Have you ever thought about making yourself a new and better person? Changing and differentiating in life can make you feel better. Sometimes we feel like we're always the same, and that's not always a good thing. Changes can be really healthy for our self-esteem.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: The Appearance
Step 1. Adopt a new style
Go shopping and get a new wardrobe, fill the wardrobe with clothes appropriate to your personality, which make you feel at ease and give you confidence. And if you don't have a lot of money to shop, you can try some tailoring jobs and make some clothes yourself, or make some accessories. You can find a lot of advice on the internet. You may even acquire new skills!
Step 2. Change your hairstyle
You can choose a new haircut and a totally different style that you like. Or dye them a different color. Do what makes you feel more confident.
Step 3. Treat yourself
You can buy a new perfume, get a manicure, or just take a warm bath every now and then.
Step 4. Change the things you don't like
It is not enough to complain, something must be done about it! Make a list of about forty things you would like to change and choose one at a time to work on. However, keep in mind that many physical things cannot be changed, so don't be too hard on yourself.
Part 2 of 2: The Attitude
Step 1. Be confident
It is the key to being a better person. Start thinking of yourself as the person you always wanted to be, and stick to that.
Step 2. Meet new people
Go to new environments, interact freely with new people, it's really healthy to surround yourself with interesting people.
Step 3. Do new activities
Even if it's just going to the mall or playing a new sport that may interest you, stop bad habits and start doing the things you enjoy.
Step 4. Listen to new genres of music
If you are a hardcore rock fan, why not listen to classical music instead? Or if you like country, why not try some old school rock? You probably won't like all the music genres you try to listen to, but who knows, you might find just one that you are passionate about.
Step 5. Aim for success
Being successful at school or work can help you find yourself in a prime position for the rest of your life. You will have to put in a lot of effort, but it will pay off when you get the final result.
Advice
- Trust is essential, you must never forget that.
- Changing the way you think is the most important thing. Sometimes life becomes very different if we can take a new perspective on seeing things.
- If you're changing yourself to get someone's approval, forget it. You have to want it for yourself, not because someone else wants it.
- If you want to change but aren't sure what to renew about yourself, write down a list of all your characteristics that you don't like, and then list the qualities you prefer. For example, if you think you are a little naive and would like to be a little more assertive, write it down.
- Whatever happens in life you must always move on, don't let anyone overwhelm you. Always be on the alert, because people don't always have good intentions.
- Change yourself to become a better person. Don't do it just to "fit in".
- Make it your goal to become a better version of the person you already are, because everyone has good qualities that don't need to be changed.
- Don't make a problem of it if you can't. Just think about the good things about yourself.
- It is not always about changing, but rather about accepting.
