Have you ever wondered what girls think? Or are you a girl and you want to know what's going on in guys' minds? Here's a way to find out!
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Get Information if You Are a Boy
Step 1. Recruit a girl to help you
It will tell you if something is wrong and if you cannot carry out this plan. She might even take pictures and tell her friends about it, but with proper planning, you can avoid that.
Step 2. Buy a girl's wig for long hair
If you want, it can be the same color as you. Or, if you have long hair, avoid cutting it (it may take a while to get it the way you want it). Comb the wig and put it on. You could also use hair extensions, but make sure they are the same color as your hair.
Step 3. Create the breasts
If girls your age haven't developed yet, don't worry about this step. If, on the other hand, they already have breasts, this is one of the most important parts. Don't borrow a bra from your mother / sister / girlfriend without her consent, buy one for yourself. Try to get a black or pink one, because you can see through the shirt and make it clear that you are wearing it (and others will see it). Insert something into the cups to form the breasts. Cut one leg out of a pair of nude colored stockings, put some bird food inside, tie a knot (this is your nipple). Socks and handkerchiefs can work too, but create an uneven surface. You could also opt for sponges. Look at the average size of your peers' breasts. If they are still small, show the bra straps to show that you are wearing one. Finally, you can choose silicone breasts to adhere with the adhesive to hold them on (expensive) or silicone gel pads to fill the bra (cheap method and sometimes used by most teens)!
Step 4. Make your waist and belly look slimmer
This is essential if you are a teenager with a masculine body. Avoid over-training your abs or other muscles. If you already have toned abs, buy a corset with laces to adjust for the purpose of resizing the waistline.
Step 5. Put on some accessories
If you already have pierced earlobes, you can put earrings on both ears. If you have a cherry lip balm that adds color to your lips, apply it. Or you can use a gloss. And, if you really want to be daring, buy a mascara or false eyelashes. Do you want to try wearing makeup? Again, you can get a girl to help you out.
Step 6. Wear girly clothes
Try to wear something feminine, but not too much, like a skirt and a white shirt. Or you could wear a pink sweater and a pair of jeans. The choice is yours. Also, you could try to borrow a purse (if you want). If you wear a garment that shows off your legs or armpits (and you don't live in France), you will need to shave.
Step 7. Start sabotaging other girls
Before you can get close to girls, you need a name. Try changing your original name from male to female, for example, go from Giovanni to Giovanna, from Michele to Michela, from Alessandro to Alessandra. If you go to school, make up excuses, for example you can simply say that you are a “new student” who will be attending classes that day because your family may be moving to the city.
Step 8. Do your research
Find out what girls like. Try talking to them to find out more about their tastes and sneak up on the information you need, such as "who likes who" or "who said what", in short, this kind of data. Ask the right questions.
Step 9. Do specific feminine things
Asking too many questions is a surefire way to reveal your true identity, and thus make it clear that you are not a girl. Make sure you talk about frivolous topics, make up stories, for example you can say that last Saturday your hair was way too rebellious and you couldn't style it in any way.
Step 10. Use your voice, or adjust it
Try to make sure it doesn't sound too high and feminine, but only slightly so, otherwise your attempt will be obvious.
Step 11. Flirt with the guys
A lot of girls might get the idea that you're not one of them if you don't flirt with guys. So, try talking to them and let them woo you. Many times you will have to go out with one (and kiss him). Sure, you may not like guys from that point of view, but that will make the girls open up in front of you and therefore they will be more likely to tell you their secrets, to get the information you want. But make sure no one finds out your secret!
Step 12. Prepare to escape if the girls find out that you are a boy
Method 2 of 2: Get Information if You Are a Girl
Step 1. Get a guy for help
His advice will be crucial. Make sure he isn't going to go around telling you everything or give you hints and make you go astray. It can tell you if there is something wrong with your appearance and fix a mistake before it's too late.
Step 2. Cut your hair
Although this can hurt you terribly, it shortens your hair. Go for a masculine cut (like the pixie one) for a masculine-looking hair. But if you have absolutely no intention of cutting your hair, you can always hide it under a baseball cap or take a cue from Hannah Montana and put on a wig. Or, if you have long hair, try pulling it up into a high ponytail, hide it under a cap and pull out the ends.
Step 3. Put the makeup and earrings aside
Guys don't like these things. You can only wear a small earring if you like. Also, wear sunglasses. They will cover your eyes, so you will be unrecognizable. They will never understand that you are a girl. You can also get your face a little dirty. Also, always remember not to show the typically feminine details of your body, such as shaved legs or armpits. Guys don't shave their legs.
Step 4. Hide the neckline
If your breasts are noticeable, put on a bra that matches the color of your clothes and tighten it. This may be uncomfortable, but it's a good way to keep this part of your body hidden.
Step 5. Small talk
Boys are usually more relaxed than girls; this does not make them very open to so many questions. Ease your transformation and adapt slowly by talking about unimportant topics.
Step 6. Put on men's clothes
This might be a little tricky, but you can opt for clothing like jeans, t-shirts, and over-sized sweaters. If you can, take a foray into your brother's or close friend's closet. Also, you may need to wear something (tight sports bras, headbands, etc.) so that your chest is less noticeable. However, jeans can have disadvantages as they are different for each sex. If you can't find baggy jeans, then wear some old sweatpants. Just make sure their looks aren't too worn. Put on a baseball cap and never, ever dress in pink, or the guys will show suspicion about why you approached them. Put on dirty sports shoes that don't look feminine at all and walk at a slower pace. Hunching over slightly demonstrates the fact that you feel comfortable with these guys. Don't be afraid to get into the part.
Step 7. Create a new name
For example, he goes from Cristina to Christian, from Alessandra to Alessandro. If your name can't be easily changed to a masculine one, use one that is easy to remember, such as that of a member of your family.
Step 8. Get closer to the boys
Don't do it with those who know you. This could spell disaster. Try not to act awkward when you are with them, but laugh at their jokes and don't talk about female topics. This includes bags, dating, makeup and boys. Finally, try to stealthily steal the information you need.
Advice
- Using the bathroom isn't that hard, but don't pretend you have parts you don't have. A guy can sit down to pee, so take advantage of the toilet cubicles and the privacy they give you.
- If you are a girl and want to dress up as a boy, and by chance they hit you in the groin area, make sure you act like it hurts. Take the movie “She's the Man” as an example.
- Go easy on the makeup. You don't need it in either case, and messing around could make others understand your plan.
- If you're a girl and have a high-pitched voice, try lowering it when you're with other guys.
- If you are a boy and have a pronounced Adam's apple, try to hide it, otherwise they may discover your disguise. Turtlenecks or turtlenecks are a good choice.
- If you want help "transform", consider turning to transsexual or transvestite forums. They are generally very friendly and have carefully studied minute details in order to resemble the opposite sex.
- If you are a boy, try to avoid very low-cut shirts, unless you have a feminine figure by nature.
Warnings
- Don't go overboard with your attempts to look like a girl or a boy! The film "She's the Man" is a perfect example of this! Watch the film to find out what NOT to do!
- Do this only if you are completely willing to try and able to bear the consequences.
- Always check the final work when you go back to being yourself; if you still have makeup on your face or are wearing girlish clothes, it can be very embarrassing to go to school in a pink skirt or smudged pink lipstick.
- If you are a boy, do not shave your legs, otherwise you will arouse suspicion when you are not disguised. Wear only socks.
- Ask your girlfriend / sister / mother to borrow her black bra, because if you do it without her permission, she will get angry. All you have to do is ask and, if she understands you, ask her to buy more clothes for you.
