In a panic because you don't know how to kiss and you have a date with the guy of your dreams? No fear!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Part 1: Before the Kiss
Step 1. Make sure you have fresh breath, or the guy may not want to kiss you
Brush your teeth before you go out and take gum or mints with you. Having bad breath is not the end of the world but it can discourage your partner.
Try not to eat spicy or garlic-based foods before you see it. If you can't, don't worry
Step 2. Wear a cute dress and feel confident:
you will conquer him and he will consider you irresistible.
- Avoid lip gloss and lipstick - guys hate them! Also, you may get smeared during the kiss. Put on a lip balm.
- Don't wear hats or keep your hair over your face - maybe, pick them up so they won't bother during the kiss.
Step 3. An unforgettable and intimate place
Avoid giving your first kiss in a public place - it's not nice to passersby and will make the moment less magical.
Step 4. Gradually come to the kiss
Break the nervousness by flirting with your body: he will understand that you like him and you will gradually get used to intimacy:
- Hold him by the hand or wrap his shoulders with one arm. First, however, approach him: it could make you uncomfortable suddenly approaching to kiss him. The atmosphere must be heated.
- Stroke her hair or face and smile.
- Hug him before kissing him, so you will create a connection.
Step 5. Make sure you are both ready, both physically and emotionally
A kiss means "we're not just friends," but it could break the relationship if either of you is unwilling to have a romantic relationship. If you're not sure how things could go, wait until you are.
Look him in the eye, moving closer to his lips. If he does the same, then he's ready. If he seems uncomfortable and looks away, better leave it alone
Method 2 of 3: Part 2: During the Kiss
Step 1. Slowly move your lips towards hers, closing your eyes as they touch:
don't do it sooner, or you might kiss him on the chin!
- Keep your eyes closed during the kiss and reopen them when it ends.
- Noses won't have to collide! Tilt your head according to the position of hers.
Step 2. Mainly use your lower lip to kiss him
Don't curl your lips like you're kissing your grandmother! Keep them relaxed.
- Kiss him softly, feeling the moment.
- Your main goal is not to bore him. Kiss him for 20 seconds and then walk away: he will come back to continue.
- Breathe and exhale using your nose. Try not to breathe through your mouth.
- The first kiss doesn't have to be French. Maybe, reserve it for another moment, even to keep it a bit on the string.
Step 3. As you kiss, open your lips slightly, kissing her lower lip with yours
Do this for about five seconds and walk away.
Step 4. During the kiss, place your hands on the back of his neck and lean towards him
If he hugs you or holds your waist with his hands, this means that he is protective of you.
- If he plays with your hair and caresses you, then he is in touch with his feelings and he likes you.
- Keep your eyes closed and don't peek! Focus on how you feel.
Method 3 of 3: Part 3: After the Kiss
Step 1. After the kiss, open your eyes and look at him
If you did a good job, you will notice it from his expression.
- Smile at him to reassure him that you enjoyed the kiss.
- If you are still hugged, wait for a few seconds before walking away - never do it abruptly.
Step 2. Tell him something nice if you like
Sometimes, the kiss is enough, others, instead, you could say phrases like:
- "You kiss well".
- "I couldn't wait to do it".
Step 3. Listen to your heart
Now that you've kissed the guy of your dreams what should you do? You have several options:
- Wait for him to make the next move. If it was you who took the initiative, wait for him to take the first step this time. Be yourself and behave in a friendly manner, without pressure.
- Kiss him when you want. If you don't care about who kisses who dynamics, kiss him again. But first, make sure he wants it too.
- Stop kissing. Maybe he doesn't kiss well, he touched you in the wrong place or you simply didn't like the experience. Keep being friendly but let him know that you are not going to kiss him again.
Step 4. Remember the bon ton of the kiss
There are unwritten rules that we advise you to follow:
- Do not go and tell everyone: intimate things must be kept as such.
- Don't kiss when you are sick and contagious! Your partner wants you, not your cold!
- Don't kiss everyone. Share this moment only with the person you really like - you will be appreciated and happier.
Advice
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Here's how to decipher your partner's body language during the kiss:
- Hands on life: he likes you a lot and wants to protect you.
- Hands on his back: He doesn't want to let you go and feels comfortable when he's with you.
- Hands on arms: He likes to hold you and feel what you feel.
- Hands on the back of the neck: he wants more.
- Hands touching her face: she adores you and can't do without you.
- Hands running through his hair: he's trying to be a gentleman.
- Avoid licking your lips.
- Always be aware of the non-verbal messages you send to your partner. Proceed calmly and you will get excellent results.
- Close your eyes, or you could give him the impression of being in shock or feeling uncomfortable.
- Stop in the middle of a kiss and walk away - you'll drive him crazy.
- Make sure you feel comfortable in the place where you will kiss him.
- Go with the flow and the situation will guide you.
- Don't let the kiss last too long, so you'll keep him on edge, and put your hands where you like.
Warnings
- Do not chew the gum - it will generate saliva. Saliva is antibacterial but, when it is too much, it could give him the impression that he is kissing a dog!
- If you don't feel comfortable, explain it to your partner. Don't do things you don't want.
- Make sure you don't confuse the other person's ideas. For example, don't touch her private parts if you don't intend to go any further.
- Before kissing him, make sure he feels ready and make eye contact.
- Don't kiss him just because all your friends have already given their first kiss and you feel desperate. Only do it if he's the right person. Don't be the one who kisses everyone, or your reputation will suffer.
- The first kiss should be given in intimacy, not in front of all your friends: it is a moment to share only with your partner. Besides, you don't want to hear other people's opinions about your abilities.
- If you wear the device, make sure you don't hurt your partner: you can cause cuts on his lips or tongue.
