One of the most common fears of men and women, straight or gay, is whether or not they are able to physically bond with another person and feel satisfied and fulfilled doing so. Well, in this article, there are some facts to reflect on …
Steps
Step 1. For many reasons, sex can be quite intimidating and, in some cases, even scary for your partner
To keep them from running away in terror, I'll give you a brief guide on things you should avoid doing.
Step 2. See things from another perspective
Physical intimacy is not a performance or a competition; it can be the most sincere expression of your love for another person and serve to cement the bond that unites you, deepen your intimacy and, if you wish, to allow you to have children.
Step 3. Make time for romance
Light some scented candles, pour yourself a glass or two of wine and talk to each other. Sit on the sofa, put your arm around your partner and try to experience the intimacy of the moment. Talk about pleasant topics and give yourself a few kisses. Remember that all this will culminate in a more gratifying and fun act of love.
Step 4. Learn to massage your partner
Use scented oils to add an extra touch. Smells have the ability to relax, but also to excite. Both touching and being touched are equally important, so learn to give and also to receive!
Step 5. Listen and talk to your partner in order to learn what they like and don't like
Fully focusing on each other is extremely important, as it will help strengthen your relationship both on and off the bed.
Step 6. Never try to force your partner to do something that might make either of you uncomfortable
It is perfectly acceptable to want to try something different, as long as you both feel comfortable doing it.
Step 7. Take some time for foreplay as it's a great way to find out what you like
Don't be in too much of a hurry to get to the point.
Step 8. When you both feel comfortable with each other, you can share your most intimate fantasies and maybe even stage some of them
As long as you both have fun, there is nothing wrong with experimenting a little.
Advice
- You will only be able to give your all in an intimate relationship if you feel really comfortable with the person with whom you will do it.
- Casual relationships may seem fun but it is only when we have a physical relationship with someone we love that sex takes on deep meaning.
- Intimate relationships can go both ways, just like a conversation. Discover your partner's tastes and make an effort to make her / or feel satisfied / or at least as satisfied as you are.
Warnings
- Don't let others force you to do things you don't feel ready for. Take some time to get to know a person thoroughly before getting intimate with him and make sure he is truly what you want. Don't let others put you under pressure.
- Practice safe sex! Make sure you always use condoms, to protect both your partner and yourself from any sexually transmitted diseases. Remember that condoms greatly reduce the risk of contagion, but it does not completely eliminate it.
