Do you want to make yourself beautiful for the guy you have a crush on, to get him to ask you out? Do you want to remind your boyfriend why he fell in love with you? Do you want to show your ex that you deserve better? Here is a guide that will allow you to attract the interest of the guy you like.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Look
Step 1. Dress to make a good impression
Choose feminine clothes that showcase your best features. Men have a tendency to be drawn to hourglass figures. This means you should accentuate your waist by using a belt or a tight top to draw the eye to that spot. Wear flowing materials, such as layers of lace, feminine cuts, and necklines. Studies also show that men are more attracted to women who wear red.
Step 2. You should keep your hair loose or tied in a simple way
This means avoiding overly complicated braids. Instead, try tying your hair in a messy and informal way or letting your long curls loose.
Treat your hair with a conditioner and a spray to protect it from heat if you curl or straighten your hair often
Step 3. Makeup should always look natural
It should draw attention to your best features.
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Lip:
full and plump lips are attractive to men. So try using a light or medium pink to carefully color your mouth.
- Eyes: men find large bright eyes attractive. Your goal must be to outline the eyes without drawing too much attention to the makeup. So instead of overdoing the eyeshadow, try using a white eye contour around the corners and under the brows, then draw a thin line with liquid eyeliner on the upper lid and use mascara that adds volume.
Step 4. Cure your perfume
This aspect will allow you to remain in his thoughts for a long time. Literally. Spray yourself with enough perfume for him to smell if he gets close. Don't overdo it, and if you happen to, use alcohol to remove excess perfume.
Step 5. Also take care of all the other aspects that make you beautiful
You will have to work hard to always look your best.
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Teeth:
get white and shiny teeth using whitening toothpaste. Every 5 months, try using whitening strips to make your teeth even whiter. Always use mouthwash after brushing your teeth to prevent bad breath.
It is a myth that you should chew gum to freshen your breath. On the contrary, you will stimulate your salivary glands and make it worse. Try a mint instead
- Skin: Get glowing and shiny skin by washing your face every night and exfoliating it once a week. Thanks to this operation your skin will have a fresh and new look. If you want to add some color, add bronzer to your cosmetic products instead of using lamps, which can cause damage.
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Body:
get smooth and soft legs by using a razor for men and not for women. Use a body cleanser that prevents irritation and is exfoliating.
Method 2 of 2: Behavior
Step 1. Flirt
Always keep an open attitude, appearing to have fun and be willing to converse. If you want to look pretty, don't be difficult and don't ignore it. While this should work, men are more attracted to women who seem to have fun, who are pleasant, and don't take things too seriously. So instead of pretending you don't notice him, approach him and give him a compliment. He will be pleasantly struck by your exuberance and will want to keep talking to you.
Step 2. Trust yourself
Even if you want to try to be available, don't be desperate. Have fun and he will follow you. Men are attracted to women who know how to have fun and have their own lives. By showing him that you are happy alone, he will want to participate too.
Step 3. Smile sincerely
Your smile is your best quality. Especially if you have followed the previous advice, your smile can be an exceptional weapon of seduction. So smile. Men are attracted to funny and happy women. Try to be too!
Step 4. Use the right body language
Look him directly in the eye when you listen to him and talk to him, and he'll think you're interested in what he's saying. Touching his arm with your hand is a non-provocative way to show your interest. Also be sure to mimic his body language, and you will find yourself on the same wavelength on a subconscious level.
Step 5. Talk only about light and positive topics
One thing that turns men away is listening to a girl who does nothing but complain. Only talk about positive stories and light topics and offer him the best conversation he has ever had.
Advice
- If you wear jeans, make sure your zip is pulled up!
- Don't be too shy in her presence. A small dose of shyness, however, can be pleasant.
- Try to talk to him more. You could try to make conversation with his friends; in this way you will attract a lot of his attention and he will not be able to do by hand to notice you.
- Try to look nice and get noticed, but don't get too exposed or you could get a bad reputation.
- If you don't have the cute clothes as described above, and don't have much money to spend, try an outlet or take advantage of the sales, or wear the best clothes you have. You could also find some beautiful clothes at the flea markets and pay very little for them. Don't abandon your style.
- Try to be nice and flirt.
- Try using a shampoo specific to your hair type and follow the trends in hairstyles.
- Make sure you apply the polish slowly and gently. With haste you will only risk making a mess!
- Read fashion magazines if you don't know the latest trends.
Warnings
- If he liked you in the past, it's because you were yourself. Even if you were just friends, he still appreciated something about you. Be careful, if you change to try to win him back and then go back to being yourself when you get back together, he'll understand your game right away.
- Dress the way you think is best; imitating other people or their clothing boys don't particularly like. They prefer unique girls.
- If you're trying to get noticed by someone you're infatuated with or are on a first date with them, don't indulge too easily. It's not nice and, eventually, you will give people the wrong impression and end up in pain.
- When kissing time approaches, finish your peppermint or throw in the chewing gum!
- Don't try too hard to get noticed. If he likes you, he will eventually notice you. Also, other people may notice your attitude and criticize you.
- If you're trying to follow these tips to get your ex back, don't make your intentions clear right away.