Every so often a boy is born who would feel much more comfortable in a girl's body. Unfortunately, these guys can't always just start living as girls. If you are one of these guys, you will find some tips here.
Steps
Step 1. Be yourself
Even if you can't live like a girl, that doesn't mean you have to be "macho" or pretend you like things you don't. All of this would only make you feel worse about yourself and your situation.
Step 2. Let your hair grow
Wash them every day and take special care of them.
Step 3. Take care of your hair, skin and nails
This will help you feel more feminine, and if you decide to undergo a sex change in the future, it will make it easier.
Step 4. Wear comfortable and attractive clothing
Don't be afraid to search among the women's clothing displayed in stores or malls in your city. Fortunately, it's very common to see guys wearing women's jeans, and it's increasingly likely that the shoes on sale are unisex. Wear masculine clothes with a feminine touch like striped t-shirts, hats etc …
Step 5. Find someone to confide in
Whether it's your best friend, a relative, a support group, a doctor or a psychiatrist, it's very important that you are able to express your feelings and confront each other. If you need help getting out there, there are - literally - hundreds of online resources where you can find advice and even personal help.
Step 6. If you are feeling low, a therapist is the perfect person to talk to
Step 7. Mask yourself whenever you can
Not in the sense of going to your sister's room and ransacking her closet! Dressing up for Halloween is one of the best ways to have fun as a girl without being judged. It also offers ideas for introducing the topic of becoming a girl… permanently.
Step 8. Go out with friends
Step 9. As a girl, you will have a lot of things to think about
Your hair, your skin, your boyfriends, etc.
Advice
- Change your gender as soon as possible to avoid spending thousands of dollars trying to counter the effect of puberty. Sometimes it's best to think about it before graduation.
- Take your time to evaluate if you really want to be a girl or if you are just confused. Sometimes this is a phase of contradictory sexual feelings and impulses, or even a perversion that is not always easily recognized.
- If you are extremely manly in appearance and have no hope of passing as a girl, look for relief valves for your feelings. You can do simple things like go to some gay club or you can try to live with people who accept you enough to tolerate your dressing up like a woman. Or better yet, learn not to worry about what others think of you and do what you want!
Warnings
- DON'T let discomfort and fear stop you from asking for help when you feel the need. No common sense person would ever judge you or refuse to help you.
- Unfortunately we live in a world full of dull and violent people. Always pay attention to your safety when you are around such people.
- Do not think that the different traits of the human being can be categorized as belonging to one gender or the other. Strength and femininity are not the opposite of each other.
