Are you in a romantic relationship and would like your girlfriend to like you more? It's sad when you really care about someone but feel like they don't fully reciprocate your feelings. Fortunately, there are a few ways to get her to like you more.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Spend More Time With Her
Step 1. Find time to be with her
It doesn't matter how busy you are; if you want to have a girlfriend, you must be willing to spend time with her. Your relationship cannot improve if you are never together.
Step 2. Let her know that you think about her even when you are not together
Although there are days when you can't see each other, let her know that you would like to be with her. If you do this too often you will get annoying, but when she is on vacation with the family or busy with work, you can tell her that you are thinking about her. This will make her feel wanted.
For example, write her down and tell her you miss her
Step 3. Be flexible and available to him
Even if you are very busy, let her know that you are willing to be with her anywhere, anytime. Maybe you can only meet for half an hour for lunch or you can only be together when her parents are there. If you really like her and want her to appreciate you more, it's important to be open to everything. This will show her that you want to be by her side regardless of the circumstances.
Method 2 of 3: Resolve Disagreements
Step 1. Keep an open mind
The worst thing you can do is be stubborn. Try to understand that your girlfriend has her own individuality and you can't force her to do anything. Let them make their own decisions without constantly expressing your disagreement.
For example, if she wants to get a tattoo and you don't like the idea, try to keep an open mind. You may find that you find it very attractive
Step 2. Don't be hateful
When you are in an intimate relationship with a person, you often feel frustrated or less patient than usual. Avoid verbally assaulting your girlfriend.
For example, if you have an argument, make sure you stay calm and have a civil argument, so that it's more of a debate than a fight. Also try not to raise your voice
Step 3. Make compromises
You can always find a middle ground. You don't have to give it all to your girlfriend, but you do have to be willing to change your position as your relationship goes away. It shouldn't be hard if you really care about her. Try not to be too rigid.
For example, does she absolutely want to watch a certain movie while you would prefer another one? Offer to see the movie you want next weekend if she chooses it this time
Step 4. Ask for his opinion
Even if you don't agree on everything, don't be afraid to ask for his opinion on various topics. This way, not only will you get to know her better, but you will show her that you value her point of view a lot, even though you are not aligned on every issue.
Step 5. Express your disagreement with respect
If you decide to stick to your position, openly disagree with your girlfriend, be sure to do it in a respectful and polite manner.
You can say, "I don't know, I haven't changed my mind, but you have made some very clever remarks that I will have to consider."
Method 3 of 3: Treat It Better
Step 1. Spend more time on activities you enjoy
Don't insist on seeing a movie that only you like or going to your favorite club. Ask her what she prefers to do and try to spend a lot of time on those activities as well. Don't be afraid to share your passions with her, but always try to notice how much fun she is having. Maintain the right balance.
Step 2. Make her feel important and appreciated
Compliment her on her looks, her personality, her sense of humor and everything in between. Don't overdo it, but be sure to voice your thoughts when you notice something about her that strikes you. This way, you will make her feel special and will probably lead her to appreciate you more.
- For example: "You are much better at math than I am. It is nice to be with such an intelligent person."
- Another example: "I really like hearing your opinion about other people. You have great intuition."
Step 3. Carry the conversation on
If you are having a hard time engaging in dialogue with her, ask her how her day went and what she wants to do. Don't be afraid to tell her your thoughts or interesting things you've seen. She will likely appreciate that you share your life with her.
Step 4. Plan ahead
It's a great idea to plan your appointments a little in advance. This way, you will have the opportunity to be more creative without suffering the pressure of the moment. Try not to do the same thing all the time.
For example, if you went to the movies this Saturday, plan an excursion for next weekend
Step 5. Give her gifts
The idea that girls need to be covered in gifts all the time is a cliché, but everyone likes to get a thought. Flowers are always appreciated, but you can also surprise her with a more personal gift. If she really enjoys running, buy her a backpack or sports watch. You don't have to wait for the anniversary or other similar events; unexpected gifts are often the most welcome ones.
Step 6. Build relationships with his friends and relatives
It's important that people who know your girlfriend well also think you're a good person. She will appreciate if you take your time to get to know the people who are important to her and they may even put in a good word for you.
Step 7. Introduce it to your family
It is also important to let her know that you have serious intentions about your relationship. By introducing her to your family and being proud of her, you will let her know that you want to make your relationship work for the long term.
Advice
- Make sure she always knows how much you love her.
- If she wants or needs something, give it to her or try to help her.
- If you play a sport, cheer for her.
- If your girlfriend is shy, let her know you like her by sending her cards.
- Take your girlfriend home and introduce her to your parents and family.
- Before she goes to bed, tell her you love her and how much she is worth to you.
- Don't ignore your girlfriend when you are with your friends.
- If you make a small mistake, try not to be too angry.
- Handmade gifts may be more appreciated than purchased ones.
- If she's insecure, give her lots of compliments and show her your love.
