It is important for a girl to spend quality time alone. If you spend a lot of time at school or at home with friends and family, you will eventually want to escape to your room and have fun. You can do this in many ways and only you can decide which one is right for you. Whether you decide to just think about fun, take care of your business or plan for the future, you can make your time alone as enjoyable as possible.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Have fun
Step 1. Invent a new look
Remember this is a game, so don't take yourself too seriously and you'll be fine. Don't be afraid to decorate your face with heavy make-up, give yourself nail polish in an unusual color, get your hair straight 10 cm high or try on all the clothes you have in your closet. There are no taboos in this mini makeover. You are using your creativity, so don't limit yourself.
- Pair all your shoes with pants, skirts and sweaters you've never worn together.
- Take pictures of the combinations you like best. You never know if you will one day become a stylist and you won't find out if you don't try to experiment.
- Color each finger with a different colored nail polish. If you like it, don't change. If not, you can always use some solvent and start over.
Step 2. Organize your own show
Gather a cast of puppets or toy soldiers and come up with a scene. You can choose the parts of all the characters, the costumes and direct the show. Create songs for the soundtrack, or use your favorite songs. You are the director, so choose the one you prefer.
- He begins the story by saying: "Once upon a time there was a girl alone in her room."
- If you feel stuck, you can say, "And now an ad break." Use the break to find ideas, perhaps asking your puppets for advice.
- If you like the idea, take a video of the show and watch it again. You can decide whether to keep it or delete it. Either way, it's going to be fun.
Step 3. Exercise
Even if you're in your room, it doesn't mean you can't be active. This is your personal space, so make the most of it. A little exercise can be the ideal remedy to relieve the stress you feel.
- If you prefer relaxing exercises, try yoga or meditation.
- If you want to get your heart rate up, put on some music and dance. Imagine that you are a Zumba teacher and your puppets are the students.
- If your parents give you permission, jump onto the bed, being careful not to fall.
Step 4. Write short stories or poems
Many women and girls have journals they write in every day. Others write poems or short stories which they decide to publish or keep private. Stories, whether real or fictional, make life more fun. You might be great at writing happy, funny, sad, or scary stories, but you'll never find out if you don't try.
- If you want your stories to remain private, you can make sure that nobody reads them.
- If you decide to share your stories, make sure you do so with people you trust and care about you.
Step 5. Watch movies
Is there a list of movies you would like to see? Or you've already seen your favorite movie a hundred times, but you want to watch it again. This is a great pastime, so turn on your TV or mobile device and start playback.
- After watching a movie, write down what you liked and what you didn't like. The next time you talk to a friend or relative, you can discuss it.
- You can decide to non-stop watching some episodes of a television series that you have heard of.
Step 6. Read some magazines to stay up to date on the latest trends
Magazines give you an insight into the most popular topics in current affairs, fashion, sports and all other fields. Choose publications that talk about your interests and others that can introduce you to new and exciting elements.
Try Chi, Donna Moderna, Cosmopolitan, etc. If you are interested in music, sports or science, look for publications on those topics
Part 2 of 3: Take care of yourself
Step 1. Catch up on lost sleep
Most growing girls need a lot of energy throughout the day. Sometimes it's nice to put everything aside and take a good nap. Without proper rest, you cannot think that you are one hundred percent. The average person needs 7-8 hours of sleep a night.
- If you like to take a siesta in your comfortable bed, go for it. Invite all your puppets to join you.
- Sleep regenerates the body, so sleep as long as you need it.
Step 2. Redecorate your room
You can do some small changes or a total makeover. Even moving furniture can be a great way to create a new environment. A change in the room you live in can be fun, healthy and energizing.
- If you have paint, newspaper, and parental approval, paint your room. This takes planning, so make sure you've thought of everything before you begin.
- Swap old posters for new prints. This way you will have something new to look at and your room will look different.
- New pillows or quilts may be enough to liven up the room.
- Open the window and let the sunlight in, which is good for you and helps you see your room from a new perspective.
Step 3. Order your room
Most people don't like this activity, but everyone appreciates having their room tidy. After tidying up, you will feel more organized and serene. If your life is full of problems and difficulties, this will make you feel better.
- Focus on the good feeling you get when the room is tidy.
- Listen to music while you clean. You will be able to distract yourself and time will pass faster. The room will be in order before you know it.
- If you tidy up the room before your parents ask, you will earn their favor.
Step 4. Tidy up the closet
There are probably shoes, clothes or toys in the furniture that you have not worn or used for a long time. You can have fun donating those items to a charity. Think about the organizations that help children. Your generosity will help someone else have fun.
- If you've never worn an item in a year, consider donating it.
- Hang lavender bags in the closet to cool it down.
Step 5. Choose clothes for next week
If you hate wasting time in the morning deciding what to wear, prepare in advance. Start with a day and get inspired. You may have been thinking about a new look during the day and can't wait to try it on at school.
- Choosing your clothes in advance saves you time and work, as well as allowing you to sleep more in the morning.
- You will first know which clothes you need to wash to have the clothes you need for your ideas available.
Part 3 of 3: Planning for the Future
Step 1. Find out about universities
There are many universities in the world and one day you will have to choose one. That time will come before you know it, so it's fun to find out which universities are most interesting to you. Find out where they are, what special programs they offer, and how many students they have.
- Attending college is one of the most challenging, yet fun and memorable stages of life. Making the best choice is very important in finding success and being happy.
- Scholarships can help you partially or fully cover university expenses. Learn about the laws for the right to study.
Step 2. Think about your career
You can dream of what you would like to become when you grow up, or you can learn what path you need to follow to succeed. The more information you know about a career, the better you will know which academic and career path to take to achieve your goals.
- If you want to become a doctor, find out what courses you need to follow, how many years of study you need to dedicate to your dream and what impact your commitment will have on the world.
- Call someone who does your dream job and ask them questions you have prepared for. You can start by saying, "Hi, my name is _ and I'm thinking of becoming a _. Can you give me any advice?" From there you can continue the conversation.
- People work for about 50 years of their life. Finding a job that is fun and satisfying is essential.
Step 3. Learn how to buy a home
Owning a home is a common goal for many people. Wouldn't it be fun to find out what it takes to buy your dream home? Study the areas where you would like to live. Determine the average price of properties in that area and evaluate how much money you need to accomplish your goal.
- Make a long-term goal of buying yourself a house. Once you know what you need to do, you can focus on your career and building up the necessary finances.
- You will find that most people buy small properties first. Make sure not only that you can afford the payments, but that you can live within your budget. If you don't have money to spend on entertainment, you'd be better off choosing a smaller house.
Step 4. Study the women who have made a difference throughout history
You can enjoy yourself by using your free time to study the achievements and personal qualities of women who have achieved great success in life. Wouldn't you like to find a mentor or role model who can help you and guide you?
- You don't have to imitate everything a person does; focus more on the occasions when he struggled and failed, but was able to get back on his feet and achieve success.
- Tenacity, independence and resourcefulness are qualities to be admired and which you should develop too. Success can be fun.
Step 5. Prepare the homework schedule for the following week
You're spending the day in your room today, but next week you'll be in school. Plan ahead for the days to come and reduce the stress caused by classwork, projects and questions. Reading in black and white what you have to do allows you to ease the pressure and uncertainty you feel. Schedule time for each activity.
- Going through a week with great organization and results is a great feeling, which pushes you to learn more when you go to school.
- Don't forget to think about time for fun. It is important to have fun in order to maintain the right balance and a positive attitude towards the school.
Advice
- Do what you like. Nobody stops you from enjoying yourself when you are alone in the room.
- To maintain the right balance, it is important to find time to have fun.
- Consider all the options available to you and try new and exciting things. You can't know if you like something before you try it.
- Reflecting on yourself is essential for your development. Time alone is necessary.
- Write a list of the things you like to do. You will remember all the fun days ahead.
- Play and jump on the bed!
- Use creativity!
Warnings
- Stay safe in your room and on the internet. Online you are not alone and some people try to take advantage of young girls.
- Never make arrangements to meet someone you met online. Discuss all similar situations with your parents or with an adult.
- Don't spend too much time alone. Look for the company of others as often as possible, so that you find the right balance between moments of alone and socialization.
