If you are flirting with a man and wondering if he is interested in you, his gestures may indicate this before he declares it to you. Observe the position of her body in relation to yours. Pay attention to facial cues, such as eye contact, smile, and brow movements. You can also get some clues from his way of using his hands when you are together. Keep in mind that while behavior isn't necessarily a sure sign of what a man thinks in these situations, putting it all together can tell if he has an interest in you and wants to flirt.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Assessing the Position of His Body
Step 1. Notice if it stands in front
You can tell if he's interested in the simple fact that he's turned towards you or not. If he likes you, his body faces you. Conversely, if he is not interested, he tends to turn his back or move so that he is not facing you.
- For example, if he is standing, he should show his interest by standing with his shoulders, chest, hips and feet pointing in your direction. Even when seated it should be turned towards you and even lean more towards you to communicate attention. If he stands back with his arms crossed, he is likely not having a strong interest.
- If he's turned in your direction, try to do the same with him.
advise: if he is sitting, pay attention to his posture. If his legs are spread, he may be subconsciously trying to show the horse.
Step 2. Note the position of the hands
Can you see them? If you see them, that's a great sign of interest on his part. Otherwise, if you can't see them because they're in your pocket or hidden under your crossed arms, chances are they don't have any attraction to you.
An even stronger clue is when he sits across from him and puts his hands on the table. It could indicate that he is trying to get closer to you. Try putting them on the table too. If he likes you, he may grasp your gesture and reach out one or both hands
Step 3. See if she physically agitates
It could indicate nervousness because it interests him. See if he often changes position even if he is sitting, if he does not know where to put his hands, if he bangs his foot on the ground or assumes other attitudes of nervousness.
If he has a drink in his hand, he may also be fiddling with the bottle or glass. This behavior probably indicates nervousness, but also an unconscious desire to touch you
Step 4. Notice if she puts her hands on her hips
If he has a lot of self-confidence or is just trying to look this way, he might adopt a gritty pose to show his interest. For example, he could stand with his legs slightly apart and his hands resting on his hips.
The fact of putting the hands on the hips has the purpose of directing the attention of the onlookers to their "attributes". The hirer is probably not aware of this, but your eyes may naturally be drawn to the position of your hands and also the direction in which your fingers are pointing
Part 2 of 3: Decoding the Facial Clues
Step 1. Look him in the eye and see if he does the same
Eye contact is a classic seduction move that indicates some involvement. Try staring at it for 2-3 seconds and see if it holds your gaze or looks away. If he's following you, then you might like him, but if he's looking away, it's possible he's not interested.
Some people are too shy to hold eye contact, so consider other clues if she doesn't look you in the eye for more than a second
advise: If you make eye contact for 2-3 seconds from opposite sides of the room, it could come to you. If he doesn't do it right away, but you keep seeing him looking at you, try approaching and introducing yourself. He may be too shy to take the initiative.
Step 2. Look at her smile
You can recognize a fake smile and a sincere one because the latter illuminates the whole face. If you have the impression that while smiling, this expression also infects the eyes, then it is authentic and may be interested in you. However, if it feels forced, you may not like it.
- Try smiling at him when you look into each other's eyes and see if he reciprocates. If this happens, that's a good sign. If he has no reaction or gives a hint of a half smile, he may not be interested.
- For example, you might emphasize how he smiles by saying, "You have a great smile!"
Step 3. See if he raises his eyebrows or widens his nostrils
They are almost unnoticeable signs of seduction that men often throw when they first look at a person they are interested in. So be careful if you quickly raise one or both eyebrows or widen your nostrils. It might just do that for a second, but that's a good sign.
- If he smiles as he raises his eyebrows, it is an indisputable sign of interest.
- You too can raise your eyebrows and smile to show him, in turn, that you are interested in him.
Step 4. Pay attention to where he is looking
Seeing you for the first time, he may be gently observing your body. If you keep doing this while you're talking, it's a strong sign of interest. He may also intentionally look at you to let you know.
- For example, if you notice her gaze moving from her face to her hips, it means she is attracted to you.
- If he doesn't hide it, you could even comment in a seductive way, saying, for example, "Do you like the view?".
Step 5. Notice if his lips part as he looks at you
She may slightly part her lips when she looks at you. It is a gesture that indicates sexual attraction. If you notice this, that's a very good sign.
- He may even lightly moisten them with his tongue. It's an even more obvious clue that he likes you.
- Try opening your mouth slightly or just biting your lower lip to reciprocate.
Part 3 of 3: Observe the Hands for Signs of its Attraction
Step 1. See if he fixes his tie, socks or buttons
These small gestures of attention to his person indicate that he is interested and that he wants to make a good impression. Therefore, he could pull up his socks, adjust his tie or jacket cuffs, button and unbutton himself, or play with some other piece of his clothing. If it doesn't stop, treat them as great signs.
If you notice this attitude, it might be a good time to compliment him on his outfit. Try saying, "I like the color of your tie. It brings out the green of your eyes."
advise: You too may notice that you are constantly touching some garment. Do not worry! He'll think you want to make a good impression too.
Step 2. Notice if she strokes her hair, face or beard
In addition to frequently touching clothes, he may also stroke his hair, dishevel, touch his beard or mustache, or run his hand over his face. He could also do it unconsciously, but in this case it means that he is interested.
If you notice these attitudes, try complimenting him, for example, saying, "I like your haircut. It's really classy!" or "What a nice manicured beard! Can I touch it, if you don't mind?"
Step 3. See if he gestures a lot while talking
The fact of accompanying words with hand gestures is often a symptom of trust, but it can also indicate interest in one's interlocutor. If he accentuates this attitude, it's a bit like he's saying: "Look at me!". He may be doing this to secure your attention.
Try to imitate the way he gestures while you speak, but only if it comes to you spontaneously. Avoid if you are not natural
Step 4. Pay attention to physical contact
Gently touching you could also be a clear sign of interest. He probably wouldn't touch you if he wasn't interested, so be careful whenever that happens. Here are some subtle ways it might do this:
- Be close to you so that his body is in contact with yours;
- Caress the lower back or arm
- Remove your hair from your eyes;
- Hold your hand.
