Has a beautiful woman caught your attention? Would you like him to spend more time with you? If you want to become irresistible in the eyes of women, try to cultivate confidence and charisma. Be yourself and honest, but also show respect when you talk to them. Hygiene and personal care play a fundamental role, so don't neglect your appearance at all. Plus, optimism and grit are fascinating qualities, so keep a positive attitude and take various opportunities to improve yourself personally. If you take care of yourself, more people will enjoy your company and, on top of that, you will live your life to the fullest.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Communicate with Women
Step 1. Be yourself instead of pretending
Don't lie about your interests and don't pretend to be who you are not. Women easily notice when a man tries to show himself differently than he is, so be honest. Being irresistible doesn't mean putting on a show: truly irresistible people are authentic.
- For example, if sports don't appeal to you, don't tell the girl you like her that you're great at soccer just to impress her. Rather, identify the interests you might have in common. The chances of her being attracted to you will be higher if you really have something to share.
- Also, be aware that authentic people are trustworthy. If others know they can trust you, they will be more likely to seek your company.
- Be yourself, but don't feel compelled to tell every detail of your life during the learning phase. Being honest doesn't mean confessing the deepest secrets on a first date.
Step 2. Show self-confidence through body language
Communicate openness and expansiveness with posture to show others that you are comfortable with yourself. For example, keep your back straight instead of hunching over. When you sit down, find a comfortable and natural position instead of being stiff.
- Instead of keeping your hands in your pockets or crossing your arms, move your hands as you speak to emphasize the most important points in your speech.
- Avoid assuming postures and gestures that can make you uncomfortable. For example, if you are shy, standing up straight will make you look like a relaxed and confident person. Don't feel compelled to gesticulate in a blatant way as if you were on stage.
Step 3. Begin with a good icebreaker joke
You don't have to prepare a hilarious monologue, but a little sense of humor can help. A joke is especially useful when you are nervous and don't know what to say. If you're not good at improvising, try memorizing some witty thoughts.
Search the Internet or watch some comedy shows. You should resort to subtle humor, especially if you've just met a woman. Also, unless you have a solid relationship where you feel free to joke with each other, don't make fun of her
Don't just rely on humor:
jokes help stimulate conversation, but witty and biting sayings shouldn't get in the way of developing an understanding. People are irresistible when they go to the bottom. It's nice to make a woman laugh, but she'll find you more charming if you show real interest in her way of thinking and feeling.
Step 4. Listen and ask questions during the conversation
Make eye contact as you speak, but avoid staring at your interlocutor without even blinking. If appropriate, nod your head and say "yes" or "this is interesting" to make sure you are listening.
When you talk to a woman, or anyone else, ask a few questions to keep the conversation going, making sure it is relevant to her speech. If she's told you she loves music, ask what her favorite genre or group is instead of changing the subject
Step 5. Have respect and be honest when giving a compliment
Avoid overwhelming her with fake praise, but highlight a quality or success that honestly sparked your admiration. If you like a woman, appreciate her for reasons other than her appearance and never make inappropriate or sexual comments.]
- Give her kind compliments, such as: "You got a good grade in the question today", "You sing divinely" or "You have excellent taste in music."
- Occasionally a few comments on appearance are welcome as long as it is respectful and counterbalanced by those that highlight his personality. For example, if you tell her, "You look beautiful" or "You have a really nice dress. I love your style!", It's cute, but not "Hey babe, you look great!".
Step 6. Give it space instead of being stuffy
Irresistible people are magnetic - they attract others, but they don't beg for attention. Moreover, when there is a woman involved to conquer, the insistence risks extinguishing her interest. If you send her tons of text messages as long as paragraphs and get terse replies, it means it's time to give her some space.
- Remember that giving space does not mean either doing the hard one or ignoring it completely. You can genuinely express your interest to her without appearing to need her consideration or desperate for attention.
- For example, if you want to ask her out, say, "I'd like to go to that new bar they've opened. Would you like to come with me later?"
- After your first or second date, you might say (or write to her): "I had a lot of fun!" However, don't send her a 5-page long text message telling her that you've fallen madly in love with her.
Method 2 of 3: Take Care of Your Physical Appearance
Step 1. Maintain personal hygiene and cleanliness
Bathe regularly, brush your teeth twice a day, always floss, wash and comb your hair. In addition to personal care, don't forget good hygiene habits, such as washing your hands often, coughing up your sleeve, and keeping your hands off your face.
Proper personal hygiene goes beyond the simple rules that guarantee a decent appearance, but allows you to demonstrate that you know how to take care of yourself and the fact of respecting your needs is a very fascinating quality. Also, you won't attract a lot of people if you look scruffy, smelly or pick your nose when you're around people
Step 2. Maintain a healthy lifestyle
Eat a healthy diet, exercise at least 30 minutes a day, and get 7-9 hours of sleep every night, or as much as is recommended for your age group. Don't obsess about having a perfect body or being in great shape at all costs. Rather, just think about making healthy choices.
Like personal hygiene, choosing a healthy lifestyle also shows that you want to improve
Step 3. Dress presentably and suitably for the occasion
Choose garments that fit your size, also make sure your clothing is clean and presentable when you leave the house. Keep in mind that you don't need to dress up to be well dressed. Always try to wear appropriate clothing for the circumstances.
For example, you may feel uncomfortable in a buttoned-up shirt tucked into your breeches over a pair of dress pants for a picnic where everyone is wearing shorts and sandals. On the other hand, a stained and creased T-shirt worn over pajama bottoms will not be a strong appeal for women
Enrich your wardrobe:
you don't have to bleed to improve your clothing. Look for quality items at outlets and second-hand stores; go in search of good offers during the end of season discounts. Slowly buy well-made clothes that last a long time to alternate and combine with each other.
Step 4. Make sure you smell good
In addition to bathing regularly and brushing your teeth, put on deodorant and aftershave or perfume. Bromhidrosis (unpleasant body odor) and bad breath are deterrents to any acquaintance, while a good smell will allow you to have an irresistible air.
- Keep in mind that too much aftershave and perfume are just as unpleasant as bromhidrosis. Better not to overdo it especially if the perfume you carry is strong. Just a couple of sprays on the neck and wrists.
- Also, have a packet of mints or gum on hand for fresh breath.
Step 5. Look after your appearance, but don't be vain
Even if you want to be your best, don't always look in the mirror. Take care of your appearance, without not being obsessed with it. Make sure you are clean and tidy so that you feel good in your own skin.
Women will not find you attractive if you appear to be a vain man. On the other hand, if you constantly check your appearance, you may seem insecure, a quality that is certainly not irresistible
Method 3 of 3: Develop an Irresistible Personality
Step 1. Improve your self-confidence
Irresistible people are casual and calm about themselves. Don't sound like an arrogant person, but be proud of who you are. You will put others at ease if you stand up straight and express yourself confidently - women (and people in general) will seek your company.
By downplaying yourself and always questioning yourself, you put people in difficulty. Learn to be self-deprecating and don't be afraid to look stupid or say the wrong thing. Remember that no one is perfect and that every now and then everyone can escape unhappy phrases
Advise:
if you're feeling down and need a confidence boost, list the best sides of your personality. Think about the characteristics and skills you are most proud of, such as having a great sense of humor, playing a musical instrument, or excelling in a sport.
Step 2. Keep a fun and positive attitude, especially when you are on a date
Things won't always go your way, but you should look at the bright side of life. When you go on a date or talk to women, don't be negative and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Try to have fun and try to enjoy this phase of knowledge.
- Optimism is a very attractive quality. It will be much easier for women to find you irresistible if they enjoy hanging out with you.
- There's nothing wrong with taking it out on a friend when something bad happens to you, but avoid telling all your problems to someone you just met. For example, if you are on a first date, don't talk nonstop about how awful your day was and don't complain about all the injustices in the world.
Step 3. Remember that the judgment of others does not define you personally
Don't be angry if someone judges you or isn't attracted to you. It is not certain that what someone likes is equally fascinating to another. Tastes are subjective and each woman, each person in general, is an individual in her own right.
- Keep in mind that attraction isn't a choice - it just happens. If someone doesn't find you irresistible, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
- However, if someone expresses a negative opinion about you, you may want to reflect on their opinion and use what they said to you to improve. For example, if someone notices that you are a little talkative, make an effort to listen and ask a few questions during the conversation.
Step 4. Do everything to improve
Women are attracted to people who seek to grow and improve, so take every opportunity to live life to the fullest. Set specific and achievable goals; take the necessary steps to reach them with each passing day.
- List your personal, professional and financial goals. Examples include cultivating a new hobby, pursuing an exercise program, getting a promotion, and buying a car or house.
- Long-term goals can seem difficult to achieve, so break them down into smaller goals. For example, if you plan to buy a house, ask for a pay raise, use it to set aside a deposit, take out a loan, and take a homeowner financial education course.
Advice
- Don't gossip or treat people badly. Since your reputation precedes you, know that irresistible people are honest and respectful.
- There is a difference between self-confidence and conceit. Self-esteem doesn't mean bragging or telling everyone how good you are.
- Remember not to see rejection as the end of the world. If a woman isn't attracted to you or doesn't find you irresistible, don't worry. Eventually you will meet the right one!
