Capricorn men (i.e. born between December 22 and January 19) can be stubborn, proud and obsessed with their work, but they are also compassionate, ambitious, and loyal partners. If there is a man of this sign that interests you, but you are not sure if he reciprocates your feelings, do not despair: there are some clues and behaviors that you can notice that can make you understand if he likes you.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Observe His Behavior
Step 1. Notice if he jokes a lot with you
Capricorns are usually reserved and quiet, but they tend to open up and reveal their humorous side to people they really like. If he makes jokes, teases you, or acts silly when he's around you, he might like you.
- Next time you see him, try telling him a joke or teasing him and seeing how he reacts. If he laughs and responds in kind, he might like you.
- Make sure you smile and laugh when you tease him, so that he understands that you are only joking and that you want to seduce him.
Step 2. Ask yourself if he confides in you
Capricorns can be shy and distant in the presence of other people. They don't open easily and they place their trust in a very strategic way. If a man born under this sign reveals his secrets to you and talks to you about personal problems, chances are he likes you.
- If you're always the first person he turns to when something is wrong, it can be a sign that he likes you.
- Reread your messages and conversations on social media. Do you exchange short, superficial sentences, or does he often talk to you about what is going on in his private life?
Step 3. Notice if she gets jealous when you flirt with other people
Once a Capricorn man decides he wants a woman, he doesn't take outside interference well. If he seems angry or sulky when you give your attention to others, he probably wants you to talk only to him.
Pay attention to how he behaves when you talk to others. If he stares at you often or interrupts you, he may be jealous
Step 4. If he invites you to his house, that's a good sign
Capricorns value their personal space and what they own. They don't let everyone into their home. If he invites you, it's a sign that he trusts you a lot.
Even if he gives you rides or lets you use his stuff, it's a sign that he trusts you and probably likes you
Method 2 of 3: Understanding How Your Mind Works
Step 1. Understand that if he likes you, he may turn you away
Capricorns are calculators. They take a long time to think before making a decision, especially in romantic relationships. If you notice him starting to drift away or treat you more coldly, don't panic. It can mean that he likes you and is pondering whether he really wants to be with you.
Remember that if you talk to him about his attitude, he may not reveal the real reason why he pushes you away
Step 2. Consider that you are looking for a partner for life
Capricorns are not interested in short romantic adventures; they are looking for a person to spend their whole life with. If a man of this sign likes you, it means he wants to be with you for the long term. If you've told him in the past that you don't care about serious relationships and that you just want to have fun, he's probably not interested in you.
- If he thinks you're not interested in a long-term relationship but have changed your mind, find a way to let him know naturally so he knows you're ready for a serious relationship with someone.
- You can say, "I've enjoyed hanging out with different people for a while, but now I want to find the right guy to settle down with."
Step 3. Don't expect him to communicate effectively right away
Capricorns aren't always adept at sharing their feelings. They wait until they are very close to someone before fully opening up. If he feels like he's keeping you at a distance, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, just that you need to get closer before he shares everything with you.
It may help to take the first step and reveal your feelings for him. He may feel more comfortable being vulnerable to you
Step 4. Prepare to wait for his decision
Capricorns are in no rush to start a relationship. They are extremely patient and think long before dating someone. Just because you've been friends for a long time and he hasn't yet confessed his feelings for you doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
If you really like him, try to be patient as he processes his feelings. Focus on your friendship and spend time together to get to know each other better
Method 3 of 3: Attracting a Capricorn Man
Step 1. Support him in his professional life
Capricorns love work and in some cases put it ahead of other aspects of life, such as friendship and love. If you want to impress a man of this sign, support him in his work. Encourage him to take on new projects and praise him when he gets good results.
For example, if he wants to get a promotion at work but doesn't know if he will succeed, support him and tell him he should try
Step 2. Tell him about your plans and dreams for the future
When Capricorns are looking for a partner, they think about the future. They want a person who fits into their life plans. By telling a man of this sign what your priorities and goals are, he will understand that you too are thinking about your future and will be able to decide if you will be able to team up and work together to achieve them.
For example, you could naturally say that you want to have children someday, or that you are interested in building a family and making a career
Step 3. Don't try to change it
Capricorns are stubborn and are not interested in becoming someone's project. If you try to push him away from his job or press him to become more sociable and outgoing, it could have a negative effect and lead him to despise you. Those born under this sign want people who fit into their life plans and are usually unwilling to change their plans for others. If you want to impress a Capricorn man, you have to accept who he really is.
- You have a right to expect him to compromise with you in some cases. However, you shouldn't try to change his personality.
- For example, you can ask him to go out with your friends from time to time, but you shouldn't pressure him to go dancing every weekend if he doesn't care.