You have fallen madly in love with a Venus, the girl you think you will be happy with forever. Only one problem remains: he is bigger than you. The next few steps will help you get the girl of your dreams.
Steps
Step 1. Behave with maturity when flirting with her
If your seduction attempt is at first just smile at her and then later talk to her about something mature, like your team, a book you've recently read - something you know someone her age would find interesting.
Step 2. Be aware of your presentation
If you smell like you haven't had a shower in 2 days, you better hope she doesn't notice you. Make sure you wear a cologne (but not too much), comb your hair, and focus on looking your best. If you don't know which cologne to buy, ask a friend to help you. Check your posture - stand straight.
Step 3. Participate in an activity where she is there
If, for example, she is on a debate team, joining the team will get you noticed and considered by her.
Step 4. Don't be ashamed to ask her out
This is a surefire way to prove to her that you are more mature than you seem and it's a good thing. On top of that, dating is essential for her to become your girlfriend.
Step 5. Befriend his friends
This way you won't look like a complete stranger and will make you seem (and feel) more connected to the group.
Step 6. Know that an older girl may have more sexual experience than you do
Decide on your level of intimacy when you know her best.
Step 7. In the end, the age difference doesn't mean much
Relax, get to know her, and follow the relationship as you would any other.
Advice
- Don't forget that you must like your girlfriend's personality. If you just like its appearance, you may be disappointed later on.
- Be aware that she might worry about what her mates and friends would think if she dated a younger guy. This shouldn't stop you from going out. Be patient if she hesitates, but remember that it's really nobody else's business.
- It starts simply by becoming his friend. That way you can get to know her a little better. It is also a great, easy first step.
- Be nice. Use good manners. This will also make you stand out as a mature guy.
- Always be yourself! If you try to be someone you are not, she will realize it.
- Attracting an older girl requires the exact same skills as attracting a girl your age; you just have to be better.
- Talk to her like a mature person and stop playing.
Warnings
- If you join a team in which she is also present, you must have the skills to participate well. But if, for example, you groped in the dark at every debate, you will never earn his respect.
- Don't pretend to be someone you're not, or pretend you like things when they aren't. Honesty is important in any relationship.
- Don't let anyone treat you badly when you are with her, as it will make you look bad.
- Don't act immature in front of her, for example, avoid picking your nose.
- Don't use lines you've heard in a movie; that will not work. It is best to have a conversation with her.
- Don't use sweet words. You will end up saying the wrong thing and get a slap in the face.
