How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

She is beautiful and sweet, and you are finally facing each other … is it time to kiss her? If you've never kissed her before (or you've never kissed a girl) you may be intimidated… But don't worry! With a little preparation and practice, you will be an expert in no time. Don't worry: now you are ready … let go and kiss her!

In general

1. Freshen your breath
2. Choose a moment of intimacy at the end of the gallant meeting
3. Show respect by asking for consent
4. Approach slowly, tilt your head and close your eyes
5. Keep your mouth shut

6. Place your hands on their back or shoulders

   Steps

   Part 1 of 3: Preparing for the Big Moment

   

   Step 1. Exercise

   The best way to get comfortable and kiss better is to practice first. It may seem obvious, but it will really help a lot. You can do it with your hand, with an object or with another person.

   Remember, you may not want to kiss another person because you already feel connected to the girl you want to kiss, and if she finds out, she will go on a rampage

   

   Step 2. Make sure you have fresh breath

   A girl never wants to taste garlic after a kiss, and if that happens, it will end right away. Before your appointment, brush your teeth and tongue and use mouthwash! To maintain good breath, try drinking water instead of a soft drink, or grab a mint or chew gum for a few minutes during your appointment.

   If you are in a restaurant, bring some breath gums with you. After dinner, go to the bathroom, freshen your breath and then, to make sure it's scented, put your hands in front of your face, exhale and smell

   

   Step 3. Woo her a little

   Tell her that her outfit is very pretty: she will appreciate it! If she pretends to punch you for fun or teases you in a friendly way, it means she wants to be touched. Stay on the safe side, like grabbing her hand quickly when you want to show her something - she'll appreciate not having to go through the more awkward stages of the approach first.

   • If you're bold, you might put your arm around her waist during one of those moments when you're both laughing and say something sweet, like, "How pretty you are."
   • Offer to give her a ride on your shoulders or tickle her a little if she likes it. Don't do it all the time, and when you do, always be respectful. Don't try to touch her breasts or butt.
   • Flirting will make her more willing to kiss you. Imagine being able to kiss her is like reaching the top of a mountain. You will have to hike a bit before reaching the summit.

   

   Step 4. Choose the right time

   Keep in mind that knowing when the time is right to kiss will make things easier. Generally, you can do this when you say goodbye or while walking, or after the end of a movie at the cinema. They are all moments of intimacy and you would probably be alone. This is the most important thing! You need to find some privacy.

   The kiss is a private matter. Don't tell it around, it's not polite

   

   Step 5. Ask first

   It may seem strange, because in movies we always see charming men and women kissing, but asking them is a way to show respect and attention. Will appreciate it!

   You can say something like "I would love to kiss you right now … can I do that?" or "Do you want me to kiss you?"

   Part 2 of 3: Consolidating the Technique

   

   Step 1. Move your face slowly towards his

   This is a universal signal that you are going to kiss her. It leaves her with a chance to show you that she is not comfortable and you will avoid being slapped. Don't close your eyes, except when you're about to kiss her.

   Step 2. Try a simple kiss, touching her lips

   Don't give a deep kiss when you kiss a girl for the first time. Make sure you close your eyes just before it starts.

   

   Step 3. Tilt your head to the side a little

   If you put your head straight in front of his, your noses will touch instead of your lips.

   

   Step 4. Move slowly and play his game

   If she loves deep, passionate kisses, she'll keep her lips on yours for a while; you won't need to move your lips a lot.

   

   Step 5. Use your hands

   If you want, take her face with one hand and gently massage her cheek with your thumb, but always keep an arm around her waist.

   

   Step 6. Be tender and gentle

   Kissing is like a silent conversation: you have to be kind, pleasant, benevolent, if you want the girl to keep asking you for more!

   

   Step 7. Breathe

   It might surprise you how many people forget to breathe if they're not used to kissing! If you want to keep kissing her but can't find a moment to breathe, try pulling away from your mouth, moving towards your cheek or forehead.

   

   Step 8. Take a break

   Pull it away from you gently after a few seconds and open your eyes. Congratulations! The other kisses after the first one will be tremendously easier. You have reached the top of the mountain !.

   Part 3 of 3: Becoming a Professional

   Step 1. Learn the "French" kiss

   This is the next big step. It's not as difficult as it sounds and, with a little practice, it can become your secret weapon.

   

   Step 2. Kiss with your tongue

   It won't be easy at first, especially if you don't find the right rhythm right away, but over time it will become more natural. Try not to overdo it, and use a little imagination.

   

   Step 3. Kiss passionately

   Once you have mastered the basic techniques, to kiss really well you will have to do it with passion. Just relax and express your feelings.

   

   Step 4. Kiss in public

   Over time, it will likely happen that you kiss in the presence of other people. There's nothing wrong with that, just don't overdo it!

   

   Step 5. Learn to kiss with the appliance

   If you've never kissed a girl, you're probably young and maybe wearing braces. Don't make it a problem! Despite a few gags on TV or in movies, it's not really hard.

   Advice

   • Watch out for chapped lips, rub them with a little sugar to remove the cuticles.
   • Before your lips brush, swallow the excess saliva and lick your lips a little to moisten them.