If you are between 10 and 13, you probably have a thousand doubts about how to kiss. Do not worry! The following article will help you find out all you need to do to kiss someone, so follow these tips and everything will turn out great.
Steps
Step 1. Look for the right signs
If your boyfriend or girlfriend always wants to be around you, they just gently touch your arm or hand, or they always get close to you, they may want to kiss you. If you have the same intentions, then behave in a similar way. Other signs to tell if he wants to kiss you? He leans towards you when you sit or pulls your hair away from your face - in this case, lean in back.
Step 2. Know your limits
If your partner tries to give you a French kiss but you don't feel like it, tell him the truth: after all, at your age the first kiss shouldn't be that deep. As kids it is generally preferable to exchange kisses without going further, because otherwise you risk moments of discomfort within the couple. The first kiss should be discreet, without turning into an intense exchange of effusions.
Step 3. Make sure the other person is ready
If you are unsure, ask her discreetly, "Have you ever kissed someone before?" If she says no, ask, "Do you think you're ready to kiss someone?" If so, come over to kiss her. However, stop and apologize if they seem uncomfortable.
Step 4. Respect the other person's needs
When he wants to stop, he slowly backs up. At the end of the kiss, look into her eyes and tell her you liked it.
Advice
- If you don't feel like kissing someone, tell them. Remember to only do this when you feel ready. Don't try to force it.
- Never tell someone that they have bad breath or that they don't kiss well, or you will miss the opportunity to improve and deepen a kiss.
- Try this tip if you've never kissed anyone (other than your family). If you're walking someone home (or vice versa), ask them if they've ever kissed someone on the lips. Once you get an answer, give yours. Then, explain that you are wondering what it feels like. If the other person wants to kiss you, they may concretely demonstrate this. This topic does not necessarily have to be brought up while taking someone home, you can do it at another time as well.
- If you go to the same school as your sweetheart, leave her a message suggesting that she meet you somewhere in the building. Choose a place where you cannot be caught red-handed by the professors. Confess your feelings to her and step forward to give her a kiss.
- At your age, you can try kissing as a joke or playing Truth or Dare. Don't be afraid - kiss the other person, and if that doesn't work, you can always back off.
- If you want to kiss someone, make sure the other person is ready too.
- Before kissing someone, it is possible to break the barrier of physical contact by giving a kiss on the cheek, holding hands, gently touching a shoulder or stroking the hair.
- If you want to kiss someone, bend over by approaching this person by three quarters. If she wants to kiss you too, she'll bend over to get closer as well.
- If, after approaching, this person moves away slightly or is visibly embarrassed, you can tease them gently, but don't make fun of them.
- Say what you really feel without too many words!
Warnings
- Don't spread rumors about kissing and don't confide in a friend who can't keep a secret. If you really feel the need to tell someone, talk to your mother or your best friend, but only if they can keep their mouths shut. The ideal would be to tell a friend or relative you trust and who lives far away from you (at which point it will be really difficult for your schoolmates to know what happened). Better to avoid letting everyone know about your private life.
- If you are planning on kissing someone at school, be careful. Public displays of affection are prohibited in many schools.
- When you kiss someone, tilt your head slightly to the side. If your noses collide, the moment will be ruined. Many people bend their heads to the right, so give it a try. Since your right is the other person's left, don't worry if they tilt their head to the right. If it were to bend it in the same direction as you, wait for it to fix it, don't move too: you would ruin the moment and look like two confused turtles.
