Would you like to be her Prince Charming and her Knight in Golden Armor? What to do to win a girl's heart? It's not as difficult as it sounds. By learning the right technique and with some simple tricks, you can seduce the girl you want, respecting her and at the same time keeping your dignity intact. Start by reading from Step 1.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Part 1: Being Attractive
Step 1. Respect and love yourself
Self-esteem, even if we often don't notice it, is one of the first things that positively capture the attention of others, it is a very important element especially for those who are trying to live a fulfilling and lasting relationship. Respect yourself by taking care of your body, wash regularly, use deodorant and wear clean, ironed clothes. Do some physical exercise to have a healthier and more beautiful body.
Respect yourself even through the actions you take. Don't belittle yourself in front of others and defend yourself when you are attacked or made fun of by others
Step 2. Wear clothes that flatter your body
Whatever your build, you will need to carefully choose garments that can make the most of you. First, choose only clothes of your size, they must not be too tight or too loose, they must also emphasize your strengths and hide the flaws. Don't drag your pants, you don't need to show everyone your underwear. Try to figure out which color suits you best, think about what suits the color of your eyes and skin the most.
- Wear vertical striped pants. They will make you look taller and slimmer.
- In choosing colors he tries to create contrasts. If you have fair skin, dark colors can stand out more (but don't always wear black only). If you have dark skin, choose lighter and more flashy colors instead.
Step 3. Treat your face regularly
You don't have to have a perfect figure to be a girl's Prince Charming, just take care of your face! Shave properly to avoid cutting yourself or having ingrown hairs. Learn to remove excess brows, soften your skin with a moisturizer, don't judge it as a girl thing, having well-groomed skin will make you look healthier, and therefore naturally attractive.
- If you have the acne problem, fight it. Regular cleaning of the face is a very important factor in reducing the development of acne. Look for specific products at the pharmacy.
- Try using makeup. A little makeup could help you improve your appearance. You could cover some skin blemishes with makeup. Do not overdo the make-up, of course it will only serve to cover acne, wounds or large pores. Try a concealer, or a stick foundation, to quickly improve the appearance of your skin.
Step 4. Get a nice haircut
A nice cut can completely change your look and turn even a scruffy guy into a charming guy. A new hairstyle will give you a different look and can highlight your strengths and hide some flaws. A different cut can create a new geometry of your face. Visit a professional hairdresser and listen to their advice.
Step 5. Find your best smile
Learn to smile in a different way, find the smile that makes you more captivating, some people are more attractive when they smile with their mouth closed, others appear radiant with a dazzling smile. It all depends on the characteristics and expressiveness of your face.
Method 2 of 3: Part 2: Being Her Prince Charming
Step 1. Recognize and showcase your qualities
Talented people are always very attractive. Not all the skills you possess will be useful for you to conquer a particular person but surely there will be girls on whom your skills will impress. Develop a new skill or learn to show others your personal talent.
- Try developing new skills, such as playing the piano or guitar, drawing or dancing.
- Look for tips right on wikiHow and experiment with new activities.
Step 2. Smile at life
A person full of enthusiasm and will to live certainly manages to impress girls. Be positive and focus on everything you have that makes you special. Think about what you would like to have in life and don't be afraid to show your joy when you feel happy.
Show your ambitions. Want more from your life. Work hard to achieve your goals and value everything you have. Any girl will be attracted to this quality
Step 3. Encourage her to dream
Every girl would like a man by her side who does not hinder her dreams and who encourages her to pursue them by supporting and trusting her. If you find that she likes to do something, push her to continue and encourage her. Find out what her wishes are and help her make them a reality.
- Sometimes help her with her homework or keep her company (and get her to focus) while she studies.
- Never judge her and tell her that her passions are insignificant or a waste of time. If you judge her you will never be able to seduce her!
Step 4. Let her know how much you care
Girls need to understand how special they are to someone. If you do not express what you feel your friends will not make fun of you but you will hardly be able to make a girl understand how important she is to you. To win a girl, you need to make her understand without fear that you like her and are interested in her.
- Tell her you love her and bring flowers in front of other people as well.
- Maintain contact with her after a hug, or while holding her hand. Pamper her after a kiss. These are all ways to communicate your feelings.
Step 5. Focus on her
Make eye contact as you speak to her. Call her by name in conversation, whether alone or in public. Be faithful and don't try to impress other girls as well. Focus on one person and let them know that your feelings are sincere.
Tell her you don't need to hit on other girls because now you have her. Let her know that you are really interested and that you only see her
Step 6. Don't take anything for granted
Don't take his affection for you for granted, even later when you're already dating. Don't let her keep your relationship going, don't let the romance between you die. Work hard every day to win her love, sooner or later you will succeed.
Step 7. Put others at the center of attention
Giving importance to others and putting them at the center of attention is the best way to emerge as a leader. You will express your generosity, plus the girl will understand that you can take care of her the same way you take care of others.
Rather than making every speech revolve around you, encourage others to talk (and especially her)
Step 8. Be nice to everyone, especially her
Of course, you need to be nice to the girl you want to seduce, but don't forget to be nice to others too. If you are rude and rude to all other people, and if you talk badly behind their back, the girl you like might think that one day you will adopt the same attitude towards her. It is certainly not a good strategy to conquer it!
- Be especially nice to people who are facing problems. A good way to let others know about your goodness is to behave especially well with those who don't have many friends. If you are a very popular guy, your gesture will be even more effective.
- Be nice to everyone who is targeted by others, be polite to the waiters when you go to the restaurant, don't be rude about turning down a door-to-door salesman, and be compassionate towards the homeless. Be kind especially to those who often suffer the rudeness of others, the message you want to communicate will be even stronger.
Method 3 of 3: Part 3: Make her lose her mind for you
Step 1. Make her a handmade gift
A gift made by you will make her feel special, after all it is something you did just for her, and to make it happen you probably had to apply yourself in a completely new field for you. Search the internet for ideas to make a gift for her yourself. Here are some ideas:
- Make her a necklace. You can string a shell you found on vacation between the beads, or something that has a special meaning for you.
- Make her a personalized journal. Attach cards, receipts or images to link moments and memories to. Use a DIY flatting glue and attach the cutouts to the cover. If you think a diary is not the right idea for you, buy a wooden box for decoupage and decorate it to your taste.
- Make her a music CD. If you are absolutely unable to make anything by hand, you can always give the girl a CD with songs to dedicate to her, also linked to your memories together.
Step 2. Sing her a song
Even if you don't have Michael Jackson's voice, singing a love song is always a winning tactic for seducing a girl. If you are in tune, you will surely impress her and make one of her dreams come true. If, on the other hand, you can't sing, don't worry, the result doesn't matter as much as the gesture and the will to do something to make her happy. In any case it will be a good choice.
Try singing her a song like "You're Just Good to Be True". It's easy to tune even for untalented aspiring singers
Step 3. Show special attention to a family member you are particularly attached to
For example her grandmother or her favorite sister, make a nice gesture towards someone she loves very much and you will win their heart. Help her grandmother cook something or volunteer to tidy up the garden with her father.
Step 4. Get her to find love cards
Write her romantic phrases on Post-its and stick them where she can read them. Hide them in places he usually frequents, sometimes he might discover them after a while. Hide messages in her drawers, among books, in her purse, under her pillow, in the kitchen, next to the phone, etc.
Write her a sweet phrase, for example "I would like to kiss you on the forehead every time you come home" or "the best moment of the day is to wake up next to you", "it is an honor for me to be Prince Charming"
Step 5. Give her a moment of well-being
Some guys just massage their woman's back a little but you will have to do something more, because she deserves it. Offer her a relaxing massage with oil slightly heated in a bain-marie. Play some relaxing music, light some candles (but keep them away from the oil) and start massaging it.
Search online for spa-style music background tips
Step 6. Help her as much as you can when she has had a difficult day
If she has had a bad day, for example if she is having trouble at work or has lost a loved one, do whatever you can to relieve her of tension. Take responsibility for the housework, clean up, cook for her until she feels a little better. At the same time, offer her psychological support and point out all the positive aspects of her life. Don't belittle her pain with jokes or misplaced jokes, only make her laugh if you understand that she wants and needs it.
For example, give her a movie night with your company
Step 7. Let her test you
Ask her to test you so you can show her how much you care. Offer to run for her or do push-ups, be willing to change some habits she doesn't approve of, like quitting smoking. These gestures will show her the strength of your feelings and your dedication, but remember that once you have made a promise you will have to keep it!
Step 8. Go out with her friends too
It is always nice to go out with your friends, but it is even more so if you are in the company of the person you love! Accompany her and her friends to the cinema, and don't blink even if you are forced to see a film for girls, take them to the beautician or have an ice cream and have a chat together. Your girlfriend will be at your feet the moment she realizes that you are willing to meet her, and put aside your pride, just to make her happy.
Advice
- Always be on his side. Support it.
- Always be yourself.
- Always take his feelings into account.
