Do you want to be irresistibly adorable? Making people like you the moment they set their sights on you? Have a lot of friends who think you're the best and love you? Keep reading…
Steps
Step 1. Beloved Ones
People love those who love themselves. If you don't love yourself, there's no point in expecting others to do it.
Step 2. Be happy
People love to be with happy people, and nobody likes to be with someone who is sad.
Step 3. Choose a cute look
Make sure you're clean (of course), and not full of makeup. A little lip gloss and mascara, that's all. As clothes, wear whatever you want, but make sure the clothes fit you, are clean and show off your figure. Keep your nails, hair, skin and teeth clean and in good condition. Remember to be clean and to shower / bath.
Step 4. Be as kind as you can
Treat everyone like your best friend. Don't insult or make fun of others, and stand up for those to whom it happens. Don't get involved in a fight - just convince those who are tormenting them to leave them alone. Keep your promises, don't be rude and don't talk behind anyone's back.
Step 5. Regardless of how you feel, always smile
Don't stop being nice or ignoring others just because your computer broke - wear a smile and act normally. If you really can't, at least explain to others what's wrong. "Sorry if I answered wrong, but my computer broke and I put all my homework in it!" is much better than "Disappear!". People will understand. If you are the kind of person who always seems to have something wrong, force yourself to smile because others won't be understanding forever. Just like you, they want to surround themselves with "cheerful and bright" people.
Step 6. Get your teachers in the right direction
Turn in your homework on time, don't talk or pass notes in class, and work hard. If you really focus you will learn very useful and interesting things - and you still have weekends, parties, and before and after school to talk to your classmates. So take it easy and listen.
Step 7. Be sensitive and use common sense
This will earn you the respect and approval of great people like parents, teachers, older students, and other adults. During an emergency just think about what the most logical thing to do is, and do it. Stay calm and don't scream or freak out.
Step 8. Have respect for yourself
Easier said than done, I know. You have to understand that you are worth it. Read the articles on WikiHow about gaining self-confidence and stop postponing. If you don't like something about yourself, change it right away. You can do it. Remember that to be loved, you have to love and respect yourself.
Step 9. Be a great listener
This tip always works. People like to be at the center of other people's interest. Listen to them, even if they bore you, and you will be amazed.
Step 10. Loving others will make them love you
Respect your surroundings. And don't forget, SMILING is the most important thing.
Advice
- The most important thing is, accept, love and respect yourself unconditionally. It is a very subtle attitude and when practiced in a decisive way, it always harvests the fruit of true love and respect in the hearts of others.
- Yay loyal. Don't jump from friend to friend by talking to them behind their back - this will make you hateful to your friends, make you lose their trust and earn you a bad reputation.
- Don't be rude to others, even if others do.
- If someone insults you or says something to you, answer them calmly and politely, but always defend yourself so that they feel guilty if they say other bad things about you in the future. Spread love, not hate, and you will be seen as a good person who can be kind, but doesn't get caught by the nose.
- Don't worry if you don't succeed right away. Follow each step carefully before moving on to the next.
- Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you!
Warnings
- Don't let them take advantage of you, you end up losing out if you are too good.
- It's okay to say no to something you don't want to do as long as you say it kindly!
- However, there will be someone who won't like you or who might envy you. Don't let this get you down - be nice and do your best. Remember that, in general, there will be many people who love you and just as many who hate you. If you are a horrible person, horrible people will like you. If you are a beautiful person and follow these steps, you will be loved by beautiful people.
- Don't change your personality too much, be careful not to erase your feelings.
- Don't ask someone out just to make another jealous. You'd both hurt. Do not it works like in the movies.
- Don't let one person put you down, there are lots of other people waiting for you.
