Sometimes birthdays are pleasant occasions to celebrate, other times they are an annoying reminder of the passing years, but the best part of every birthday is making it a memorable experience. So, do you want to organize a fantastic and unforgettable romantic birthday for your loved one? You are lucky, because I am going to explain step by step how to do it, without leaving us all the salary!
Steps
Step 1. Make sure your birthday is clear of any commitments, family or work
If not, choose another day where both of you have no hassle.
Step 2. Start doing some research, especially if you've recently been dating
What's your favorite food? What movies does he like? What does he like to do for fun? What would he like me to wear? Does she prefer you with your hair down or up? What are your favorite restaurants or bars? If possible, ask friends, relatives, colleagues and maybe even him.
Step 3. Plan the perfect birthday outing
You will have to decide what you will do for fun, where to book for dinner and if you will go somewhere after dinner. Here are some suggestions. You could go to a cabaret club that also serves dinner during the show, and then head to the park to gaze at the stars from a blanket. Or you could go to the cinema to see a movie that interests both of you, then go to his favorite restaurant for a romantic dinner, followed by a hotel night in a jacuzzi suite. At this point you just have to decide if you also want to give him an extra gift …
Step 4. Think about what he wants, more than what he needs
This will give a personal touch and show your boyfriend that you really care about their wishes and interests. If there is a book that you know he would like to read, it could be a good gift idea. If you want something more romantic and personal, you could choose a piece of jewelry: a new watch, a tie clip, a bracelet or perhaps a necklace. Remember to focus on what interests and likes him! Try to think about what he would buy. If a piece of jewelry is too expensive, you could go for a perfume, the new pair of biker boots she has her eye on, or a new cowboy hat! It depends on his tastes and what you know could make his eyes shine… after all, it's his day! You may also want to choose a card or make one yourself to accompany the gift. While choosing it, consider what it says and what it means. Don't take the first one that comes up, unless it says exactly what you want it to say! Tickets are a great way to say things that sometimes we can't put into words. So they can be very important!
Step 5. Tease your partner, don't be pushy, but let him know you have an ace up your sleeve
Give him some clues as to what is about to happen without giving him all the details. For example: "Honey, I'm really happy to celebrate your birthday on Saturday because you will need all Sunday to recover!". Or something like: "Love, I can't wait for you to find out what I have prepared for you!". These clues will spark his curiosity and he will start asking you a lot of questions. Don't give up! The less you know, the better. The element of surprise is to your advantage, and he will thank you later.
Step 6. Decide what to wear
This step is very important, because you have to be beautiful for your man but, at the same time, have a look suitable for the evening. There is no need to put on heels if you are going to play mini golf, nor to go out in jeans and a T-shirt if you are going to the opera or the theater! Choose something that has caught his attention or that you've already worn and you know he likes it. This is HER night, so everything has to be perfect for her enjoyment and pleasure! Once you have decided how to dress, decide how to style your hair and what accessories to wear to complete your look. If he likes you to have an uncovered neck, then wear something low-cut and add a nice necklace to draw attention to that area. If he likes you with your hair down, then let it go to ignite his senses. You know what I mean? I suggest, if you feel comfortable, you also wear some sexy lingerie. When the time for the "dessert" comes, discovering that you have been wearing it all evening will really make him dizzy! This will also allow you not to have to change at a later time and to follow the passion without being interrupted. Another thing to think about when dressing for the occasion is which fragrance to choose. It can be a perfume that he really likes, the one he gave you, or a new one he just picked up for the evening. On the latter I would be cautious: he may not like it and nothing must go wrong with your plans. Some irresistible scents for a man are lavender or lilac, vanilla and jasmine. They will have an exciting effect on him without him even noticing! The secret is to be discreet, without showing that you want to be sexy for him at all costs, but innocently charming!
Step 7. Celebrate
You have prepared and planned everything, you have dressed for him and now you are ready to give him an unforgettable evening! Here are some tips to make this date even more special. Tell him how good he is dressed like this and that you can't wait to have it all to yourself later. Flirting, touching each other and winks increases the excitement of what will happen later, and reminds him how desirable, attractive and sexy he is in your eyes. You can even text him hot messages during dinner! Remind him why you are in love with him, the things you like about him and that this special evening you have organized for his birthday is to show him how much you love him and how much you care about your relationship. During the evening, take his hand, touch his arm, and look him in the eye often, especially when he talks to you. Laugh and smile. Make him feel like he is the only person in the room. Turn off your cell phone and turn it on only if you want to write to him.
Step 8. Give him the last gift, that is you
Take some time to please him. Do the things he likes for him, ask if there is anything in particular he wants you to do for him. Tell him you want to please him like it's the first time. Listen to the ideas he gives you, let him guide you. Whisper spicy phrases if you feel like it. Use your hands to explore her body and appreciate every part of it. Make him feel the sexiest and most attractive man you've ever seen and don't hold back! You take control of the situation if they like it. If you both agree, use a scarf to tie his hands. Use your imagination! Give them your undivided attention and make this birthday truly unforgettable!
Advice
- This article is written from a woman's point of view but can be fine for anyone who wants to give someone special an unforgettable birthday. If the budget is a constraining factor, here are some tips to remedy the problem.
- First of all, don't let this ruin your plans! There are tons of things you can do to make your evening unforgettable. Instead of going out for dinner, invite him to your house and prepare his favorite dishes. Ask him to help you cook, cooking together is one of the most romantic things there is. Being close while you cook, bumping into each other, tasting the food you are preparing are all very sensual things.
- For fun, you can rent a movie and snuggle up on a blanket spread out on the floor to watch it. You can listen to some music while having a drink together. You can also look at your old photographs and remember all the good times you spent together. Depending on the weather and the season, you can also go outside to enjoy the night sky. Depending on where you live, the beach is a perfect place for a romantic evening. Like two teenagers, take your car and park somewhere. Turn on the radio and let things happen!
- There are many tempting, interesting, and romantic things you can do together without spending too much money. The most important thing about the evening, regardless of what you do, is that you are together and you are enjoying each other's company.
- Don't be disappointed if everything doesn't go as planned; there are so many things you cannot control. Rather, go with the flow and set the course a little! Don't stress yourself out, it adds negativity to the evening. Laugh at the unexpected and move on! Remember that it is an evening entirely dedicated to romance and love! Good fun!
