Sometimes it's easy to turn badly to a brother or take it for granted. Yet for many people who have a brother it can be good to evaluate his positive qualities, acknowledge all that he does good (even for you) and offer him moral support that shows him your sincere good and that you are happy to be his brother..
Steps
Method 1 of 5: Say Something Nice
Step 1. Give him a compliment
There are times when a kind word can be enough to cheer someone up in a difficult time or after a hard day. Here are some simple tips to try:
- “You have great ideas! You are always very creative."
- "I'm very lucky to have a brother like you."
- "It's fun to play with you because you are very agile."
- "You have a really nice smile."
Step 2. Show your affection
Three simple words: "I love you". They are extremely meaningful and are of great value to many people. Telling your brother that you love him is a great show of affection.
Step 3. Try to avoid negativity
Make a commitment not to grumble, meddle, or annoy him. Like anyone else, siblings can easily get irritated if they think they are always being told what to do, if they are constantly buzzing around or annoyed at them. Think about how boring it would be if your brother did this to you and try to keep a positive attitude.
Step 4. Praise him
Never refrain from praising your brother. If you notice that he has done something good, tell him (it is also a good way to entice him to do it again).
- If he is working hard to study a certain subject, tell him how diligent he is in his studies and that he will surely get good grades.
- Even if unsuccessful, praise can be used to build resilience. Try saying something like, “You really worked so hard. You almost made it the last time ".
- Remember to praise the commitment and not the result. If you praise the outcome or success, your brother may associate praise with success and forget all the effort it took to achieve the goal.
Method 2 of 5: Doing a Good Deed
Step 1. Give up on futile and irrelevant discussions
Occasional discussions between siblings are inevitable and happen at any age. Instead of continuing to argue, consider when to continue the confrontation and when it is better to leave it alone. Try to compromise or put yourself in his shoes for a change of perspective when you feel extremely unhappy about what is happening between you. Maybe you would surprise him so much that he too would understand your point of view!
Step 2. Be kind and show respect
Always try to act kind and respectful even when it seems difficult or is not appreciated. Ultimately, it could help you avoid potential bickering or bullying.
Step 3. Clean your brother's room
It might be a challenging task, especially if he's a messy guy, but it's something that could make him really happy. He tries to put the things he likes close at hand and put what he hardly ever uses in the back of the wardrobe.
- Organize your CDs and DVDs in alphabetical order. Let him know exactly where his favorites are.
- She folds and arranges her clothes. Occasionally the clothes get mixed up. Tidy up her closet and put all clothing of the same type together.
- Sweeps and dusts. Cleaning and tidying up properly requires a little elbow grease, but it's a good idea if your brother doesn't want others to touch his things left lying around.
Step 4. Do the work assigned to your brother
Doing your brother's household chores will give him extra time to do what he likes. Being selfless helps you really reflect on how much you value and love your brother and is certainly a welcome thing. There may also be the added value of your parents noticing and rewarding you.
Method 3 of 5: Give a Gift
Step 1. Give him some space
Leaving him alone might seem like a small thing, but it might be exactly what he needs. Try to give your brother the space he needs to go about his business and expect him to do the same with you. Even if it is nice to spend some time together, don't always be on top of him pretending to be his best friend.
Step 2. Buy him one of his favorite items
Unexpected gifts at unexpected times are a perfect way to make people happy. It doesn't have to be demanding, just a small token of your affection for her.
- On your way home, stop by to buy him his favorite snack. No one resists a sin of gluttony.
- Did they give you change at the cashier? Buy some candy he likes. Those candies are not there by chance, but because people generally buy on impulse the things that attract them.
- A simple card with a sincere phrase is a great way to express your feelings. Try the musical ones to make him laugh.
Step 3. Give him something of yours
Most people who have brothers or sisters want something that belongs to them. If you have something you no longer use, such as a dress, jewelry, or electronic device, giving it to your sibling is a perfect way to show that you love him.
Step 4. Do something for him
It doesn't have to be anything fancy or time-consuming; there are many easy-to-make items that equally demonstrate your commitment.
- A handcrafted tic-tac-toe game is simple to make and fun is guaranteed. Six moving pieces between X and O and a table with four lines and it's done.
- Create a simple crochet or knit project. If you get along well with threads and balls, a simple project like a crochet blanket could be an original idea.
- Try making a clock out of a plastic plate! Useful, functional, fun and perfect to hang in your brother's room or office. It is especially useful if you are always late.
Method 4 of 5: Spend Time with Your Brother
Step 1. Be there in difficult times
Life doesn't always go according to plan and there may be times when your brother needs you. Be there for him and offer him emotional support when he faces problems in his relationship, work, health or otherwise. In return, he is likely to do the same to you too.
Step 2. Take a trip together
You can learn a lot about each other while you are out of your ordinary environment and do something that requires the collaboration of both. Try organizing outdoor activities with him to simply spend a good time.
- The campsite is ideal for a short escape. Set up a tent, light the fire and take out the essentials. A night under the stars could be an excellent experience to strengthen your bond.
- Trek together. Take a mountain bike or put on your hiking shoes before you venture out.
- Going fishing is a perfect way to spend time together calmly. Sitting by a stream can give both of you the opportunity to converse in a productive way and maybe even bite some fish.
- If you don't live together, make an appointment to see each other at the bar or at each other's home for a coffee or dinner. If either of you lives overseas, arrange for one of you to go on the "trip of a lifetime" to meet you in a different place.
Step 3. Have fun together
Find a form of entertainment to laugh or have fun together, a time that allows you to let yourself go with your brother.
- Jokes and puns are an excellent alternative to reconnect. You could go to a show where you laugh out loud or you could try to attend a cabaret show.
- Choose a movie to watch together. Go to a fancy theater, a cheap movie theater or rent a movie. Whatever it is, even just a movie on TV, find one that engages both of you.
- Go to a concert. Dress up in theme, sing all the songs and dance as long as you like. Going to a concert is also good for your health.
Step 4. Stand up for your brother or be present at important moments in his life
Sometimes your brother may find himself in a situation where he needs your help and voluntary support. Make sure you are there for him as a person who trusts and believes in him.
Method 5 of 5: Show Affection
Step 1. Hug your brother tightly
Hug him and tell him that you love him and that you are proud of him. There is no excuse for not doing it; every moment is the right one.
Step 2. Participate in the activities your brother does
This involves putting aside the things that you find boring, annoying and unfair. Try to give up on competitiveness and the desire to prevail. Simply list what your brother is good at and show that you appreciate such activities.
Step 3. Take care of him when he is not well
Bring him a bowl of chicken broth, take his temperature, or apply a cold towel to his forehead. Be her doctor for a day.
Step 4. Give your brother a kiss
In many cultures it is quite common to give kisses for different reasons. There are kisses on the cheek, lips and forehead. Whatever it is, kissing is an easy way to express your feelings.
Step 5. Give him a hand massage
The hands - and the surrounding areas - build up a lot of tension and are not so intimate as to seem inappropriate. A hand massage is especially helpful if your sibling does manual labor all day.
Step 6. Play with your brother
Whether it's joking around, jumping together, playing chase, or any other game, having physical contact with your sibling is a different form of physical interaction that he may enjoy. Getting a good sweat together is a great way to strengthen your bond.
