Whether you're recently engaged to a boyfriend or are trying to pique your partner's interest, there are several ways to grab their attention. Sure, every man is different and has his own personal tastes, but these simple gestures can help you wow him and win his heart.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Amaze him with your looks
Step 1. Dress to impress
You don't have to be in evening dress all the time, but do take some care and effort when choosing which clothing to wear.
- Impress him with cool and attractive outfits even when you are at home;
- Use her favorite colors or the scent she loves to capture her nose as well as her gaze. If you know she has a particular weakness for a particular dress, wear it the next time you plan a nice evening together.
- If you know he is a fan of a band or a sports team, consider adding a jersey or t-shirt with the symbol or logo that represents his passion to your daily outfit. You will surely grab his attention and let him know that you share his tastes.
Step 2. Treat yourself without overdoing it
According to some surveys, 36% of men appreciate the fact that their woman makes an extra effort to look beautiful in the eyes of her partner.
- You don't have to become a supermodel to please your boyfriend. Rather, emphasize your best features and physical attributes, especially if you know the ones she prefers. If she loves your eyes, accentuate them with makeup or by choosing a cool hairstyle that frames the face.
- To amaze him, try to have a natural look without exasperating the care of your image. Don't overdo it and don't spend too many hours in front of the mirror before going out, especially if it's waiting for you.
Step 3. Smile sincerely
It's nice to surround yourself with optimistic people. So, by smiling more often, you can maintain a cheerful and casual attitude.
Step 4. Communicate effectively with body language
Gestures are more eloquent than many words and, as a result, can favorably affect a boy.
- Show him your interest by flirting with him: play with your hair, make eye contact, lean in his direction, and occasionally touch his arm while you chat.
- Try to imitate his movements. By synchronizing and sharing his body language, you will let him know that you are in perfect harmony.
Step 5. Be seductive
Make sure he never loses the desire to be near you by preparing to receive his kisses and cuddles. Keep a toothbrush, toothpaste, perfume or deodorant in your bag or car so you can freshen up anytime, anywhere.
Part 2 of 3: Amaze him with your interests and attitude
Step 1. Get interested in his hobbies
Even if you don't share his passions, at least try to show some interest in the music, movies, books, or sports he loves. This way, you will have something to talk about that will help strengthen your bond when you are together.
- Read his own books or keep up to date on the musical genre he prefers;
- Ask him which movie or concert he would like to see instead of imposing your choices on him;
- If he loves sports, follow his favorite team and find out when he plays. You could really blow him off if you show up with a couple of tickets to a game without him expressing a wish;
- By knowing the sports or hobbies he is passionate about, you may also have some ideas for a gift. Amaze him with a thought in line with his favorite pastime or greatest passion.
- Pay attention to the songs they like and put them on a compilation. Also put in a couple of new songs, similar to the ones he likes. In this way, you will amaze him even more because he will understand that you are attentive to his tastes and have competence in the musical field.
Step 2. Show interest in his friends
Many relationship experts agree that it is important for a couple to get along with their respective friends. Show your boyfriend that you appreciate and respect his friendships as much as he values yours.
- If you go out in a group, offer the first round of drinks to his friends or invite them when you organize a party at your home;
- Laugh at their jokes, talk about their passions, and behave with the intent of deepening their knowledge. They will react with equal interest towards you and, if you get the approval of his closest friends, he can only have a high regard for you;
- Remember that your boyfriend wants his friends to like him, not to fall in love with you. If any of them start flirting, keep your distance;
- Be open and accept her female friendships too. If you are too jealous, your confidence may fail in the long run, while if you appreciate his friends, you will amaze him;
Step 3. Ask him about his family
He will be really impressed if you show interest in the most important people in his life, especially his family members.
- It is not easy to make a good impression on your partner's parents and relatives, but you can easily earn a few points if he understands that you intend to get to know his family, siblings and childhood.
- Ask him to show you old family photos or tell you some anecdotes from when he was a child. That way, he'll understand that you care about him and the people he cares about.
Step 4. Make them look good in front of people
If he takes you to a party or event, don't steal the show. Rather, it brings up episodes that highlight its strengths so it doesn't go unnoticed in the presence of others. He will feel proud of himself and will see you as a faithful ally.
Step 5. Compliment him and appreciate him
According to recent studies on couples, recognizing your partner's small gestures can greatly strengthen the bond.
- Express your appreciation especially when he makes an effort to help you, perhaps by making a repair at home or by offering to go grocery shopping;
- Thank him especially if he makes himself useful without you asking him. He will be struck by the fact that you noticed his gesture and that you understood that it was his initiative.
- When he's around, brag about a nice gesture he made towards you in front of his or your friends.
Step 6. Listen and be trustworthy
It is essential to have someone by your side. If you know how to be a rock in times of trouble, your boyfriend will be favorably impressed.
- Make them feel your presence, whether it's just listening, offering advice, or helping you make things better;
- Remember to talk to him and about him. It is not enough for you to communicate only your needs. Instead of talking about yourself, give them a chance to express themselves and confide in the things they consider important. If he's a quiet guy, get to know him and respect him. Give him the space and support he needs so that he gets comfortable. He will appreciate it very much and begin to trust you.
Step 7. Stay calm when you want some space
Sometimes, it's normal to have moments to dedicate to yourself, even when you're in a relationship.
- Let your boyfriend know that you understand his need to relax alone or hang out with his friends;
- He'll be really impressed if you show him you don't control him and aren't clingy.
Step 8. Laugh with him, not at him
Let him know how much fun you have in his company by laughing at his jokes and sharing his sense of humor. Laughing is not only the best medicine, but an important element that allows couples to connect and strengthen the bond.
Step 9. Put the phone aside
When you are together, put away your cell phone, don't rush to check the messages you receive and don't seem too interested in social networks.
- You need to feel by your side as the most important person, especially when you go out together or enjoy moments alone,
- Be indifferent on social networks. He will be much more impressed if you don't always write on his profile or check his posts every minute,
- Wait a bit before calling or texting him, unless he needs you. You don't have to look impatient, clingy, or controlling.
Part 3 of 3: Amaze him with your talents and your personality
Step 1. Win his heart by grabbing his throat
It is true that the saying goes: love passes through the stomach!
- If you are an expert cook, surprise your sweetheart by preparing her favorite dish or dessert;
- Have him deliver a lunch box full of his favorite dishes to the office. Put on a sweet note or a spicier one to discover as he eats. It will mean a lot to him to know that someone cares for him with little thoughts.
Step 2. Take the initiative
You will amaze him if you have the determination to face things instead of putting pressure on him or putting any responsibility on him.
- Surprise him with a sudden kiss or an unexpected show of affection.
- Give him a massage from time to time, especially after a long and exhausting day of work;
- If he has no problem showing his affection in public, take him by the arm or put your hand in the back pocket of his pants when you walk down the street;
- Plan an evening. Think of everything, even the economic aspect. Invite him to do something fun or in line with his interests;
- Be spontaneous and bold, especially if they like strong emotions. Throw a surprise party or grab two tickets to an unexpected and fun event. He'll be impressed if you can surprise him in a positive way.
Step 3. Amaze him with your ambitions
In a recent survey, 80% of men said they prefer enterprising women. So, impress your boyfriend like this!
- Do not shyly manifest the ambitions you cultivate in your personal, university and professional life. You will win her heart if you show interest in your future as well as want to live your story together.
- Carve out moments to dedicate exclusively to the two of you. In other words, you shouldn't always talk about work or study, especially when you're dating.
- Be confident, but don't look arrogant. Don't make him look bad by belittling him or bragging about being too good for him.
Step 4. Love yourself and he will surely love you
Trust yourself and rely on your strengths, as a person and as a partner. Your self-esteem will make you magnetic and allow you to impress your boyfriend and all the people around you.
