Sometimes love is not enough. To keep a relationship fresh and spice it up every day, read this article!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Password: Adventure
Step 1. Try new positions in bed
Doing it the same way always leads to routine, so it's time to have a spicier sex life:
- Try to switch roles, both take the initiative. The surprise will keep the excitement high.
- Every time you have sex, your goal will be to try something new.
- There are hundreds and hundreds of positions to try. Search for them on the internet, read the Kamasutra and talk to your friends.
- Become more flexible by practicing yoga together. Also go for a run and stretch. Preparing the body will improve self-esteem and increase pleasure. If you are a girl, for example, you can wrap your legs around your partner's neck.
- Your new sense of adventure, however, shouldn't make you uncomfortable. You will both have to be willing to try new things, or it will not be a pleasant experience.
Step 2. Experiment in new places
Different positions will completely change your sex life, but doing it in different places will astronomically increase the arousal. Any suggestions?
- Go to a hotel, even if it is within walking distance of home. You will feel sexy just by going to a hotel for this purpose. Don't bring anything with you if this place is close, so your intent will be obvious.
- Plan a hot vacation on a romantic island or beach. Choose a location where there isn't much to do other than just relax. Having multiple sightseeing options will take you time.
- Having sex in the car is exciting, also because you run the risk of being seen.
- Having sex in a public place isn't always recommended, but it's worth trying at a friend's house or in your room when you have guests.
- Promise not to have sex in bed for a couple of weeks. Opt for the washing machine, the shower, your favorite chair or the sofa.
Step 3. Go and buy lingerie together
If you are a woman, try on the lingerie in the shop and show your boyfriend how it fits. The environment will warm up immediately.
- Fill your underwear drawer with thongs, garters, fishnets, push-ups and corsets. Don't be afraid to wear clothes that are over the top and very different from your style.
- Shop for scented candles, massage oils, and sexy-scented lotions for foreplay.
- Get some sex toys: whips, handcuffs, etc. Not everyone likes them, but it costs nothing to try.
Step 4. Experiment with RPGs:
it will be fun and exciting. There are many possible scenarios:
- Pretend a terrible fight by shouting and throwing objects. Then make peace.
- If you are a girl, pretend that your boyfriend or husband knocks on the door to repair a leak and ask him to give you the invoice; Or, pretend he's lost and needs directions. Invite him in.
- Buy various outfits at the sex shop. The ideas are numerous, especially for women: police officer, princess, sexy kitten …
- If you have a role-playing fantasy that you find ridiculous, tell your partner about it anyway.
Step 5. Trying new experiences is not just about sex
Get out of the comfort zone in other aspects of your life as well:
- Outdoor adventures: bungee jumping, skydiving, etc. You will feel elated and will get even closer.
- Travel to an exotic destination, from Singapore to Argentina. Choose a country totally different from yours.
- Dedicate yourself to a new hobby together, from mountain biking to karate. Neither of you should have ever tried the activity you choose before, so you will learn at the same pace and have quality time.
- Try cuisine you've never tasted before and eat in new restaurants at least once a month. You will delight your taste buds as you converse.
Method 2 of 3: A little romance never hurts
Step 1. Having a relationship since time immemorial does not justify starting to dress badly when you are at home with your partner
This does not mean that you must always put on your clothes, but show a minimum of care with regard to clothing.
- Keep cool. Being ready for new sexual adventures involves taking proper care of your personal hygiene.
- When on a date, dress in a special way to feel good and distract yourself. Girls can wear sexy dresses and high heels, while men can wear a suit or a good coat. You will feel more sensual if you perceive yourself this way.
- If you don't have any special plans for the evening, still agree to take particular care of your appearance during a good part of the time spent together, so that you both feel more inclined to romance.
- Compliment your partner on her looks softly and romantically.
Step 2. Arrange romantic dates
Here are some ideas:
- Look at the stars. For real. Bring a bottle of wine and chocolate with you. Do this on a full moon night and kiss between contemplations.
- Listen to some romantic music together in a jazz club or at a pianist's concert.
- Go and taste some wine together. Maybe, walk through the vineyards.
- Take a hot air balloon or carriage ride or a walk on the beach at sunset.
- Have a romantic picnic in the park with a bottle of wine, bread and cheese.
- You can have a romantic date even at home. Cook a delicious meal, turn off the lights, light the candles and put on some jazz music.
- Try to have a romantic date at least once a week.
Step 3. Romance should become part of your daily life, so think and act passionately even when you are in the supermarket
- Say romantic things creatively. Leave notes around the house to remind the other person that you care. A post-it on the mirror will suffice.
- Make romantic gestures. If you are a girl, surprise him kiss and give him lots of compliments. If you're a boy, be a gentleman by seating her, opening doors, and giving her your jacket when she's cold, perhaps insisting.
- Write a poem for your significant other. Don't feel embarrassed! Let your feelings do the talking. You can go to a park, spend an hour writing and then swap your creations.
- Don't forget to praise your partner's best features. Tell him you love him at least twice a day.
- Be romantic even when you are not physically present. Call and send messages and emails.
- Take the time to kiss, without necessarily having sex. Enjoy the little things, including tender kisses.
- Communication can be romantic. Share your thoughts and feelings with the one you love. Take some time to write her letters.
Method 3 of 3: Bold Moves
Step 1. Play with food, especially aphrodisiac food
- If you are a girl, let your partner pour wine on your chest and lick it.
- Suck an ice cube and then kiss your partner to give him new sensations.
- Eat aphrodisiac foods like fruit and chocolate while naked.
- After dinner, spread the dessert on your body and have your partner eat it like that.
- Place some chocolates on your partner's naked body and eat them. Don't use your hands, just your mouth.
Step 2. Try dirty talk to feel more excited
Do this both under the sheets and on the phone; use this medium to tell your partner what you would like them to do to you and schedule a meeting for the fantasies to come true, or have sex like this.
- Use dirty talk before foreplay. The right words will turn your partner on before they even start kissing you.
- Do this even during sex, make your partner realize how much you like their body.
- Send spicy messages, telling your sweetheart that you can't wait to see her. You can describe in detail what you want to do. Just make sure no one else is reading the text messages.
Step 3. Watch an erotic movie or video on the internet together to create a sensual atmosphere
It might seem strange at first, but seeing other people excited will give you new ideas.
If you are old-fashioned, look at sexy pictures together, otherwise, opt for porn
Step 4. Be spontaneous
The relationship will be more exciting if you know you can end up in bed at any time. Scheduling your appointment is important, as is communicating and spending time together, but planning too much isn't worth it.
- Wake up your partner in the middle of the night and go to a hotel, but don't tell him what you have in mind until the last minute.
- Don't be afraid to step forward, unless you're sure the other person isn't in the mood.
- Kiss your partner when you feel like it, perhaps in a different place than usual.
- Plan a surprise trip and leave at sunset, without telling your partner where you will go. You will be able to converse during the trip and have sex upon arrival.
- If you are out but are in the mood for sex, take your partner by the hand and take him home. Say "I want you now".
Advice
- Not taking your partner for granted is super important in making the relationship more alive. Don't forget to tell your significant other how lucky you feel to have her.
- Taking a dance class together will unite you from every point of view.
- You know the difference between a relationship doomed to failure and one that just needs to be stirred up.
