The girls are all different from each other and that is why each of them gets aroused for different reasons. As a result, everything you say needs to be tailored to the girl in front of you. However, there are some common strategies that can work, assuming you already have some confidence. Make sure you have plenty of time to spare as with a slow and sensual approach you will get much better results than a hasty one.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Getting Started
Step 1. Make sure you speak in person
When you want to turn a girl on with words, it's important that she can hear your voice well. Chat and text messages definitely don't have the same effect; it might work for sure, but she'll get more aroused if you have a way to let her hear the sexy tone of your voice.
Bring out the lowest tone of voice you have when you talk to her. Recent studies have shown that men with deep voices have more sexual partners and that women, in turn, are more attracted to this type of voice. Now, that's not to say that you have to lower the pitch of your voice to the point where it sounds artificial because that's not how it works. However, if you have a high-pitched voice, try to drop at least one pitch as you speak to her
Step 2. Set the mood
When you start talking to her, it's important to create the right mood by saying phrases like "I can't stop thinking about you", or "I've been waiting to hear your voice all day." This will help you get closer and feel more intimate. Make sure you are alone and in a sexy and comfortable environment; you may not want to turn her on in public.
- Other possible phrases are: "Before I was away from you I did not know it was possible to miss you so much", or "You are beautiful, as always anyway". Be sweet, but concise; a compliment that is too elaborate could come off wrong or be misunderstood.
- Don't compare her to other women. Even if you're telling her she's the smartest, cutest, and funniest, avoid comparisons. She absolutely doesn't want you to compare her to other women, because she just doesn't want you to think about other women. He wants to be the only woman in your thoughts. If she thinks you have other women on her mind, all desire will pass.
Step 3. Ask her a good question
A question that allows her to answer you properly. Tell her, "So, how was your day?" or "What are you doing for the weekend?". This will get her to talk and let her know that you care about her.
- Asking her a good question will show her that you care what she has to say. Girls want to be sexy and interesting; for them, a pleasant conversation is a good way to melt the ice.
- If she answers in monosyllables, tease her with more questions, showing your interest and real desire to know. You want her to let go and talk about the things that interest her while you prove you're a good listener.
- Be fun and playful if you can. Girls like guys who have a sense of humor and who know how to have fun. If you can make her laugh and keep her on edge, she's more likely to get aroused. Look for a few lines and practice saying the ones she might like, or start building your own repertoire of lines to draw from when you feel like you need a laugh.
Step 4. Always compliment her when the opportunity presents itself
If she asks how your day went, tell her that you spent the time thinking about her. Take this opportunity to compliment her on her physical appearance, as long as they are not pushed. Say something like "I couldn't stop thinking about you and your sexy smile": it works.
- Keep the conversation going by asking her personal questions and showing interest in the answers. The right way to turn her on is to give her a series of small compliments every now and then. Prepare a few things to say to her to make her feel special.
- Girls like it when you notice something about them that they like too. So, if you know she likes the color of her eyes, say something like "I love the way your eyes shine when you smile." If she likes her hair, tell her something like "Your hair is so soft and straight, do you know it's beautiful?".
- Start giving her slightly sexier compliments. If he says "Stop it!" or "You're just saying that to please me," but in the meantime he chuckles, keeps complimenting her like that. You are definitely on the right track.
Step 5. Now you can start telling her what you would like to do with her
Make sure what you say to her is sexy and romantic and not vulgar and rude. Don't be too explicit when you start talking about what you would like to do; you must first create the wait.
- It is up to you at this point to find the right words; for example you could say: "If we were together, I would slowly run my hand through your hair and kiss you. I would massage your back while I kiss you on the neck. I would lie down beside you and walk your soft curves with my fingers" … and so Street. Be creative. Imagination and fancy words can help.
- Here are some compliments that you could pull off: "This morning I woke up and thought about you. Yesterday too, going to bed I thought about you. And do you know what I thought? I imagined the two of us, together, curled up in bed, and this made you happy ".
- Another thing you might say is, "You give me goosebumps. Every time you touch me, I go crazy because I know you're the only one who does this. Nobody else can. Your smile is like. a punch in the stomach, in a metaphorical sense ".
Step 6. Make her feel special
In your way, make her feel the sexiest woman on earth. If you make her imagine yourself sexually, you can be sure she'll keep thinking about you even after the conversation is over. This is the most important aspect of turning a girl on; you don't have to make it feel like an object.
As you try to excite her with words, make sure you let her know that you wouldn't talk like this to anyone else. Let her know how lucky you feel to be with her
Part 2 of 2: Warm Up the Atmosphere
Step 1. Tell her you want her
One of the simplest things to say when you want to warm the mood are these simple words: "I want you". You can add any variations you like, but this sentence will make the girl realize how much you would like to be in physical intimacy with her and may be enough to turn her on. Make eye contact and show her that you are not afraid to say what you want and what you need. Here are some things you can say:
- "I want you so much right now."
- "I've been wanting you all day."
- "I've never wanted you so much in my entire life."
- "With that dress I want you like never before."
Step 2. Tell her something nice about her body
Moving forward, you can compliment your girlfriend about her body in a less chaste way. If you are certain that she is playing along and that she appreciates compliments on body parts other than her face, you can start to dare by saying compliments on the parts of her body that turn you on. Just make sure you don't offend her and that your comments are welcome. Here are some things you can say:
- "Your breasts are beautiful in that dress."
- "You have amazing legs."
- "I love the way you move your hips."
Step 3. Tell her what you would like to do to her
Now that you've told your girlfriend what you appreciate about her body, you can go a little further and tell her what you would like to do with her body. You can be more explicit if you wish, but in general, you say enough to make her imagine that she has your hands all over her body, and that should be enough to get her aroused. Here are some things you can say:
- "I want to put my hand between your thighs".
- "Can't wait to kiss you at the base of your neck."
- "I want to caress and kiss every part of your body".
Step 4. Say what you would like her to do to you
Now, as you continue to excite her with words, you can tell her what you would like her to do to you. This way you will describe a sexy image to her and turn her on in no time. Make sure, of course, that she has already done these things, so as not to surprise her, and not to be too explicit. Here are some things you can say:
- "I want you to take off my shirt".
- "I want you to kiss me on the chest and shoulders."
- "I want you to come on top of me and start kissing my neck."
Step 5. Describe how it makes you feel
If you want to get your girlfriend aroused, you don't have to be ashamed to say how aroused you are at the very sight of her. He'll get excited at the thought of being able to get you aroused by just his presence. Here are some ways you can let her know how you feel:
- "I'm so excited just because you're here."
- "You make me feel so excited."
- "My whole body quivers when I look at you. You have no idea how you make me feel."
Step 6. Reveal your fantasies
Another way to turn your girlfriend on is to tell her about the fantasies you have of the two of you together. It can be role playing, explicit things you would like to do to her or she should do to you, or a place that has always sparked your fantasy. Don't be afraid to tell her what you've always dreamed of and try to make it a reality together.
Ask her to do the same. This may turn you on even more
Step 7. Consider texting her later to continue making her feel sexy
While it's best to turn your girlfriend on in person, you can continue to make her feel sexy even after saying goodbye by sending her a sexy message later to show her that you still think about her and her body. Write a sweet and simple message, but also make sure you include phrases that excite her and prepare her for the next meeting. Here are some things you can say:
- "I can't stop thinking about last night. Can't wait to see you again."
- "When I close my eyes, I only see your wonderful body".
- "Last night was beautiful. I can't wait to have you in my arms again."
Advice
- Don't turn this flattering attitude into a routine or she will notice that you do this because you want to have sex. You would ruin your relationship.
- Make her feel wanted. If you find she is silent, start asking her romantic questions while holding her hand, but use your creativity. Remember, showing too much perversion can ruin a relationship.
- You can avoid awkward silences if you go slow or wait for her to be ready.
- If after one of your sexy compliments or hints, she doesn't say anything and remains silent for a long time, the possibilities are two: either you have scared her with your excessive enthusiasm, or she is deeply enjoying your words. You will have to evaluate - if you don't know which of the two situations you are facing, do something. Refrain, however, from any moves of a sexual nature if you are not sure that she appreciates.
- Don't compliment her too much or she'll realize you have ulterior motives and are pressuring her.
- You will need to use a confident and sexy voice for these tips to be successful.
