Many of you may find it difficult to make your girlfriend want to be alone with you. The tips described in this article, however, will explain a lot about this topic, and teach you how to change that!
Steps
Step 1. If your girlfriend doesn't spend time with you, it obviously means she doesn't like you
In this case, read on; you will find some useful tips to strengthen your relationship.
Step 2. First, try inviting her to your home along with some mutual friends (both boys and girls)
Play some board games or ping-pong, and put on some music. Or you can just sit and chat; maybe try putting your arm on his shoulders and see how he reacts.
Step 3. When your girlfriend comes to your house, don't light the candles
It could be embarrassing.
Step 4. Try talking to her instead
Talk about something she likes, and she'll happily stay with you.
Step 5. When you are in school, always say hello to her when you meet her in the lobby
Step 6. At the school entrance, if your relationship is strong enough, hug her or give her a quick kiss
Step 7. If you notice she is carrying heavy books, offer to take them to her place and accompany her to her class
Step 8. If she's shy, wait for the right time to ask her for a kiss (if it's your first time)
Step 9. Buy her a gift once in a while, but nothing cheesy
Step 10. If you sense that the relationship is starting to move in the right direction, then invite her to your home
Advice
- Don't be pushy. Make sure you understand his thoughts and opinions.
- In short, the way to get your girlfriend to want to spend time alone with you is to find out why she can't or doesn't want to, and fix the problem.
- Don't be hard on her; she also needs her time. Let her spend time with her friends, and if she wants you to accompany her, then go.
- Don't be upset if she doesn't say yes right away. Be patient and give it some time.
