Becoming irresistible to the opposite sex means accentuating your strengths, be it mental and physical or emotional, with the certainty of achieving what you want. Remember that being irresistible is more your personal thing than others - focus on yourself. Become the best person you can and men will come running!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Having an Irresistible Personality
Step 1. Be confident
Confidence is one of the most irresistible personality traits for a woman - learn to love yourself, including your flaws!
- Think about it - how can you expect a man to think of you as beautiful, smart and nice if you don't believe it first?
- Stop worrying about your flaws and focus on all the things you like about yourself - make a list or repeat positive affirmations, if it helps.
- Another good tip is to be confident, even if you are intimately shy or nervous.
Step 2. Be fun
Having a good sense of humor is always positive, especially when dating. Also, you will look more attractive while you are laughing or smiling.
- It doesn't mean you have to be a comedian. You should at least be able to laugh at yourself and not take life too seriously.
- Suppose a guy accidentally pours a drink on you. Do you yell at him about everything because he ruined your dress or do you laugh at him, suggesting that he buy you a drink to make up for it? Which version do you think the guy would find more attractive? Definitely the second.
Step 3. Be pretty
Sometimes girls think that acting mysterious and aloof will make them irresistible to men, but that's wrong. If you want a man with a kind and genuine heart, you should be sincere.
- Being nice means being nice and courteous, avoiding mistreating a would-be suitor, unless the guy is a real idiot.
- If you find yourself having a conversation with a guy, try to avoid talking about yourself all the time. Express an interest in him and try to really listen to what he says. This will boost his ego, making him subconsciously more attracted to you!
- Even if you're not interested in him, try to tell him gently. Think about how you would like to be treated if the situation were reversed.
Step 4. Be smart
You should never say stupid things just to make yourself more attractive to a guy.
- This tactic does not serve to attract the "right" guy, because any man worthy of the name finds intelligence attractive.
- The right guy will be attracted to your sharp wit, appreciate your ability to converse intelligently, and be genuinely interested in your opinion. Avoid that expression that looks into space, nodding like a stuffed dog!
- If you want to boost your conversation skills, the best thing you can do is keep yourself informed about current events - read the newspaper or watch the news, so you never run out of conversation topics.
Step 5. Just be yourself
You will have heard it a million times. Well, hear it once more, because it really matters: be yourself!
- Don't try to impersonate a certain character just because you think it will make you more attractive. This rarely works and ends up being exhausting. If you think the real you can't please a guy, you'll never go anywhere!
- Of course, the truth can be embellished a little when it comes to the little things that manage to animate the conversation.
Method 2 of 3: Being Physically Irresistible
Step 1. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in
There is no denying that what you wear is important, because it tells the world how you want to be seen.
- Therefore, it is important to wear comfortable clothes that express your personality and make you feel attractive.
- Men aren't just interested in party-dressed girls, who wear tight dresses and stagger in high heels.
- The right guy will be irresistibly attracted to a woman who feels comfortable with herself, no matter what she's wearing - a smart business suit or overalls.
- However, it is not bad to take pride in your appearance by wearing clothes that showcase the best qualities - your bright eyes, your hips or your curvy shapes.
Step 2. Put on your makeup
It's a fantastic tool for highlighting your best features, covering blemishes, and helping you feel more confident about your appearance.
- The right shade can cover a variety of skin problems - acne, redness, dark spots and dark circles. It can thin a round face or lengthen it. Expertly applied mascara can enlarge the eyes, making them larger and brighter looking. The list of benefits goes on.
- Make-up should not be applied as if it were a mask. Instead, you should use it to highlight your best features and camouflage any flaws. And remember that it's not the makeup itself that makes you irresistible, but the confidence you gain by wearing it!
- Of course, if you prefer, you can avoid wearing it. It's not mandatory!
Step 3. Style your hair
Beautiful, shiny and well-groomed, hair can be very attractive to guys, so it's important to give them proper attention.
- First, you need to strive to have your hair clean as often as possible. Can you imagine going out with the guy of your dreams one day when you have oily hair? It would be mortifying. If you lead a very tight lifestyle, try carrying a pack of dry shampoo in your bag for a quick splash in times of emergency.
- Trim your hair regularly so it looks healthy and well-kept, rather than shaggy and scruffy. If you have treated hair, don't wait too long between appointments to avoid regrowth.
- Experiment with different styles to find the look that's right for you that highlights your best features. Ask your hairdresser for advice if you are unsure.
Step 4. It smells good
You should not only have a beautiful appearance, but also appeal to as many human senses as possible. This is why it is so important that you find your own fragrance to be able to scent irresistibly!
- Obviously, the first step to having a pleasant smell is to take care of personal hygiene. Find a good shower gel to use on a daily basis and then apply the lotion with the same fragrance - this way the scent will last longer.
- Choose a fragrance that matches your personality and the time of year - light and fruity, warm floral or musky and consistent? Don't make a snap decision when it comes to perfumes - go to the perfumery and get a test sample. Wear it all day to see how Roma develops. If you still like it in the evening, then you would do well to buy it.
- Don't overdo it when it comes to application - you don't want the guy to feel overwhelmed by your scent! Apply just a little on the hot spots of the body - on the inside of the wrists and elbows, behind the ears and on the inner thigh. There will be a scented trail every time you walk!
Step 5. Stay fit and healthy
You don't have to be skinny to attract a guy, but you do need to take care of yourself and pay attention to your health.
- Men are irresistibly drawn to confident women who feel happy and healthy in their own skin - that's a fact.
- When you're trying to convince yourself to order a salad instead of a pizza, think of the guy of your dreams - he should give you motivation.
- Try to find a physical activity that you like, so that the benefits of exercise are just an added bonus. Take a dance class, go horseback riding, learn to surf - something that keeps you excited and motivated. It will also offer you something interesting to talk about when you are chatting with the guys!
- Remember that attracting a guy is not the only reason for eating healthily and exercising. You should do it for yourself, but, if you have a motivation, that's okay anyway.
Method 3 of 3: Irresistibly Flirting
Step 1. Smile a lot
It is an essential part of good flirting. Studies have shown that smiling makes you more attractive to the opposite sex - so what are you waiting for? Show your beautiful smile!
- Smiling and laughing makes you look so much more approachable. And it's good if you're dying for that guy who comes over to talk to you!
- Smiling will also make you happier and more confident, two very important feelings when you decide to flirt.
Step 2. Eye contact
Initiating and maintaining eye contact is a classic courtship technique that has worked for hundreds of years!
- There is something intimate in looking a person directly in the eye. Eye contact is a great way to communicate your interest without saying a word.
- A trick that guys find particularly irresistible is to stare at the object of your interest until they realize you're looking at it. Hold eye contact for a moment, then smile and look away (while blushing, if possible). You will definitely hook it!
Step 3. Be a good conversationalist
It doesn't matter how beautiful you are, how much you smell or how bright your smile is: you won't be able to keep a man's attention to him for long if you don't know how to entertain him in conversation.
- Ask a bunch of questions so the guy can talk about himself and let you know what he likes. Avoid talking too much about yourself, otherwise you risk appearing self-centered.
- When you talk, try to insert the boy's name into the conversation as much as possible. It seems simple, but it actually manages to create a great sense of intimacy between you.
- Try to find common ground, whether it's a passion for black and white films or for the local football team. This shows that you are compatible and will allow the conversation to flow more easily.
Step 4. Break the physical barrier
It will be the next step once you have a good conversation with the man you are interested in.
- By making physical contact, you are signaling your interest and tingling your senses by making him want you even more.
- The contact can be very light - a small touch on the arm on his shoulder, an accidental graze of your hand on his or a gentle touch against his shoulder.
- If he felt really bold, you can pretend to tidy his collar, tie, or hair to brush his neck or forehead with your fingers. This offers you an excuse to get a little closer to him. When making this move, take the opportunity to smile and make eye contact.
Step 5. Leave it in a way that you want more
One of the most important tricks when it comes to flirting is always leaving the guy so he wants more. This makes you a bit mysterious and unattainable and allows the boy to experience the thrill of the hunt.
- Don't wait to leave when the conversation gets awkward or boring, but look for a time when the conversation gets interesting. It will take some serious self-control, but the results will be worth it.
- Take the initiative to give the boy your number before leaving. I could write it down on a piece of paper and put it in his pocket or you could write down his number and put it in your contacts. Men love forward-thinking women who want to pursue what they want.
- When you leave, lean on him as if for a kiss, but at the last moment he turns his head and whispered in his ear "I was fine!". With those words you will have her in your power and she will not be able to resist the temptation to call you to have an appointment!
Advice
- When a guy gives you a compliment, don't turn him down. Say 'thank you' and he will appreciate it.
- Keep the butts or mints close at hand.
- Be sociable, but not too much. Stand out and be confident, but don't act like you have no other qualities.
- Encourage the boy when he needs it.
- Guys like it when you laugh at their jokes even if they're not funny. Don't laugh too often though or you will seem inappropriate.
- Enter the room naturally, with your head held high, proud and gracefully.
Warnings
- Be careful not to get clingy, because people who do this sooner or later become annoying.
- Don't be too sure of yourself. Don't say things like "I'm hot" and "You should be grateful for finding a perfect girl like me," or you'll look conceited. There is a big difference between being self-confident and arrogant. Do not exceed certain limits! Being confident means that you are not being treated like a doormat, but that you stand up for your ideas. On the other hand, being arrogant and persistent means that you are trampling on others and their ideas.
