A presumptuous person is one who often expresses their opinions without being asked. Sure, sometimes opinions can just "run away", but it becomes a problem if it happens habitually. While not doing it maliciously, these types of people are often considered annoying anyway. It is not uncommon to meet some of them, but here is a sort of guide on how to behave if this happens to you.
Steps
Step 1. Understand what is meant by "presumptuous"
Presumptuous people often disrespect the beliefs of others and have an opinion on every single issue. They also tend to express their opinion in company and get angry or annoyed when someone respectfully criticizes their opinion. Often, they think you are interested in what they have to say and even if they know you are not, they continue undeterred.
Step 2. Read the examples below to find out if you are dealing with a presumptuous person
Note that the second example is much more respectful than the first.
- Very conceited: I like pizza and people who don't like it are stupid.
- Not conceited: I like pizza, but if you don't like it, that's okay.
Step 3. Show the person that you don't care
Listen to his opinion and respect it, but don't think you have to share it. Remember that it is not possible to "change" the behavior or opinions of others.
Step 4. Stand up for yourself
If you disrespect or offend you, respectfully tell him that your opinions are just as important as his. If he gets "angry" about what you said, that's not your problem; it is not fair for him to be offended just because you assert your opinion.
Step 5. Try to avoid presumptuous people
This does not mean that you absolutely do not have to spend time with them (for example, at family events); however, try to keep your distance.
Advice
- Be patient and remember that people don't change overnight.
- Always be respectful, especially if you are an elderly relative - to always be respected even if it is very "annoying".
