and delicious fragrance. Apply some moisturizer to your skin and, if possible, wash your hair at least every other day. Take care of the cleanliness of your nails and wash your face every morning and every evening.
You will need to give off a pleasant and fresh fragrance without exaggerating the quantity or intensity of the chosen perfume
Step 4. Wear adorable clothes
If you want to look delightful, you must have delightful clothing. So avoid anything that appears too tight, too skimpy or just a little too bold. Go for simple colors and patterns and include a few polka dots if you wish. Make sure your clothes know how to enhance you and that they always look fresh and clean. Among the most adorable choices we can include baby-doll dresses, dungarees paired with cute tops, sandals, large sweaters worn with leggings or pastel-colored shirts.
- You can try wearing a T-shirt with a print that reminds you of your childhood, like that of My Mini Pony. You will get a double result, appearing both witty and adorable.
- Choose some adorable accessories. If you want to be totally adorable, add some delicious accessories to your outfits too. Don't try to overdo it, simple gold or silver colored earrings, large bracelets and rings with pretty stones will be perfect.
Step 5. Get adorable facial expressions
Your face must also look adorable. So you don't need to appear frowning, upset or overly thoughtful. Show yourself happy to be alive and ready to open up at any moment in a smile. Your eyes must appear lively and curious. You can bite your lips from time to time to make yourself even more adorable.
When you talk to someone, make eye contact with them. Your sincere interest will be felt and will turn you into a lovely person
Step 6. Move in a lovely way
Learn to control your body language and maintain proper posture without leaning forward. Be sweet and friendly in your gestures and look up instead of staring at the floor. You can also play around with your hands or your clothes a bit, betraying a slight nervousness will make you look even more adorable. Don't cross your arms across your chest, or you will show yourself closed rather than adorable and ready to receive what the world has to offer.
Part 3 of 3: Possessing Adorable Qualities
Step 1. Make yourself useful. Lovely people are always busy helping others, whether it's an elderly lady who has to cross the street, a younger brother who needs help with his homework, or a puppy who wants to find a new home. Go in search of the many opportunities available and be ready to help even strangers. When you talk to a friend and realize they are in trouble, offer your support without asking.
This does not mean allowing others to always take advantage of you without receiving anything in return. If you help a friend, he should do the same to you. If you volunteer, the universe will pay off your efforts
Step 2. Be youthful
Being juvenile does not mean behaving completely immature. It simply means not being fed up with the outside world or so tired and overwhelmed that you forget that fun and playful person you were as a child. Remember what it was like to have fun constantly, always feel fascinated by the world and knowing how to take advantage of new opportunities. Laugh at even the silliest jokes, take dance lessons, or just play chase a friend in the park. You will be wise young at the same time.
Youthful people don't complain about having to walk or having to do something they don't want, they are too busy being mesmerized by life to slow down and complain
Step 3. Good habits are important
Lovely people always know when to say "please" and "thank you" and keep themselves upbeat and positive. They are always polite and respectful towards the elderly and those who provide service, keep the door open to others and avoid making unpleasant noises in public. They put their napkins on their knees before they eat, know how to be polite on the phone, and clean up after they pass. If you wish to be adorable, honing your ways is essential.
Step 4. Be sweet
Lovely people are also very sweet. Being sweet means being kind, joyful, and generally courteous to others. A sweet person wants others to feel loved and special, and they always want to show their attention and interest, even if they are someone they have just met. Your intentions don't have to appear false or forced, and you don't have to be just temporarily sweet and then quickly turn out to be mean behind someone's back. Being sweet takes practice, but with the right determination, you will learn to show love for others.
Step 5. Be playful. Adorable people are playful because they are curious about life and eager to explore new things. They enjoy chasing a ball on the beach, playing astride, teasing friends and having a good time. If you want to be playful, you need to be open to new things, without fear of looking at the world with the eyes of a child and finding new uses for old objects. If you want to be adorable, being playful will help you maintain a sweet and fun image.
Step 6. Be friendly and loving
Lovely people treat everyone with human warmth and affability. They greet those they know (and sometimes even strangers), remember the names of others and compliment those who deserve it. They inquire about the lives of others, show interest in their thoughts and even invite people to go out to the movies or organize parties for their closest friends. Human heat is a vibration you emit; you want others to feel your kindness and positive energy, and your genuine spirit radiating around them. Even if you're a little shy, you can still try to be a little friendlier.
- Friendly people are always eager to make new friends and introduce them to their loved ones. They are not afraid to be kind to those who are different from themselves.
- Affectionate people are welcoming, and when you meet them you want to enjoy their company to the fullest.
Advice
- Don't worry about your size, it's just a number! Make sure you wear clothes that fit your body shape to enhance it.
- Speak kind words.
- Every day, tell yourself that you are a good and valuable person! Because you are!
- Whatever you do, you decide to be adorable to yourself.
- Don't try to overdo it!
- If you're shy and have a crush on someone, don't be afraid to smile or wink at them.
- Volunteer to help anyone who needs it.
- Be kind to any living thing - especially animals, children, and the elderly.
- Don't let anyone tell you you're not good enough. Just because you are a lovely person doesn't mean that others can take advantage of you!
- Be yourself, don't try to appear too naive or decent.
