The secret of seduction is ease. To pique a man's interest, you need to show yourself who you really are, create the right opportunity, and gradually establish physical contact.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Arousing Your Interest
Step 1. Show that you are a person with great confidence
Men are attracted to this aspect of character. In fact, for many, a woman's confident attitude turns out to be much more attractive than her outward beauty. Try to show your interests, your goals and your ideas with a little more conviction: men will not be able to resist you.
- It is vital to have self-confidence and feel attractive when you are trying to seduce a man. In other words, you should never pretend to be someone else. Be yourself and honestly describe your interests and passions.
- The same goes for dating sites as well. Even if a nice photo could lead a man to click on your profile, rest assured that he will not contact you if you provide too general information about your account in the dedicated section. Make your personality stand out in the digital world as well.
Step 2. Wear clothes that flatter you
On the first date, one tends to judge the other on the basis of physical appearance. If you are trying to seduce a man, you need to wear clothes that suit you and that will allow you to attract his attention.
- Remember: confidence is the key to success. If you don't feel provocative, you won't be provocative in a man's eyes either. If you feel more comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt, choose casual but sexy garments capable of accentuating your qualities, rather than wearing an evening dress by force.
- If you don't know how to dress provocatively, try consulting a fashion expert at a department store, he will help you select the clothes that best suit your figure and shape.
Step 3. Look him in the eye
When trying to win a man's interest, eye contact is important. Often, men measure a woman's interest, both physical and sentimental, based on her gaze and facial expression. This is probably due to a tendency of women not to use body language to show their interest. Maintaining eye contact throughout the evening will allow you to let a man know you like him.
Step 4. Use body language
Don't be afraid to use your physical qualities to flirt. This way, you will be able to show the man that you are interested in him sexually.
- Sit with your back straight and don't lower your chin. In this way, you will show that you have a good relationship with your body.
- Don't be afraid to touch the other person in a gentle and gentle way. Touch his arm or shoulder. Place your hand on his knee. Gently brush her hair.
Step 5. Woo him
It is essential to understand how to show off your weapons of seduction on a first date. With some seduction techniques you will be able to win a man's interest.
- If you are at the bar, offer him something to drink. Be nice to the bartender and respectful to any other person. Try to grab his attention with a provocative attitude, but without losing sight of yourself. Use your offbeat humor and original point of view to impress.
- Suggest an activity to do together. Challenge him to billiards or Trivial Pursuit, taking the opportunity to talk and get to know him better.
Step 6. Be honest
Men like frankness when it comes to expressing sexual attraction. If you are physically attracted to a man, try to make it explicit right from the start. With a flirtatious attitude, invite him to your home. Ask provocative questions about her body. Men get aroused by direct allusions, so don't be shy and make your wishes come true.
Part 2 of 3: Creating the Right Opportunity
Step 1. Get him involved in a game
If after the first encounters with the man of your dreams you are determined to conquer him, propose a game to play together. Take him to a tennis court for a game. Play cards or a board game. Challenge yourself in some competition-based video game. The rivalry causes testosterone levels to skyrocket in both men and women, helping to increase sexual arousal.
Step 2. Take advantage of the properties of the pomegranate
It is scientifically proven that pomegranate juice is able to stimulate the sexual impulses of men. If you want to seduce a man, try offering him a pomegranate juice cocktail. If he doesn't drink alcohol, offer him some easy-to-drink pomegranate juice.
Step 3. Cut your hair
If your goal is to create a romantic or intriguing scenario, consider a new haircut. Men may not notice the new cut right away, but they will notice the accuracy in your appearance and be drawn to it.
- As in the choice of clothes, the cut must also suit your tastes rather than expressly satisfy those of the other person. Even if your boyfriend prefers long, layered hair, wearing a short bob that you feel extremely sexy in will make all the difference because you'll be comfortable with the new look.
- Consult your hairdresser to find out which cut and which color suits you best.
Step 4. Share fantasies
Exchange sexual fantasies. They don't necessarily have to be fantasies to practice, but simply sharing hidden desires can help strengthen physical attraction.
- Describe scenes from a movie or TV show that you found exciting. You might even try watching one of these movies together to whet the desire.
- A fun game might be "Never have I ever …", but in a spicy version. In this game, in turn, they confess sexual experiences never had in the past but for which there is a certain curiosity. This game can be a fun way to anticipate physical contact.
Part 3 of 3: Establish Physical Contact
Step 1. Experiment with the massage technique
If you don't know how to make physical contact, try a massage. Practicing a head, back, shoulder or foot massage is a very effective seduction technique. You will also be able to let him know that you are ready to make physical contact.
Step 2. Take advantage of the erogenous zones
Men have erogenous zones scattered throughout the body. These are the parts of the body that activate sexual impulses if they are touched, kissed, brushed with the tongue and so on.
- The earlobe and neck are areas that, when stimulated with the fingers, tongue, lips or teeth, cause sexual arousal in both men and women. Try focusing on these areas when you start touching each other.
- The head is also a highly sensitive part in men. Try offering a head massage and see if you have achieved the desired effect.
Step 3. Wear the right underwear
Men react positively to visual stimuli. Try wearing sexy underwear - you will be irresistible.
- Again, wear something that you feel comfortable with. If you don't feel provocative, you won't be provocative in a man's eyes either.
- If you're ashamed to go shopping for underwear on your own, ask a friend to accompany you. Otherwise, shop online even though you know you can't try them on first. If you shop on the internet, make sure you have at least the option to send the goods back.
- Many lingerie stores boast extremely helpful and prepared salespeople to guide you in choosing the right item. As awkward as it may seem, asking a store staff for help is the best thing to do if you want to choose a nice and comfortable piece of underwear.
Step 4. Be confident in your sexuality
Women sometimes think it's best to hold back to avoid frightening men. However, many men get aroused just when girlfriends or wives take over in bed. Don't be afraid to dominate the situation. It causes physical contact. Try to take the lead in sex instead of your man. Many find it arousing and most enjoy sex with a woman who shows no inhibitions.
Warnings
- When making physical contact with someone for the first time, remember to stop and ask if what you are doing is okay. You need to be sure that the other person is comfortable and ready to have sex with you.
- Always practice safe sex and use condoms. This way, you will protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
