You feel like you've tried them all to get a girl's attention, but it seems like she just can't notice you? Have bouquets of flowers and love poems got you nowhere? It's time to try and make some small changes. By following the right tips, you will attract girls without lifting a finger! They will be the ones to go to you. Read on to find out how.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Have a Beautiful Body
Step 1. Personal hygiene comes first
Girls won't want to have anything to do with you if you haven't changed in a week and your smell isn't the best. This is one of the main steps in getting a woman. Shower regularly and use deodorant. You will be surprised at the difference it makes if you haven't tried it yet.
Step 2. Wear nice clothes
We're not telling you at all that you have to walk around dressed in an Armani suit, but you should wear clothing that fits you well, fits your body, has no holes or spots, and doesn't look like something out of a trendy 1986 collection. worry too much about brands: a girl who deserves your attention would not give the brand what you wear. Just make sure you dress in such a way that you don't embarrass her if they see her in your company.
Step 3. Try to smell good
Just as you like girls who smell like a princess in an enchanted valley, the opposite sex likes men who smell good. You can do this first by taking care of your personal hygiene, then by spraying a fragrance that suits you. You can simply buy a pleasantly scented deodorant. If you want to go a step further, try a cologne or body spray. Just make sure the aroma is mild, and apply the product well. It doesn't have to look like you've been bathed in the Ax.
Step 4. Take care of the body
Just as guys generally like slim women, girls prefer fit men. Don't think you need to have an Arnold Schwarzenegger look. In fact, for a woman, tortoiseshell abs don't matter that much. What matters is getting to the point of being healthy as a fish and able to climb stairs without getting out of breath after two steps. This way, you will feel good in your body and have a better chance of attracting women.
- This is not to say that women are superficial or have absurd claims on weight. We simply want to remind you that avoiding physical activity shows that you don't care enough about yourself to have a healthy body (even if that were to be untrue).
- If you both have a few extra pounds, it would be best to prepare yourself for a weight loss program before asking your girlfriend to do it.
Method 2 of 3: Demonstrate Great Personality
Step 1. Discover your talents
Everyone feels attracted to those people who are capable of doing interesting things. Now, you probably already have some skill or potential to cultivate one, but you still don't know. You have to find that talent and nurture it. While it's not one of those classic skills that everyone fascinates, like playing an instrument, cultivating a talent, and spending time with people who share your interests gives you the opportunity to meet girls who enjoy the same hobbies as you.
You can always learn to acquire a new dowry. Drawing is interesting: it is an assimilable ability, and actually it is not suitable only for those with an innate talent
Step 2. Be inspiring
Don't be that classic guy who stays home every weekend eating chips and playing Call of Duty. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert, but you still need to make good use of your time by engaging in fun activities. If you'd rather be alone, start writing a book, or cultivate a self-taught art. If you feel comfortable talking to others and going out, do these activities. Join a club, organize excursions, volunteer, in short, dedicate yourself to what you prefer. Make your life exciting. You sure want to have some conversation points when you're in front of a girl, don't you?
If we haven't convinced you and you prefer to stay on the couch playing COD, then try becoming a competitive player. Take part in video game tournaments, so you have something really interesting to offer
Step 3. Be kind and respectful to everyone
You probably already are, however, if you have a standoffish attitude and treat others badly, you will have more of a problem attracting women. If you are polite to girls you like but behave unpleasant to everyone else, women will notice. Be polite, kind and respectful towards everyone and the girls will be sure they can always expect this attitude.
Step 4. Be stable
To become one, you need to have a good job, keep your promises, and generally be responsible. Don't think that women have big claims. They don't expect you to have a well-paid profession to make a living - they just want to know you're not a dead weight! Just like you wouldn't want to keep a girl who doesn't do anything from morning to night, women don't want a man who sits all day eating chips. If you show her that you can pay the bills and hold onto a good job, she'll be much more likely to want to hang out with you.
Step 5. Become her unblemished and fearless knight
Being a knight doesn't mean treating her like she can't do something on her own. It means giving her the tools she needs to save herself. When she has a bad day, support her emotionally. Encourage her to talk about her problems so she can find a solution. When she asks for help or advice, give it to her, without judging or criticizing her. Find ways to make her life easier and help her achieve her goals.
Step 6. Don't be grumpy and don't react badly to rejection
You can also be the most beautiful man on the face of the earth, but remember that this is not all. Women don't have to want to go out with you. Remember this well and don't offend one in case of two of spades. Think about it for a moment: if a girl you find unattractive and boring started insulting you and telling you that you are a loser after receiving rejection from you, how would you feel? Sometimes there is no spark between two people. It's not your fault, but it's not the woman you like either. Keep searching and you will find the perfect one for you.
Method 3 of 3: Being Independent
Step 1. Do what you like
If you don't want to go out and take the initiative with the girls you like, you need to make sure you indulge in what you like best and get distracted. Don't wait for a woman to approach you and don't send flowers once a week to the ones you care about. Just do what you want and wait for them to come to you. Here's what you can try:
- Spend time with your friends. You can also invite them to play COD.
- Be alone. Finally, a little peace and quiet. Go around the house in boxers!
- Do what you like. This is the perfect time to develop those skills that girls find particularly attractive.
Step 2. Give girls freedom
Women don't want to date a maniacally clingy or manipulative man. If you have friends and you want to put yourself in a good light, it shows that you are perfectly happy to pursue your passions without them. Don't bother them by constantly inviting them out, don't invite yourself every time they go out (or follow them without even asking), don't try to trap them in a corner when you want to talk, avoid making them feel guilty or manipulating them to go to the places you want. Show that they are free to go where they want and do what they like best. And if they want to invite you to do something with them, try to be there.
Step 3. Don't act like a sheep
Set trends, don't follow them. Girls are attracted to men they consider cool. Try to be independent and show your personality instead of copying what others are doing.
Step 4. Don't be creepy
This is very important in getting a woman to go out with you. Avoid making awkward comments or jokes. When you talk to a girl, look her in the eye. Don't stalk anyone. If a woman realizes that you are creepy, she will likely spread the word, warn her friends, and you will be doomed to failure.
In general, follow this rule: If you wouldn't make a certain comment in front of your mother, don't do it in front of a girl, especially if you don't know her well
Step 5. On the other hand, don't seem too independent
You shouldn't give the impression that you have no intention of dating a girl at all. Flirt occasionally or find other ways to show interest.
Advice
- If a guy approached you in a club and tried to make friends, how would you behave? Would you blush, stammer and do weird things? Probably not. If a girl comes to you, treat her with the same naturalness, even if she is so beautiful that it takes your breath away. You will persuade her to feel even more interested in you.
- Basically, we want to tell you to proceed gradually, not to think immediately about what it would be like to date a person. You know it's not easy, but you have to let things take their course. When you get comfortable with this girl, it will be easier for both of you to step forward.
Warnings
- Basically, this article aims to encourage you to change the way you do to become a candidate. Follow these tips, and it will be easier to get the other sex's attention. Don't be too enthusiastic. Always stay detached, remember who you are and how you should behave: you will probably be successful.
- Don't let yourself be dented by your insecurities or aspects you can't change. Lots of guys know they're interesting, but their bodies make them insecure. It is important to avoid this, because otherwise it will be more difficult to succeed.
- Be brave, stand up and believe in yourself.
- If you happen to gibber when talking to a girl, the situation becomes uncomfortable, or you start to run out of good conversation topics, walk away, but not out of the blue. Avoid awkward moments at all costs. When they show up, make up an excuse to leave. This way, you can regain your composure and not make the same mistake in the future.
- Remember to have an alpha male mentality. Be a leader, a respectable figure. This doesn't mean you have to rule people around, just act like you're a natural leader.
